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Living Tribal in a Democracy

Tribal living has survived for millions of years. Yet today few choose it as their lifestyle.


Risk and Vulnerability

The commitment we surrender amounts to a level of sacrifice and joy that can not be calculated in human terms. It is the price of the heart. It is the gift of the mind. It is the joy of the soul. It is the ultimate discovery of consummate peace.


Internet Sites That Specialize in Contacting Russian Women

Seventeen percent of people in America (men and women) are now meeting on the Internet. There are about 250,000 women seeking Western men for husbands at any one time.


Stop Dragging Your Past into Present Relationships - Part One of Two

Expressed as a two-way bridge between childhood and adulthood, magical thinking is a developmental stage during childhood that serves a very important function in the process of creativity and imagination. Like so many of our developmental constructs, when magical thinking is held onto and not revised in the light of reality it becomes maladaptive.


Why I Wrote Russian Brides: How to Woo, Win, and Wed the Woman of Your Dreams

Russian women are committed to marriage. My relationships with other women fell apart because the commitment level wasn't there. As soon as life's fortunes turned, they were out the door.


Authentic in Love - the Three Great Secrets of Authentic Living

The Laws of Nature reveal a certain perspective on life, like a knowing or trust that, underneath what may seem to be a very serious situation, the worst is really not all that bad. This is the mark of an inspired individual, one who has found stillness and therefore an unshakable perspective on everyday life. The book relates everyday living with authenticity to the journey one takes to climb a mountain, or walk up and down a hill on one of Chris's journeys to the Himalaya.


It's The Little Things That Count

As relationships mature, grow and develop people can sometimes forget the little things that can have a positive impact on the quality of the relationship. I put these in three categories: Simple courtesies, simple pleasures, and simple words.


My Role Model

If you ask a child under the age of four who is their role model, the most frequent response is that of their parents or grandparents.


A Complete Departure

A parent should never outlive their child. It should somehow be made into a law.


Friends! Are They For Lifetime?

Friendship in today’s world has lost much of its meaning. How has the concept of Friendship changed over the years. What it truly means to be a friend. Read on to know more about it.


A Lost Relationship - Learning How to Walk Away

There you were, deeply involved in a relationship. It may have been stormy or you may have thought everything was running smoothly. Then it happened: Your significant other no longer wanted to be your significant other...


You're not Alone, Marital Problems Affect Most of Us at Some Point in our Lives

Relationships are never perfect and some appear less perfect than others but just because you don't always see eye to eye and just because you have let the relationship slide it doesn't mean to say that you weren't meant to be together.


We Are Simply Careless

Treasure your relationship with your loved ones with care because a Good Relationship is priceless! You just can't afford to be simply careless.


Relationship Problems? Personality Profiling Can Help

Have you ever wondered just what makes another family member tick? They probably wonder just the same about you! With personality profiling you can discover how to improve any relationship.


Ways to Rediscover Romance in Your Relationship

In the beginning of a relationship the romance is on its peak. The two of you are so comfortable together that you think this romance will never fade. Over time one discovers that romance is not as important as understanding each other’s needs and demands. Time flies by and you strive to cater for your partner’s demands and in all this hassle romance goes in the background. However, you must know that romance is as important for ...


When a Relationship Ends

If you're glued to the side of something, you really have no idea what the other side of it looks like.


The Power of Coffee (Dates)

When you've connected with a woman - either online or out socially - where do you take things next?
The next best step I've learned is the coffee date. Dont be so anxious to 'take her out.'


Why Does He Hurt Me?

What did I do to deserve this? I'm a good person I don't go out and try to hurt anybody on purpose. Why Does He Hurt Me?


Make Time For the Relationships In Your Life

Modern communication technology is supposed to make us more connected at a time when we're all so busy. But if we're not careful, it can actually interfere with our ability to be close and present with our friends and loved ones.


Domestic Violence is Alive and Well

Unfortunately, domestic violence is very much alive and well - and thriving. According to the National Victims Center, one woman is raped every minute, and 30% of all women murdered in this country are murdered by their boyfriends or husbands.


Why People Lie

Why do people lie, especially to those they love?


A Roommate is More than Someone who Shares the Rent

Renting an efficiency or one bedroom apartment means you make the rules and you pay the rent but when the living space expands to more than one not only the rent changes, the rules do as well. Taking into consideration the financial means of a potential roommate no longer is the single most important factor, one must now look at several traits to help make a decision that will result in not only a rent check being delivered on time but also a living situation that delivers little friction.


Want a Relationship that Works? Be More Selfish

When we’re young, we’re taught to play nice and share. Selfishness is a vice, and consideration a virtue. We carry those beliefs with us into adulthood where they work well in everyday life. But, the situation is different when you’re dating.


Analyzing This: Where Do You Think I Went Wrong?

As I promised, today we will analyze the letter from Kevin. He had an unhappy meeting and he wants us to analyze where he made a mistake. Here is his letter:



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