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How to Nurture Love and Relationship

Can you find love love without relationship or relationship without love? It all boils down to what you are looking for, or what you are ready to give. You have to be willing to nurture love. You have to be willing to nurture relationship. As the saying goes, do unto others as you'd like done unto you.


Apologies can Kickstart that Flagging Relationship

10 situations that call for an apology, and how they can put you in the limelight


How Can I Get It Right in a Relationship with Someone Else and Myself?

Here are key questions and answers that anyone can apply to get it right in a relationship with someone else as well as yourself.


How Do I Trust Again?

I came across a question recently. In brief the poster wanted to know how she could trust any man again. Two men one after other ditched her and the second one was very close. She wanted to know if she should try any new relationship at all or forget it.


Sacred Love Growing through Challenges; Part 1

All emotion is only half the truth, an illusion; a complete lie. Life is balanced, we distort it by projecting out opinion onto it. We interpret it with our ego and spin it left or right and therefore emotionalise it. By emotionalising things, we can make it safe. And from a love aspect, then we see where we are – out of integrity – and could bring our ego back to balance, if we chose to.


Know Your Man: Lovers

Children need a mother but a man needs a woman. Here lies the biggest conflict a woman faces, even more so than the conflict between being a mother and a professional. Of course, there are many women who can conciliate both roles with ease. Unfortunately, many cannot.


Verbal Abuse is Never About You

Verbal abuse says far more about the abuser than it ever says about you. If you were to give that abuse a physical image, what would you choose? You can use that image to reject the power that verbal abuse exerted over you once and for all.


Put The Sizzle Back Into Your Relationship With These Five Simple Steps

Has the passion gone out of your relationship? Is it bordering on being boring and mundane? Fix it simply now.


Authentic in Love - the Three Great Secrets of Authentic Living

The Laws of Nature reveal a certain perspective on life, like a knowing or trust that, underneath what may seem to be a very serious situation, the worst is really not all that bad. This is the mark of an inspired individual, one who has found stillness and therefore an unshakable perspective on everyday life. The book relates everyday living with authenticity to the journey one takes to climb a mountain, or walk up and down a hill on one of Chris's journeys to the Himalaya.


Common Marriage Problem – Bailing Out When the Going Gets Tough

Perhaps it’s because life has become easier over the years or perhaps it’s just because people have higher expectations than they did in the past but whatever the reason one of the most common marriage problems is to bail out when the going gets a little tough.


How to Incorporate the Right Seduction Story into Your Routine

When the term seduction story is used, the most likely thing that would occur to you is fictional stories of which seduction is the focal theme. That, however, is not what seduction story is referring to in this article. Today, you're going to learn how to tell a story…tell it so beautifully and seductively that making love would seem like the most natural thing to do in the world afterwards.


Seven Ways to Make Your Woman Look and Feel Good

Every woman loves to be pampered. And most of all, we love it when our men are the ones doing the pampering! If you want to earn a woman's affection, the best way to do it is to make her feel sexy, relaxed, and loved. Here are seven sure-fire things you can do for your woman that are guaranteed to get you results.


People Who Pester You

Do you have people in your life who truly bother you in big ways? I call them our soul attachments. Some people come into our lives for many reasons and a few are certainly intended to make us pay some debts to our karma bank or to our thought patterns. They feel and look like those bugs that you want to get rid of but never succeed.


Men Do Not Make Threats In A Relationship That You Can't Keep

Women who are in relationships and in general make threats they cannot keep most of the time. They do so mainly because they are not coming from a place of strength but rather weakness (soft). It works because they are soft and men back down easily sometimes, yet when it doesn't work all that happens is the man maintains his position of power and the relationship remains the same if not strengthened by the man displaying his strength.


Boredom is a Killer, One of Many Common Marriage Problems

One of the common marriage problems, which often materialises early on in a relationship, is boredom. Couples often find that after the honeymoon period is behind them and they have settled in to married life it isn’t quite the constant bed of roses that they imagined it to be.


Mythbusters: There's a Soul Mate for Everyone

Finding a soul mate is like trying to find two identical snowflakes. Good luck.


How Did Sallie Meet Harry?

Would you like to know how to meet someone? Do you long for a relationship? Do you ever wonder how a Sallie meets her Harry? There are actions and attitudes that will help you attract the relationship you seek.


Is Your Relationship Really Over?

Are your minor squabbles just lovers' tiffs or are they signs that you should bid goodbye to your relationship?


Cougar Women? Older Women Should Ignore The Age Gap And Have Fun

I have recently encountered the words 'Cougar Women' - a term dreamt up by some male or possibly jealous young female to describe an older woman engaged in a relationship with a younger man. The description 'Cougar Woman' infers a predatory mature woman (35-50+) who hunts, stalks, lusts after and imposes her attentions upon some innocent, inexperienced young male. The traditional description for the older male who does likewise is, 'Sugar Daddy' -- Would it not be appropriate, in light of today's touted 'equality of the sexes' to apply the description of Panther Daddy? Or, where the male is a cheating spouse, then perhaps 'Cheetah Daddy' may fit the bill?


When Your Partner Is Feeling Down, What Do You Do?

Not everyone feels great all the time. Circumstances change, the environment changes Your partner may feel down occasionally. When this happens, what do you do?


Double Headers And Remnants Of The Past May Spoil Future Romance

This short story is about the struggles a widower, like myself, encounters when a new relationship begins.


How To Create And Get Closure With Your Past Relationships

Are you thinking about leaving your relationship or have you left your relationship and are looking for closure? In this article, we are talking about how to create and get closure with your past relationships.


Spring Chickens - Not! Advice for the Older Sexual Couple

He wants you to put your arm behind your head but you can't reach back there anymore. You want him on top but his upper body strength is long gone. The myth that sexual desire decreases by age 60 is just that, a myth, along with older people don't talk about sex.


Super Relationship Tips: Create A Memorable Non-Occasion

The admen and the marketing mavens have created a cultural expectation around special occasions and calendar events. We are inundated with sales pitches for Christmas, birthdays, weddings, anniversaries, New Year, Halloween, Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Father's Day, and any other day they can find that will make us feel that we absolutely have to buy a gift to express our sentiments. Dates on the calendar are merely days like any other days. Our relationships are 365 days a year and something this good deserves a celebration at any time and at any place.



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