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Living Tribal in a Democracy

Tribal living has survived for millions of years. Yet today few choose it as their lifestyle.


Relationship: I Forgive You

In any form of relationships you or your partner or other family members are seen making mistakes and asking for forgiveness and then being excused for faults and mistakes is a part of life. But at times your partner makes such mistakes that you find it difficult to forgive. Especially in a married life when one of the partners hurts your feelings badly you find it hard to forgive.


Relationship: Be Yourself

Be original, your real self. People love you for what you are and not what you pretend to be. If to impress somebody you act to be somebody else you will not be able to attract the person for long. So always be yourself. Never put on what you are not.


Encourage Your Spouse and Build a Relationship That Lasts

It seems that in our society it has come to be expected that women will get together and criticize their husbands and boyfriends and men will get together and put down their wives and girlfriends. Everyone has to have a few sarcastic comments to fling at their partner, especially when there is an audience around to laugh at their expense. We tend to tear down the very person we claim to love. I think it has become so common in our society that sometimes people don’t even realize they are doing it.


Relationship: No Debates

No debates please! The secret of a happy relationship is to keep away from debates. Don’t argue over subjects that have proven differences of opinion among you and your partner Avoid unnecessary arguments.


No Need For A Broken Relationship

Look at our workable and positive solutions for the breakdown of your relationships.


Know Your Man: Pornography

This may come as a surprise to you. I took a while to figure this one out as well. Men like pornography.


Want Closeness? Avoid These 11 Intimacy Killers

Maintaining intimacy in relationships can be difficult, but something worth striving for. Wtih these tips, you will be on your way to experiencing more closeness in your relationships.


How to Stay in a Marriage When Times Are Tough

Divorced spouses are usually no happier after divorce than before except in marriages where there is physical violence. On the other hand, many married couples who had once been unhappy together for an extended period of time were able to turn their marriages around to become happily married even in spite of serious problems.


Was Casanova a Victim?

Apparently the world's most notorious playboy was a casualty of women who preyed on his generosity, says the author of a new book on Casanova. Truth revealed here...


Dating, Relationships and Your Brain

There are many unconscious forces at work in every stage of a relationship that have the potential for undermining your best efforts to sustain love if you are not aware. Being fully aware is difficult and controlling the outcome is impossible. In this article we'll look at brain development as a biological force that might be at play when you are making relationship choices.


Feeling Lonely - You're Not Alone

How does increasing isolation affect your emotional and social health? Learn more about the culprits of loneliness and how you can improve your social connections!


Tips on Seducing Women

Society is plagued with the man going after the woman. There are obstacles the person will have to overcome in order to have guts to make an impression on the girl and hopefully become a couple.


Yours, Mine, and Our Emotional Needs - The Marriage Makers and Breakers

A common theme in my articles, on my website, and in my coaching practice is on needs. For our purposes we define a need as a condition requiring relief. There are quite obviously many needs that you meet on a daily basis. Hunger may be one of the first things to come to mind when we think of needs, however, this is more of a physical need and we want to focus on our emotional needs!


Accept Your Partner or Open the Door

Having a relationship or being married is actually the same in relation to women's expectations. Women want their partner to behave in a certain way and also expect from their partner to understand their point of view, agree and next time act without needing any guidance from their part.


The Thrill is Gone - What’s Your Relationship Missing?

Are you just ‘going through the motions’ in your relationship? Do the words ‘I love you, but I’m not IN LOVE with you’ describe what you’re feeling? Find out what’s missing and how you can put the spark back into your relationship.


Stress Free Relationships

Relationships can be stress producing as well as rewarding. Feelings can be a curse or a blessing. Only robots are left unaffected by emotions within the relationship dance. All relationships, no matter how healthy, require skill and management. Each person needs to commit to creating a healthy relationship for oneself and the other.


The Truth About Intimate Relationships Between a Man and a Woman

Developing a strong, stable, and successful relationship with a woman takes lots of hard work and time. It requires sacrifice and sometimes it can even cause a lot of pain. Yet, once you reach the pinnacle of success with a thriving, successful relationship you get to know and be with someone with whom you get to share a type of intimacy that very few ever get to truly experience. However, most relationships don't even make it out of the beginning stages because most people don't even have a good and healthy reason to be in a relationship let alone know what they are in a relationship for.


Relationship In Trouble - Stop Calling!

If you are in a relationship and things have seem to taken a turn for the worse, you may feel confused, frustrated and betrayed. If the other person in the relationship has not quite broken up with you, but has taken the relationship down a few notches, you may be tempted to do quite a few things in an attempt to improve the situation. It is important to understand why you feel this way, learn the correct method of dealing with the turn of events and discover how you can cope with the feelings you are having.


Letting Go is Hard to Do: Reflections on Relationships

Letting go can feel like jumping out of a plane without a parachute. The relationship may have ended weeks or months or years ago, yet you can't get him or her out of your mind. We want to deny the relationship has ended. Letting go allows you to close one chapter of your life and to be able to start a new one with a clean page. If you keep thinking about an ex either with love or hate or fear or find yourself comparing all your dates to a former partner you are having trouble letting go.


Codependent Relationships: Takers and Caretakers

Takers and caretakers - they often seem to find each other! As a counselor who has worked with relationships for 37 years, I can tell you that this is the most frequent relationship dynamic that I en...


Personality Test- Are You An Interfering Partner?

How much space do you give to your partner/spouse? Or you are one of those who have advice on everything and who want to be with their partner at all times. Meeting your friends? Let me come with you. Going for shopping? I will also come. Going for a walk? Let me join you?


Is Giving Exotic Lingerie An Expression Of Love Or Lust?

Discover what sexy, exotic lingerie can do to spice up your love life and make your relationship with your partner more interesting and exciting.


Send Flowers

Have you ever wondered how even a single flower possesses the magic of lifting up our spirits and bringing a smile to our faces? Flowers have not only made the earth a more colorful place to live in, but for centuries have brought cheer and happiness to all.



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