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Holiday Stress and Divorced Parenting

'Tis the season to be thankful, in another month to be jolly, and, if you're still not convinced, a whole new year right around the corner to try again if things don't work out for you through this year's holiday season! Holiday times for children of newly divorced parents are often the toughest time of year. They often have strong emotional attachments to days gone by when Mom, Dad, their brothers and sisters and they all cheerfully ate too much turkey and sang off-key holiday carols together. Remember that your joy in being away from what became an unbearable situation for you leading to a divorce may not have registered with your children, who are still in denial and are hurt, angry, and depressed.


Surviving a Break-Up - Why Non Contact is So Important

Find out why you should not contact your ex after a break up and ways to help you conquer the urge to do so.


Dating After a Failed Marriage – Relationship Advice

You were happily married. May be for a while. And you split. It can be imagined irrespective of the length of a marriage, a divorce does leave immovable scars. And the mere thought of seeing someone again can be dissuading. Love is all about being vulnerable to someone – why go through it again?


Living Tribal in a Democracy

Tribal living has survived for millions of years. Yet today few choose it as their lifestyle.


Relationship Rescue - 5 Ways to Sweeten a Sour Relationship

The biggest complaint most people have about their relationships is that their partner doesn't really value them. Does that sound familiar?


Choosing Anniversary Flowers

When we think of an anniversary flower, the first thing that comes to mind is the rose. Unless the one you love has a preference for their own special flower, the rose is traditionally the sign of love.


5 Steps to Enter Level Two of Your Relationship

Remember these five pointers and make a smooth transition into the Big League!


Amazing Grace: Couldn't You Just Run Over My Toe?

My mother was meeting Mike for the first time, after hearing about him for many years. Mike Schwass: national speaker, published author, coach, therapist, namesake for the high school Blackhawks MVP award...and quadriplegic.


Why the Love Won't Die, Excerpt from Dear God, How Do I Get Over a Former Lover I Still Love

The higher reasons for both the love you still feel and for why you attracted that person in the first place are usually not apparent on the intellectual level.


The Fine Art Of Appreciation And It's Many Benefits

One of the best ways to keep relationships positive, regardless of whether with friends, relatives or business associates or customers is to shoe appreciation. Going out of your way often to tell people how much you appreciate what they have done, regardless of how unimportant or little it might have been, puts you in the minority of the human race. (unfortunately)


How To Be Open To Receive

Most marriages that are troubled have these giver and receiver roles firmly fixed. In marriages that are happy, these roles will fluctuate between the partners regularly, depending on where the need is greatest. Where does most of your energy go during a normal day?


12 Qualities Of Romance In A Conscious Relationship

How do you put romance into your relationship? Real, long-lasting romance is necessary to Co-Create a conscious Relationship. If you need direction to make some romance, look at these. You may have some personal qualities to make them even more meaningful.


Bad in Bed? The Problem Might be Inside Your Head

The above statement is not merely an amateur poet’s attempt at rhyming; it is a fact. More often than not, our sexual problems (and there are so many of them), are all related to what’s going on inside our head. Problems in our sex life might seem just physical, but there’s a whole lot of psychology behind things going wrong in the bedroom.


That Extra Mile

Friendship is life's sweetest gift


Come Together

We all belong to a community of one sort or another. Nursing home - Assisted living site - village or Town. How do you connect to those in your community?


Repairing Relationships - Can You Find The Tools You Need Through Online Dating?

A lot of people need help repairing relationships. There is a limited amount of help found on some online dating sites...


Step 7 To An Ideal Realtionship: Always Look After Your Health

The importance of taking responsibility for one's own health is a corner stone for a successful relationship. This is why many don't and what can be done about it.


New Body Language Secrets

Innovative new way of using true body language analysis.


Relationship Quiz - Are You Angry At Your Partner?

Anger is the natural reaction of helplessness and frustration. When we feel that we are being forced to suffer, we get either angry or feel very helpless. When we feel victimized, we get angry with our abuser. What about your relationship? Are you getting angry with your partner for any reason? Can we quiz on that?


Are You in Relationship Remission?

Everyone's been burned, cheated on and totally deflated by their loved one at some point. It's not a fun thing to go through, and sometimes it causes the person to become disillusioned with the whole idea of romance, relationships or beginning anew.


Are You Made For Each Other?

The couple was walking on the sidewalk. They looked to be totally absorbed with each other. They were not speaking to each other, but a glance at them could tell that they were in deep love and were made for each other.


The World's Biggest Jerk

It takes hard work to be in a relationship. Many men don't understand what's involved. So they cheat, instead. This article is for those of you.


I Ain't Eating No Chitlins

Yes, we Black men and women have some collective concerns, a certain amount of shared pathos , arising from our shared painful past which we are daily changing to a triumphant future - but we are each something more fundamental than a cog in a Great Black Cause. I am, like you - just me.


Relationships: Self Pity As A Form Of Abuse

Did you know that self pity was a form of abuse, both to the individual who finds themselves in it and for their partner? If not then you may find this article relevant and informative.



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