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Stop Dragging Your Past into Present Relationships - Part One of Two

Expressed as a two-way bridge between childhood and adulthood, magical thinking is a developmental stage during childhood that serves a very important function in the process of creativity and imagination. Like so many of our developmental constructs, when magical thinking is held onto and not revised in the light of reality it becomes maladaptive.


Relationship: That Kiss

Every woman and man get motivated and empowered with the power of love, and kiss is one way to express your love. So always make sure to kiss your partner to feel motivated and loved and let your love life never fade. Remember what has been said earlier, “If you love somebody show it”. Your love is doubled. Your partner too will react to the love expressed by you.


How To Get Over Him - Quickly

I am no expert at love. The very word makes me nauseous and sets my body to a defensive mode. But I have had my heart broken once or twice. Badly. By some pathetic loser by the way. Lucky for me, I'm a quick learner. I made ridiculous mistakes of cosmic proportions and learnt a thing or two.


Know Your Man: Pornography

This may come as a surprise to you. I took a while to figure this one out as well. Men like pornography.


Etiquette at the Russian Tour Social

You should treat the women at the social with respect. Given their resources, they have made as much of a commitment as you have. In many ways, they have more to gain and lose than you do.


Yours, Mine, and Our Emotional Needs - The Marriage Makers and Breakers

A common theme in my articles, on my website, and in my coaching practice is on needs. For our purposes we define a need as a condition requiring relief. There are quite obviously many needs that you meet on a daily basis. Hunger may be one of the first things to come to mind when we think of needs, however, this is more of a physical need and we want to focus on our emotional needs!


Relationship Advice: On the Challenges and Joys of Sharing a Bed

Challenged by sharing a bed with another person? Get some tips on how to negotiate this most intimate of daily events.


Escaping the Power of Lies

Lying: Obviously not a trait that one hopes for in a potential mate. Lying: A possible form of mistreatment in a relationship that can have you questioning you own sanity.


The Ultimate Relationship Advice for Women

The ultimate and perfect relationship is something that most of us dream of. So many of us yearn to be that perfect woman, that every man will fall in love with, and constantly visualize that fairytale romance and the rest of our life with our perfect soul mate.


The 6 Conscious Listening Rules for the Receiver in Discussions

Do people tell you that you are a good listener? You could be an even better listener, especially when your partner is doing the talking. Conscious Listening is an essential part of Co-Creating a Conscious Relationship, and there are rules to help you master it. Read on to see how you can become that even better listener.


Some Helpful Hints For a More Exciting Relationship

I think we can all agree that most relationships are very exciting in the beginning but if you have been in your current relationship for awhile you may have already noticed that the initial excitement you had is starting to subside and you and your partner may be settling into a dull routine.


Mum Beds Son's Mate?

While I don't want to be seen as condoning the above actions, let's face it, such relationships have occurred for years and in this day and age the very idea and inspirations for such actions are highlighted through films and television programs.


Can't get Him out of the Pub

Why is he always stuck in the pub with his mates. Does he prefer a fishing trip with his mates that a day with you and the kids.


Setting Boundaries in Relationships

Setting personal boundaries are like identifying the gates in our invisible fence lines which protects the precious heart and soul inside our bodies. Many people look at boundaries as walls, but rather when we establish healthy boundaries it provides a way to distinguish what we choose to let in and let out. They form flexible gates, not stationary walls It is important to learn about setting healthy boundaries so we can make decisions about what is and what isn’t permissible in all relationships.


How To Make A Relationship Last

For a relationship to last, there are few basic requirements. The rapidity with which relationships are breaking in the modern days is a matter of concern and we should try to find out how to make a relationship that lasts for a long time.


How to Test Your Intimate Relationship with a Quiz to Help with a Healthy Love Problem of Attraction

Any relationship between two people changes as feelings develop over a period of time, and change with life's ups and downs. Methods to test the relationship and afford insights into how we might progress.


Anniversary Gift Ideas

A jubilee of any sort is a definite excuse to celebrate and to acknowledge a sense of fulfilled experience. It is another opportunity that serves to extend good will and appreciation. As also to acknowledge that those who travel alongside enrich the journey.


A Little Patience Goes a Long Way

The lack of patienceis the cause of so much unhappiness and grief in this world, when all it requires is a little time on our part.


Relationship Help for Women - Get Love for Valentine's Day!

If you can imagine love, you can have love. Using Valentine's Day to imagine having the love you want can help you get more romance, affection, and love in your life.


50 Reasons to Leave Skid Marks in a Relationship: Excerpt from Stop Being the String Along

50 Reasons to Leave Skid Marks (Just one is reason enough to run fast!)


Honor and Respect Your Partner's Feelings As If They Are Your Own

Our feelings are the barometer of our outside existential lives. Our feelings let us know how things are going for us inside ourselves. Feelings exist because they do, in and of themselves.


Relationship Advice: 4 Things that Get in the Way of Great Sex

Have you and your partner gotten stuck in a sexual rut? Here's how to get out and have great sex again, or perhaps for the first time.


Relationship Advice: 7 Ways to Make Good Relationships Even Better

Do you have a good relationship? Would you like to make it even better? Here are 7 ways to make a good thing better.



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