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Relationship: Realistic Expectations

Most of us are fascinated by the love affairs of others. We expect a relationship to be filled with love and passion. All of us have some faults and defects in us. We should learn to accept people with their faults and respect for what they are. Never ignore the reality and come out from your world of dreams.


Personality

In addition to socialization there are other factors that effect an individual and the relationship of these factors to the personality factor must be considered.


Exposing the Perfection Fallacy: We Grow in Love and in Relationships through Our Mistakes

We grow in love and in relationships through our mistakes. We do not grow in isolation or in theory.


SacredLove - The Four Attitudes that Build Relationships that Last Forever

Your attitude is not dependent on something happening, or people living up or down to your expectations; no matter what happens, your love is there. You now have the ultimate power; there is no need to react, or to run away from situations. To love means to hold deep happiness within, no matter what transpires. It is a loving intent to see that all your disturbances or blockage in love come from you, not from the way the world is.


Are You REALLY Happy In Your Relationship Or Have You Just Settled?

I recently read a study that indicated that 91% of all people in relationships were not happy. Now I can't tell you if this percentage is true, if it is an accurate portrayal of the average relationship or an exaggeration to get people’s attention. I don't know the details or particulars of the study as they were not given in very much depth. But the fact remains, that if 91% of the people surveyed felt this way, can we assume that many other people in general who were not surveyed are not happy as well? I don’t like to make assumptions but this number is really scary.


Accept Your Partner or Open the Door

Having a relationship or being married is actually the same in relation to women's expectations. Women want their partner to behave in a certain way and also expect from their partner to understand their point of view, agree and next time act without needing any guidance from their part.


The Gift of Time

A gift of time can be one of the most precious gifts anyone can share; time that can brighten up one's life even just for a brief moment. It leaves memories that will last till the next time.


Transform Your Relationship Using The Power Of Appreciation

How you can easily improve your relationship. This relationship tip really works and is very powerful.


Breaking Out of the Circle of Abuse

Has a bad relationship left you feeling drained and powerless? One simple change in your thinking will give you the motivation to move forward and the strength to rebuild your life.


Relationship Rescue, Just What You Need To Start Afresh

Those early days in a relationship are the easy ones when everything about your partner is seen through rose tinted glasses and any character flaws are overlooked in favour of those adorable features that make everything so perfect. Needless to say, not a thought goes to how you keep that perfect catch or what it takes to make a long term relationship work.


Reasons The “Marriage Crunch” Theory Failed

There were likely several reasons the theory behind the original “Marriage Crunch” article failed. The author stated in the original text that a woman over thirty had a very small chance of ever getting married if she hadn’t already been. This was in the 80s however and a lot transpired after the article was written.


Stop Acting from Fear in Your Relationships

We frequently make decisions about love relationships based on fear, disillusionment, or a belief that we have to settle. We are afraid that we aren’t going to find anyone who will cherish us and accept our faults.


Recovering from Infidelity

The first step any couple must take in recovering from infidelity is to determine if the relationship should be or can be salvaged. The following are seven critical questions you need to ask yourself and your partner to know if your relationship can survive.


Should You Live Together Before Marriage?

I advise women not to live with a man before marriage. Familiarity breeds contempt, especially for men.


Kissing Cyber-Frogs

My first-hand experience with long-distance, cross-continental, Internet love! (It ain't pretty, but I survived).


How You Can Avoid Bad Relationships and Find Your One True Love

Do you find 'decent' men boring and 'creeps' exciting? Then you're among the majority. But, as you've learned, creeps make for disastrous relationships. So why are you attracted to them? The short answer is that although you live in the 21st century, your basic biology and psychology are still Stone Age. So you (unconsciously) look for a 'tough guy' to protect you and your children from the sabre-toothed tigers. This article -- based on my four decades as a psychotherapist and 25 years of marriage to a wonderful woman -- will show you how to choose the right man.


So Am I: Projecting Our Qualities

How is that that I have great and not so great relationships with different people? What is there that makes me like and be liked as well as hated (or disliked) and hateful (or despising)? Why do I recognize negative qualities in some people and positive qualities in other people?


How to be a Wife of an American Man: Interview With Elena Who has been Married to One for 2 Years

Today I’d like to introduce you with Elena Davis. She married our client Kevin two years ago. Elena came back to her Motherland, to Kazan for the first time and she has a lot of stories!


Know your Man: Relatives

This is a series of short articles about men and their preferences. Men are not difficult beings, or the enemy, as some women would like us to belief. They are simply different. By understanding and accepting their men, women can save their relationships and keep their sanity.



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