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What Makes A Great Relationship Great?

Are you willing to be different than most. Great partners in relationships are willing. And they have a better life than most. They wake up and go to bed feeling better than the people who only make half hearted efforts towards the one they supposedly love. Mark Webb, Licensed Marriage Therapist returns with another excerpt from his bestselling book, How To Be A Great Partner.


Relationship Rescue - 5 Ways to Sweeten a Sour Relationship

The biggest complaint most people have about their relationships is that their partner doesn't really value them. Does that sound familiar?


Relationship: Keep the Kids Out of It

Always make it a point whatever the argument or conflict keep the children out of it and try not to quarrel in front of them. Help them develop a positive attitude in life.


Pros and Cons of Age Differences Between Mates

Marrying an older man is not a problem with many Russian women. The greater the difference in your age, the greater the difficulty will be in your marriage as a general rule.


Apologies can Kickstart that Flagging Relationship

10 situations that call for an apology, and how they can put you in the limelight


Relationship: Do Not Repeat Do Not Repeat Do Not Repeat

We make mistakes doing household work, doing office work and in relationships too. Those of you who ignore the mistakes make the biggest blunder in their life. If you make mistakes learn from your mistakes and never repeat them. Making mistakes, accepting and then not repeating them builds a positive attitude in a person. The positive attitude broadens your mental outlook and builds better understanding of people and situations.


Online Dating Tips - Growing Your Online Relationship With TLC

Tips for online dating success. How to develop your relationship online as well as offline by practicing patience, caring, understanding and TLC.


The New Marriage - Part Three of Four

Harry Stack Sullivan, in The Interpersonal Theory of Psychiatry , argues that human beings have a biological drive to develop and establish interpersonal relationships. In Biological Basis for Human Social Behavior , R.A. Hind suggests that a person’s “attachment style”—the way in which they relate to other human beings and form relationships with them—is developed mostly during childhood. The attachment style tends to persist into adulthood but is not fixed and can be modified either positively or negatively as the result of further interactions.


Stop Dragging Your Past into Present Relationships - Part Two of Two

The rapture phase of love gives each partner a feeling that is buoyant, lively, and fulfilling. You project onto your partner images of beauty, goodness, and love as if your partner were a canvas waiting to be painted on. The energy of this consciousness shines a bright light across the world, obliterating all the differences in your characters, lifting you and your partner to a higher state of being. You are atop the summit, and you sparkle to one another like diamonds with many facets of light.


Stop Dragging Your Past into Present Relationships - Part One of Two

Expressed as a two-way bridge between childhood and adulthood, magical thinking is a developmental stage during childhood that serves a very important function in the process of creativity and imagination. Like so many of our developmental constructs, when magical thinking is held onto and not revised in the light of reality it becomes maladaptive.


Money, Sex & Children: How to Cope With Life’s Greatest Battles

In any relationship problems mostly arise due to money, sex or children. These are life’s greatest battles everyone has to cope with in order to survive. Resolving issues over these conflicts could sometimes be very difficult but learning to accept them as natural consequences of any relationship will help a great deal in solving them. Keep reading on to find out how to avoid problems related with these matters and live a happy and fruitful life.


Infidelity Recovery: What is It with Men?

Men, or more precisely polarized couples, find difficulty in fully committing to recovery from infidelity or an extramarital affair.


How to End Sabotaging Relationship Patterns and Melt the Walls

Much of the discord couples experience comes from fear of exposing their true feelings – their love, fears, doubts, insecurities – their true selves. So they hide their truth behind ego...


Maybe You Shouldn't Learn How to Get Your Ex Back

Are you really sure what you want is to learn how to get your ex back? Before you try here's some more things you need to consider.


Love In A Woman Can Be Found In Her Eyes

How do you approach a woman without risking a big “go away”? It is easier than many men would think.


Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

If you are in a relationship and you're asking yourself whether you should stay or go; that's a telltale sign that something is wrong. Now is the time to ask yourself some hard questions. If you're honest with yourself; you'll get the right answers.


Challenged by Your Relationships? Good!

Why are our relationships such a challenge? By their very nature, relationships always push us toward duality, toward the opposites. They take us into both the light of our souls and the darkness of our subconscious. They force us to look at the light and experience the shadows.


Forgiveness and Forgetting

No one is perfect. We do the best we can, but still fall short of what we can be. We must also allow others the same priviledge. Joy and happiness can only be found on the pathways of forgiveness and forgetting.


A Good Example Of A Story Of Love and Relationship That Lasts

The fact of continually hearing so many stories of love and relationships, including all those breakdowns make us wonder if love really exists anymore in this world.


Little Known Secrets To Attaining Security And Certainty In Your Relationship

In Love by Design relationships it is important that there is reassurance, certainty and security. The other day, actually the other week, I had several people in my office who were not very secure in their relationship. They came in on their own. They were having difficulties in their relationship. They just didn’t feel safe and secure in their relationship.


Relationships: Fear of Rejection = Self Sabotage

If you've ever been rejected and carry the fear of rejectiion inside you then you are prone to fail in future relationships. To find out why and how to release yourself from this destuctive pattern kindly read this article.


Start Saving For Love

There's no limit to the team efforts you can create that will both increase your intimacy, and also improve the future of your life together.


Your Dating Exit Strategy

Most people stay too long in a bad relationship because they don't have a way to end it. They feel guilty or they want to avoid arguments and hurt feelings. So they stay too long and become more and more resentful. And the longer they stay, the longer they out off the market and unable to find the right partner. Read the article and learn an ethical, comfortable way to leave a bad situation.


Know your Man: Chasing

This is a series of short articles about men and their preferences. Men are not difficult beings, or the enemy, as some women would like us to belief. They are simply different. By understanding and accepting their men, women can save their relationships and keep their sanity.



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