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Surviving a Break-Up - Why Non Contact is So Important

Find out why you should not contact your ex after a break up and ways to help you conquer the urge to do so.


Online Resources for Coping With the Discovery of Infidelity

When infidelity is discovered, it can be difficult to know where to turn for help. With this in mind, I've tried to identify some online resources designed to help people cope with the discovery of infidelity.


Spicing Up Your Relationship

Recognizing that your relationship has dulled is heart breaking. Luckily there are many fun and exciting ways to spice things up again.


The Relational Dynamics of Social Hierarchies and Subcultures

Look into the effect of social influence and how it relates to the behavior and detriment of men. Understanding social groups and influence will allow a man to choose the types of relationships we wants to have with them.


Money, Sex & Children: How to Cope With Life’s Greatest Battles

In any relationship problems mostly arise due to money, sex or children. These are life’s greatest battles everyone has to cope with in order to survive. Resolving issues over these conflicts could sometimes be very difficult but learning to accept them as natural consequences of any relationship will help a great deal in solving them. Keep reading on to find out how to avoid problems related with these matters and live a happy and fruitful life.


Feelings and Risk

Are you willing to risk a greater degree of pain and disappointment for a higher level of joy, satisfaction, and emotional fulfillment? Every choice in life has tradeoffs. We carefully weigh the possible outcomes, assess our willingness and tolerance for risk, and then make a choice based on our perceptions of the outcomes.


A Part of Speech or Speech Apart

Adjectives are a part of speech and a speech apart. What we say has everything to do with who we are, how we act, and how we are perceived.


Difficult In-Laws: Severing the Umbilical Cord (Part 1)

A problem in marriage today is when a married man has not yet severed the umbilical cord with his mother. The man who puts his mommy first, before his wife, will have a terrible marriage. This kind of a guy does not understand what his position is as a husband because he is still living as a little boy. If a “mommies boy” marries the type of woman who wants a husband instead of a son for a marriage partner, there will be incompatibility problems. Some wives’ don’t mind mothering their husbands but many women want a man who is in control of his life and knows what he wants.


Witherspoon and Phillippe Split—Why?

After seven years of marriage Oscar winner Reese Witherspoon and movie star Ryan Phillippe have called it quits. How could this be? Just months ago in her Oscar acceptance speech, Reese Witherspoon thanked her beloved husband, and now they're divorcing. Wasn't this a fairy tale marriage? Learn the REAL reason Reese, Ryan, and hundreds of celebrity couples seem unable to find or keep the partner they are looking for.


Sacred Love - 22 of The Most Powerful Rules of Relationships - 22 Guaranteed Rules to Sacred Love

Love is the most universally sought, most profoundly cherished, the most humanly persued element in the universe. Yet, it is the most abused, misunderstood, undervalued commodity in all of human existence. Why? We are stupid. How do we deal with this? Here are 22 suggestions that will turn the tide in your life and the lives of anyone who chooses to read and follow them.


Know Your Man: Shopping

Men hate shopping. They hate hop-shopping even more. We take hours to decide on simple things and they lose their patience, get tired and bored. This may be an exhilarating activity for women, but it is too draining for men.


Marriage Advice - You're With Your Perfect Teacher

It’s a constant and ongoing battle in your marriage. You like to have things laid out and to be prepared for what’s coming. He doesn’t plan at all. You know you’d relax if only he’d be a little more focused, and then you could stop having these arguments. How can you get him to work with you on this? Is it even possible?


A Revolution in the Way Humanity Treats Itself - Nature's Laws

The search for truth, is the conscious search for these laws. Evidence of them can be found in music, in dance, in business, healing as well as relationships.


How To Bring Intimacy Back Into Your Marriage

A great relationship requires intimate moments. And those moments need your full attention and compassion. If something else is engrossing your mind, then your spouse will not get the attention they deserve. Your spouse deserves to be treated with kindness and forgiveness everyday, not just when you feel like it.


Divorced Dating: One More Try

For those who have been divorced or separated, it can be quite a difficult transition, especially if there are kids involved. However getting back into the dating scene doesn't have to be impossible or difficult. Of course do not jump onto the scene right after a separation, and do take your time until you feel you are ready again.


Is Your Self-Talk Sabotaging Your Relationship And Your Peace?

Relationships are either getting better or they are getting worse. They are dynamic entities and do not remain the same. Therefore, if your relationship is not getting better, it is more than likely getting worse in some way.


Women Abuse and what Affect Patriarchy has on it

In the basic of the traditional system of education and socialization of a gender there is a so called initial work distribution between men and women. This work distribution has defined completely different conditions for life of men and women. It gave men the right to external activity for world survey and its governance, thus he received a right of the subject of history. Meanwhile women only got a responsibility rather than a right to give birth and upbringing to children, right to take care of the family and house hold. Thus here in the family women turned to be subordinate to men's authority and became the object of men power. Patriarchy is a system when a man has a dominant part in society.


Traits Of Successful Relationships

After researching numerous books and attending seminars on effective relationships I have found that the following behaviors are pretty consistent in relationships that last and are filled with love, happiness and friendship. Yhey are and in no particular order of importance.


Teen Dating Violence: So, He Hits You

You walk hand in hand, talking about how lucky you both are to be together. You introduce one of your male friends to him. As you continue to walk, you notice that your boyfriend seems upset. He starts accusing you of flirting. You dismiss his argument as unreasonable and unfounded. He hits you.


A Complete Departure

A parent should never outlive their child. It should somehow be made into a law.


Can Or Should Your Marriage Be Saved?

There are often bumps in the road to marital bliss, even in the best relationships. Should you stay or should you go?


How To Get Women To Like You

If you want to go from dork to Casanova, then you need to prepare for hard work and a steep learning curve. But if you see it through…boy, is it worth it. Knowing how to get women to like you is definitely an art, a comprehensive art that could never be adequately covered in a single article. However, I will give a general overview of some pointers which will make you a better man overnight.


Tips to a Great Marriage – Their Needs

The number one thing you can do to have a great marriage is such a simple concept but it’s really something that is hard for most people to implement. You spend the majority of your time focusing on what you need and want. I want my husband to do this but he doesn’t, I need for her to show me more affection. The list is endless!


Find Mrs. (Or Mr.) Right

Need to get beyond relationships that just don't work?



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