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The Tricky Issue of Respect and Power of Beautiful Women

A very important look at the topic of the power balance between men and women. It's very ironic yet women expect you to know the answer and live it.


Lusty Lovers: Seize Your Fears!

When the lovin' has turned to cussin' it's time to take out the Big Secret... change...


Common Marriage Problem – Bailing Out When the Going Gets Tough

Perhaps it’s because life has become easier over the years or perhaps it’s just because people have higher expectations than they did in the past but whatever the reason one of the most common marriage problems is to bail out when the going gets a little tough.


Teen Dating Violence: So, He Hits You

You walk hand in hand, talking about how lucky you both are to be together. You introduce one of your male friends to him. As you continue to walk, you notice that your boyfriend seems upset. He starts accusing you of flirting. You dismiss his argument as unreasonable and unfounded. He hits you.


Is Your Present Lifestyle Clouding Over Your Social Life?

Organising your time effectively is crucial for maintaining relationships and remaining mentally and physically fit. Here is what we find out


Men Cry Too

There have been volumes written about the differences between men and women. We clearly handle things differently. But, when it comes to matters of the heart; emotions are universal - A tear is a tear is a tear!


Relationship Wake Up Call

Do you wonder if you are paranoid or over-critical, maybe you have been told that you are too emotional or need to much attention? Most probably, you are not. Most likely the other person in the relationship is, sadly, playing a game with your emotions.


Break Ups - A Way to Cope

To anyone that’s been through one (and that’s probably most), a break up in a relationship and be catastrophic. Some sufferers even feel that it is the ‘End of the World’. If you haven’t ever had a bad relationship break up like this then you could probably sympathise with someone that has.


10 Things They Don't Tell You About Mental Abuse

Women are always quick to punish themselves for ending up in an abusive relationship. Mostly, they can't even explain how it happened. That's because nobody has ever told them 10 key things about mental abuse.


On Finding Mr. Right

You think you know exactly what you want in a man, right? You can probably even list the attributes, qualities and qualifications that your future husband needs in order to apply for the job of your mate. I had a three-tiered system myself.


The 5 Most Important Things In A Relationship

Are you looking for what you really want in a relationship? Or are you actually trying to compensate for what you lack? Find out how you can create a relationship that sustains and nurtures you.


Do We Rush Our Young Couples?

Do we unintentionally rush our young couples into marriage/parenthood ?


The Fourth Down - The Perfect Earth-Shattering Kiss

The perfect kiss will help lock you in with the man or woman of your dreams and will put you down in his / her memory banks forever! But, how do you achieve the perfect kiss? Each person has different feelings about the way they like to be kissed. A general rule for the first kiss is to be soft and brush his / her lips gently, without thrusting your tongue into your partner's mouth as if you were playing tonsil hockey.


Jim Belushi's Take on Dating, Sex and Marriage

I read somewhere that the human brain absorbs information at a deeper level when a person is laughing. If that's true, you will learn more about what it means to be a man, according to Jim, than any Dr. Phil lecture.


Memorial Day Brings Back Memories

A Vietnam Veteran remembers the tough times. Let's not forget our veterans of previous wars as we turn our attention to those now returning from Iraq and Afghanistan. God bless America.


Do You Have Faith In Your Partner?

Faith is one of the biggest assets. Most of us have faith in God. That means that we always believe that god will help us whenever we call on him. That God will be always support us. That god loves us and wants us to grow.


Understanding Abusive Relationships

I often hear people scoff at women for staying in an abusive situation. They don't understand why anyone would stay. As a person who has been in that situation, I can shed some light on the reasons a woman may have for staying.


Is Giving Exotic Lingerie An Expression Of Love Or Lust?

Discover what sexy, exotic lingerie can do to spice up your love life and make your relationship with your partner more interesting and exciting.


A Good Example Of A Story Of Love and Relationship That Lasts

The fact of continually hearing so many stories of love and relationships, including all those breakdowns make us wonder if love really exists anymore in this world.


Keeping the Love Alive: Selfing, the Cure for Resentment (Part 2 of 2)

When your world is filled with many wonderful opportunities, it can feel difficult if you feel you must choose between them, and it's equally rough if you have a hard time saying no to people. Yet saying yes to everything can lead to both over-commitment and resentment, which can erode your relationships, whether at work or home or in your community.


How To Get Your Man To Pamper You?

Being a man that pampers and caters to his woman. I have often heard conversations between women on this topic. Some good, but the majority being bad. Since I feel that most women are deceived on how to get their man to pamper them I decided to write this suggestive article.


Flirting - A Betrayal of Trust

Flirting has been glamorized in recent times. The internet especially has created an entertaining and flourishing version of it. A flirt is portrayed as having great fun. Is that really the case? Is flirting worth the cost?


Dealing With Abusive Relationships

When ever people are involved in an abusive relationship, they have a tendency to blame the aggressor. However, both parties are responsible for their overall interaction.



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