Actual for You
#1 in Business Subscribe Email Print


Sex In Relationships: Is It Worth The Wait

There will come a point that serious relationships will be put towards the test, sometimes becoming so intimate that couples will soon want to take it to another level. While sex is not usually the immediate reason why people get into relationships, a lot have lead towards making sex a common happening for people who want to try out something more adventurous.


Amazing Grace: Couldn't You Just Run Over My Toe?

My mother was meeting Mike for the first time, after hearing about him for many years. Mike Schwass: national speaker, published author, coach, therapist, namesake for the high school Blackhawks MVP award...and quadriplegic.


The Hero's Journey: Bringing Your Russian Fiance Home

You have returned from the Hero’s Journey. Successful. You have returned with your mission accomplished, like the knights of old. You take your place of honor. You now have your reward.


7 Ways To Love Difficult In-laws (Part 2)

Some in-laws like to give out a lot of unasked for advice. They may tell you how to cook, what to wear, how to discipline the kids, How to budget your finances, etc. They may treat you as if you are still a child and don’t know any better. In-laws are older than us, but that does not necessarily mean they are wiser. Be respectful at all times, and take what you want and throw the rest out.


Sacred Love - Building a Relationship on the Higher Ground of Dreams and Love

Every year I take small groups of people to these sacred lakes. They go to find a deeper essence of life, to renew their individual commitment to authenticity. People sit by those lakes and dream, and there is no ego involved. Ego falls off on the way up. These lakes are a place where, legend has it, the power of prayers are multiplied by thousands upon thousands, a place where dreams that are dreamed, come true. And for me that has always been the case.


Know Your Man: Humor

Have you noticed that couples who laugh together remain together and seem incredibly happy? How can we better dissolve an argument or a marital storm but with a joke and some hearty laughter?


sacred Love - Overcoming Loneliness

Sitting on top of the world, looking across the vast expanse of this earth and this universe, it is possible to feel the beauty and ultimate emptiness of our existence here on earth. Emptiness. It means without meaning, insignificant, without need or the hope of have a need met. Sitting on top of one of these mountains and looking beyond we know that we are a part of something far greater that the little worlds we call our own.


10 Fatal Mistakes Women Make In Relationships - Inspiring Insight For Your Soul & Spirit!

Many women do not recognize that they have the power within themselves to live the life they truly desire. Too often, women find themselves forfeiting that inner strength for the counterfeit of an externally driven motivator - the expectations and demands of relationships in their lives.


How To Get The Most Out Of Marriage Counseling

If you are thinking of employing the services of a marriage counselor, here are some tips to ensure you get the most value for your time and money.


Is The Romance In Your Relationship Alive And Healthy?

So, the courting is over and you have settled in to a relaxed state in your relationship. You know your partner, you can anticipate their needs, wants and desires and you can push their buttons when and if you choose to.


Relationships, Heart, Honesty - A New Insight into Making Relationships Last

Whatever I do - such as my work, my yoga, making love, meditation, working - I do with all my heart, wholeheartedly, by throwing myself away and letting life take its natural course completely. But if my manner becomes habitual or self righteous, then anything I do will be wrong. It will be good for nothing. Always be a novice, a learner, no matter if we have been in love for 100 years with the same person, make a fresh start every day. We must always remember that love is unavailable to those who have a long memory. Simple people love more. That's called the Aussie Spirit. Australian people know how to lighten up, and that really helps life to shine.


Dear God, How Do I Get Over a Former Lover I Still Love? Exclusive Excerpt

Many people have deeply loved someone long after that person was not in their lives anymore. I have been through this, and I know how difficult it can be.


A Complete Departure

A parent should never outlive their child. It should somehow be made into a law.


Recognizing Emotional Shoplifting and Relationship Bankruptcy Part 1

Questions with Answers 1. What is Emotional Shoplifting? 2. How Can I Recognize the warning signs of Emotional Shoplifting? 3. What is Relationship Bankruptcy? 4. How Can I Spot it or Turn it Around? THE ANSWERS


How to Attract the Love of Your Life

It's very simple, but some people won't believe it. If you want love from another, if you want the perfect mate, you first have to LOVE YOURSELF.


Couples Relationship Assessment Quiz - Part 20 - Conscious Parenting

Do your children come to you for advice? Are you proud of your children's Emotional Intelligence? Being a Conscious Parent is part of Co-Creating a Conscious Relationship, and it requires self-awareness. You must know how emotions affect you and your behaviors and beliefs before you can coach your children to be conscious of their own behaviors. Breaking the barriers between you and your child id essential. This assessment looks at how close you are to becoming a Conscious Parent.


A Failing Relationship: How to Let Go

When we are in an established relationship, we quite normally have expectations of our partner. What do we do when the other person in the relationship is failing to meet our needs?


Roommate Interviews - Which Questions Should You Ask To Find The Perfect Roommate

Find out which questions you should be asking during your roommate interviews. Simply follow 3 easy steps and you'll never have to worry again about being unsure which questions to ask.


Musings on Gift Giving and Gift Baskets

Traditionally we give gifts at Christmas time and at birthdays. As our society has become more affluent our gifts at Christmas time have become more elaborate and more expensive, especially in the case of our children. Gone are the days when a string of beads, a book, or a soccer ball were acceptable gifts to give our children. Now it is ipods and Tamagochis and Play Stations and X Box consoles.


Letting Him Go Without Losing Your Mind: 9 Tips To Help You Get Over Your Ex

Getting over someone you love can be very difficult, especially if you're not ready to let go. But if a relationship diminishes your self-worth, devalues you, or drains you in any way, then it's probably time to end the relationship. Here's how.


To Find The Perfect Girl

This is the true story of a modern day quest, a quest to really see if it is possible to find the girl of your dreams in this dynamic and fast moving world we live in today.


How To Win Arguments In Your Favor

Use arguments to compel girls to feel attraction for you.


Intolerable Situations: What Have You Been Putting Up With In Your Relationship?

Do you have an unsolvable problem in your relationship? Are you confused about what you can do about it? Here are five tips that can change your life.


Relationship Advice: K is for Keeps

Are you playing for keeps in your relationship? Here are some strategies for making it over the long haul.



Next page>>