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How Much Time Do You Need With Your Partner For A Healthy Relationship

There are couples who spend very little time together and have wonderful relationships. For them it isn't the amount of time they have but what they put into the time. These relationships are also uncommon. Time is a factor for most of us. We need time to understand, learn, grow, accept and love. These don’t come easily or instantly.


Relationship: Listen Really Listen

Listen - do you really listen to your partner. Here listening to your partner does not mean listening to your spouse at the dinning table or when you are just sitting together and talking. Listening here really means listening with care. Listening to what has been unsaid.


Feelings and Risk

Are you willing to risk a greater degree of pain and disappointment for a higher level of joy, satisfaction, and emotional fulfillment? Every choice in life has tradeoffs. We carefully weigh the possible outcomes, assess our willingness and tolerance for risk, and then make a choice based on our perceptions of the outcomes.


Questions about Love, Life and the Laws of Nature - Making Relationships Last

Love, relationship and the laws of Nature. Why do they work? How do you apply them? How did they get discovered and why should we trust them. Melisa Wadsworth explores these questions and answers with Chris Walker.


Sacred Love - The Art of Building a Long Lasting, Loving Relationship Sacred

Sacred Love is a high and conscious alter on which you place the ritual of bond. It is sacred because there is nothing that can be allowed to intrude on it, a reverence, a devotion. It is a place from which the rest of life, including your work and play, can be undertaken.


Sacred Love - The Second Law of Nature - Growing From Challenge

The purpose of this article is to discuss the second law of nature, the law of growth. Personal growth comes from changing your mind. When things happen, you can go into a downward spiral or change your mind. I you change you mind you can grow, if you don't then you will simply have to deal with the issue at hand.


Enroll in Seduction 101

Guys listen and make sure to listen good. There is more to life than letting your testosterones lead your life.


Inspiration in the Workplace

Hard work is bad management. What is inspiration in the workplace? Thanks for this question. Truth is, there is no such thing as inspiration. You can't create it, do it or have it. You can’t cause it or lose it.


Boredom is a Killer, One of Many Common Marriage Problems

One of the common marriage problems, which often materialises early on in a relationship, is boredom. Couples often find that after the honeymoon period is behind them and they have settled in to married life it isn’t quite the constant bed of roses that they imagined it to be.


Dear God, How Do I Get Over a Former Lover I Still Love? Exclusive Excerpt

Many people have deeply loved someone long after that person was not in their lives anymore. I have been through this, and I know how difficult it can be.


A Recipe for Romance

Cooking together at home is a great idea for a romantic evening. The emphasis on food in our lives makes cooking a great aphrodisiac for most of us.


Picture This

In today's hectic and fast-paced world, it can be easy to be caught up in the speed of daily living. It seems there is always some message coming at us from somewhere, whether it's the television, radio, computer, or billboards. A bit of quiet time spent with someone you love can be a great way to add some much-needed downtime and romance into your lives.


Is The Fear of Being Alone Controlling Your Relationship

One of the main reasons that both men and women want to get into a relationship is a fear of being alone. Yet, any relationship that is based on fear is destined to be a very unhappy and unfulfilling relationship. Until you can learn to enjoy your own company you will constantly find yourself getting into relationships that are or end up based on fear.


5 Things No Man Wants to Hear!

What are the things that no man never wants to hear? Here is the code to getting any man to become puffy in your hands.


How to Know if You Are Receiving the Love You Deserve

Being in love can impair your judgment. When in a serious relationship, so much time, energy and love has been expended, it can be very difficult to be inwardly honest and face the reality of if the relationship is actually healthy and will withstand the test of time.


Complacency, Like Many Other Common Marriage Problems, is Like the Plague

Complacency like many other common marriage problems is a bit like the plague. It's catching and it spreads, you don't hear it and you don't see it and by the time you realise what is happening the damage is done.


Step 10 To An Ideal Relationship: Continue Your Personal Growth

Personal growth is an essential component to an ideal relationship. Here's how to achieve it.


The Mirror of Relationships

Relationships are fertile ground for learning about our selves. Discover what you can learn about yourself when you are judged or rejected by another.


Love's Labour Lost!

Rejection in love can sometimes even ruin future relationships. Here are some tips on how to overcome the 'jilted' phase...


The Great People Search Is On And How The Internet Is Helping

People looking for other people is the basics of this article. We cover some of the various types of people finding others people reasons and some dating tips for those trying to find lifelong partners.


How Can You Mend a Broken Heart?

Having a broken heart is nothing to laugh about. If your heart has been broken in the past (whose heart hasn't, really?) or is broken now, you know exactly what I mean. Besides the depression, all sorts of negative feelings pile up on an already stressed body and not only feel like dying but you might also develop a serious illness that may indeed kill you.


Silence: A Relationship Poison

Relationship silence. It's a poison for you and your partner because usually when you've reached the point of silence - or shutting down - and just not wanting to deal with your partner on any type of meaningful communicative way...you're in big trouble and could be headed for a break-up or separation.


A Stag Weekend Becomes A Moveable Feast

What happens in Eastern Europe stays in Eastern Europe. Or does it? One lucky stag spills the beans on his stag weekend in Tallinn, Estonia's thumping capital.


The Toxic Relationship- Part 2- Simple Solutions

At some point or another, we have all been there. We end up in toxic relaitonships that undermine our self esteem and cause us to feel self doubt. Just thinking about how to deal with a toxic relationship can be overwhelming. However, if we break down the task into manageable steps, we can step out of what is holding us back and into a position of power.



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