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The Tricky Issue of Respect and Power of Beautiful Women

A very important look at the topic of the power balance between men and women. It's very ironic yet women expect you to know the answer and live it.


The New Marriage - Part Four of Four

When we are children we do not yet have an identity. We learn about who we are through the mirroring that we get from our parents. It is called mirroring to describe the ability of good parents to gently hold up an imaginary mirror in front of the child until they learn to see themselves clearly without harsh judgments. If we do not get enough realistic mirroring during the years we live with them, we remain pretty clueless about who we really are.


Being Normal - Learning the Art of Happiness

Here are a few laws, a few simple laws. If you apply these laws, you might change the cause of your own, and others unhappiness. I hope they are of interest to you. Then, instead of trying to fix and make yourself better (which you can’t) you might start to smile and celebrate the beauty of life, by trekking up to the summit of a hill in Nepal, or kiss a baby instead of trying to fix what isn’t broken.


Seduction Unlimited: A Simple Twist of Entertainment

In today's fast-paced life, people can sometimes afford to get the things that they want as long as they have the money to pay for it.


Men: Winning The Woman Of Your Dreams

What makes for a happy relationship? What makes one couple have a successful relationship while another couple flounders? Is it just luck? Why do some men get the Woman Of Their Dreams while others get stuck with controlling women? Or, frigid women? Or, manipulative women?


Why Relationship Counseling Is A Great Financial Investment

Giving your relationship a regular tune up, is a great way to keep it running smoothly.


Creating Intimacy in Your Relationships

How do you know whether you have true intimacy with your partner? Let me first give you my definition of intimacy. Most people tend to connect intimacy only with sex.


Movies You Shouldn't Watch After a Breakup

After providing the list for CDs to rent and provide entertainment while you drown yourself in tears, blankets, and chocolates, here is the list of movies (no doubt a lengthier one) that you shouldn’t be getting near at.


Taking Responsibliity for the Emotional Pain of Broken Relationships

Look deep into your soul, be completely honest with yourself and make an effort to recognize this: You are soley responsible for every relationship that went bad. Why? ...


The Changing Face of Change

Anyone who knows the military would advise, if you fear and resist change - don't become a military spouse. Tell that to my daughter.


Just for Fun... for the Married Woman

It feels so good when...This would be the perfect relationship, but who has this?


Feeling Connected in Relationships

What can your relationships feel like? Often the most beautiful feelings we experience in relationship happen when no one is talking. There is a lot to be present with using just the power of attention on each other and what we are feeling. The beauty and intensity of connection when two people silently listen to each other transcends words.


Infidelity

Nearly half of marriages in the United States end, and one of the biggest reasons for this is infidelity. This article will help you understand exactly what infidelity is, why it happens, and how to cope with it if it happens to you.


Be Appreciative - 5 Steps to Saying Thank You

How often have you given a gift to a newly married couple or to a friend at a birthday party only to never hear about the gift ever again? Wouldn’t you like to know if they liked what you gave them? Many people enjoy the moment of the occasion and tend to only think about planning and participating in the event. However remembering your guests can go a long way towards friendships and goodwill. If you’re just staring out in life, there are future events that friends and family will be an important part. There are several ways to let your guest and more importantly the gift givers know that you appreciate them thinking about you.


Memorial Day Brings Back Memories

A Vietnam Veteran remembers the tough times. Let's not forget our veterans of previous wars as we turn our attention to those now returning from Iraq and Afghanistan. God bless America.


How To Be Charming - Six Ways To Be More Charming: A Mini-Guide For Women

These six tips will make you a more charming woman - instantly. Practice them consistently and watch the world fall at your feet!


Break-Ups and Guilt

How many break-ups also result in feelings of guilt amongst partners? Please take care of guilt before you break-up. Guilt can be a very damaging feeling and can make any life hell. Those who are full of guilt undergo lot of pain asking for forgiveness everywhere, but fail to forgive themselves.


The Pigeon Dance

Instant Karma is delicious served with bird poop and a dirty tissue. How my Internet relationship led to sweet revenge!


Domestic Violence Patients Would Be Safer If Their Doctors Knew What Their Lawyers Know

The most dangerous aspect of family violence is the set of myths surrounding it. Far too often we learn the truth after it is too late. Healthcare providers who rely on legal practice to protect victims of domestic abuse can blindly walk the innocent from the frying pan to the fire.


The Rewards of Romance

Romance Agent sets the record straight about what makes the world go around.


Creating the Relationships You Truly Want at Work, at Home and at Play

Both personally and professionally, our relationships with others have a huge impact on the quality of our days … and, it goes without saying, on our lives as a whole. Part of our learning on this planet is to be able to create healthy, whole relationships coming from a place of love for ourselves AND others. Discover the ingredients of a healthy, whole relationship that will support us in being our best selves and learn how we create these kinds of relationships in our lives.


Relationship Advice: K is for Keeps

Are you playing for keeps in your relationship? Here are some strategies for making it over the long haul.


The Revealing Touch

Intimacy has a difficult time with absolute certainty. There’s no room to breathe, and no room to receive reality. And reality is where real love lives. No other place.


Super Relationship Tips: Put Your Disagreements Into Perspective

Even the most passionate and committed relationship has moments when the partners disagree. No two human beings ever see eye-to-eye on everything. Over time, we even disagree with ourselves because our outlook on the world changes as we grow and mature and age. Ask any couple to list some things their partner does that annoy them and several items are sure to appear. Sometimes our partner does things that are so irritating that we get angry and start arguing. We are socially programmed to be competitive so to try to win the argument, we marshal all the supporting evidence we can find.



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