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Living Tribal in a Democracy

Tribal living has survived for millions of years. Yet today few choose it as their lifestyle.


Relationship Rescue for Gents

Is your relationship in trouble? Do you spend more time picking it apart than cuddling together? If you feel like you’re constantly trying to fix things that should never have been broken in the first place, then maybe it’s time for some proactive steps to rescue your relationship before it ends up on the rocks - permanently


How To Recognize Relationship Breakdowns

Learn to recognize the various types of relationships and when relationships start to break down. Understand the warning signs associated with an abusive relationship, controlling relationships, as well as many relationship myths. Find out what is the fundamental key to the long term strength of any type of relationship.


The New Marriage - Part Three of Four

Harry Stack Sullivan, in The Interpersonal Theory of Psychiatry , argues that human beings have a biological drive to develop and establish interpersonal relationships. In Biological Basis for Human Social Behavior , R.A. Hind suggests that a person’s “attachment style”—the way in which they relate to other human beings and form relationships with them—is developed mostly during childhood. The attachment style tends to persist into adulthood but is not fixed and can be modified either positively or negatively as the result of further interactions.


The New Marriage - Part Two of Four

When we fail to get the response or connection with our partner that we want, perhaps we should stop and look at our own thoughts and behavior. It may remind us of frightful tigers from our past stalking the room. Sometimes a calm and collected exterior hides demons lingering from childhood. But how do we uncover the real person underneath our sophisticated facade? We climbed that mountain so long ago; the path we took may be lost in the undergrowth.


Giving Love, Getting Love, Giving to Get

Do you feel empty and unfulfilled? Are you using people, substances, things and activities as your source of love? Discover how to access the true Source of abundant and infinite love.


Relationship: Showing Love

Showing love to each other increases the love. If you love your spouse show it with care and affection. If somebody cares for you and considers your likes and dislikes then there is an element of love in that relationship but if that care and consideration is shown in a love relationship then it is the exact way to express love with a difference.


Relationship: All Decked Out

A well dressed man or woman is always looked at with some kind of admiration. You cannot deny the fact that you love it. You feel good when people look at you and give a smile of admiration. Most of the times many of you like to be admired and like to be the center of attraction. Moreover you feel good and confident from within when you are well dressed and decked up.


Relationship: No Debates

No debates please! The secret of a happy relationship is to keep away from debates. Don’t argue over subjects that have proven differences of opinion among you and your partner Avoid unnecessary arguments.


Sacred Love - Building a Relationship on Truth and Trust, Beyond Emotion and Blame

Emotion is the language of the ego. Emotion is the most wonderful honesty about how you feel, think and see life. But if you think your emotions are anything but a witnessing of your own “unconsciousness”, you may have a big problem in life. Emotions block love. No relationship, sacred or otherwise, can thrive when a couple considers their emotions a foundation. Those emotions are so changeable.


WWE Divas - Are There Any Divas Left That Can Actually Wrestle?

Over the past 2 years it seems the state of pro women's wrestling has greatly disintegrated. The WWE suffered a big loss with the departure of WWE Diva Trish Stratus. With rumors spreading that Lita is on her way out as well... what will become of professional women's wrestling?


Testing Love - Avoid a Serious Pitfall that Ruins Relationships

Psychic Readers and Healers may want to add this valuable lesson to their toolkits. Testing someone's love can be a trap that may ruin your relationship with them. Learn why this happens so that you may avoid this relationship pitfall and heal the damage such tests may have caused to you, or those whom you love.


The First Touchdown - Creating Deeper Intimacy

Men and women have different values and different ways of accessing intimacy in their relationships. We all desire intimacy and want our partner to also be our best friend. Men are generally motivated visually and tactilely, initially looking for a physical bonding. Women, by contrast, are generally auditory, motivated by emotion and initially looking for emotional bonding. So how do we bridge the gap? There are a few easy and simple techniques that can help you bond and obtain a deeper intimacy.


The Cranelegs Five Second / One Year Plan to Lasting Relationships

Who needs loud mouth Dr. Phil? Such insight into obtaining this most elusive of life's simple pleasures hasn’t been shared since Dr. Ruth endorsed the Eroscillator 2.


Relationship Action Plan

This is a relationship action plan to help any single person to help you find a way to find your true love. This I how I done it.


Friendships - Does Difference in Wealth Hurt or Help?

During our school days, most of us are not concerned about the families our friends come from. One of our classmates may be from the richest family of the world, but that did not make much difference in our friendship.


I Ain't Eating No Chitlins

Yes, we Black men and women have some collective concerns, a certain amount of shared pathos , arising from our shared painful past which we are daily changing to a triumphant future - but we are each something more fundamental than a cog in a Great Black Cause. I am, like you - just me.


Are You Lucky To Have Somebody Who Understands You?

Do you have someone who can feel the pain in your eyes? Do you have someone who can understand the ache of your heart? Do you have someone who can understand your misery?


Martial Artist Says Avoid Looking Into The Eyes Of A Bad Guy!

According to Dr. Gary S. Goodman, best-selling author, sales, service andsuccess coach, and Black Belt in Kenpo Karate, looking into the eyes of bad guys and strangers is dangerous for three reasons. This popular keynote speaker and radio and TV expert commentator tells you exactly where to look to be safe and to respond faster to potential attacks.


Relationships: The Narcissist-Borderline Relationship

This article relates how relationships go bad when there is a failure in the development of the personalities of the members of the couple.


Friendship And Love

Friendship and love. Both are so much related to each other. And both are so dissimilar! What are the differences between friendship and love? Is platonic friendship possible between persons of opposite sex? Let us try and understand.


Workin' It Out Togther

Can chores and housework really be romantic? Can the two of you grow closer by workin' it out together? Or does all that mundane everyday stuff drag you down and spoil the fun?


New Life, New Love

When you let love lead, it will take you into parts of yourself that you cannot have imagined. Do you want to open yourself to that journey?


Relationships Can Trip Us Up

Have you ever wondered why you attract the same type of relationships into your life?



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