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You Can Go Home Again

Going home is a wonderful gift. I got to see a good friend after 26 years and we hadn't changed a bit


Relationship: Follow Tradition

Following traditions in some way bring excitement in you life. There is always something you are expecting. Make it a tradition to celebrate your anniversary at some particular place you both love to go, it could be a restaurant which has its own specialty, a solitary place where you feel close to the nature and close to each other. Follow traditions to keep your married life full of excitement and fun.


The Intricacies of Family Relationships

This is the 21st century. There are so many more factors and issues that add stress to relationships. There are more demands on time, higher expectations, more toys and gadgets, high-stress careers or profession. Each member of a family need more space, more independence and freedom


Sacred Love - Compassion is Understanding and Understanding is Wisdom

Each day count your blessings to be alive and able to love. Although emotion may suggest that life is not always fair, never allow the pains, hurdles, and disappointments of the moment to overwhelm your loving attitude and plans for yourself and your beloved. What you don’t appreciate, depreciates. You can never win when you wear the resentful mask of self-pity, and the bitter taste of accusation. They will certainly frighten away any opportunity for love. Never again hold a critical thought for yourself or your beloved. There is a better way.


Sacred Love - The Second Law of Nature - Growing From Challenge

The purpose of this article is to discuss the second law of nature, the law of growth. Personal growth comes from changing your mind. When things happen, you can go into a downward spiral or change your mind. I you change you mind you can grow, if you don't then you will simply have to deal with the issue at hand.


Getting Past the Language of Victim and Blame

Over these past twenty five years researching and studying the science of love, I have often come across terms which defy rational thought, yet are considered everyday reality. One of those terms, which I would like to examine today is emotional abuse.


Is Your Relationship Out Of Control?

There are numerous challenges, circumstances, people and issues that can have both a positive and negative impact on the quality of a relationship. Here are some of the common ones that can place external demands on a relationship thereby causing it to lose some of its intimacy, integrity, passion and even interest.


Relationship Rituals Can Help You Or Hurt You

With the passage of time relationships can tend to fall into some negative and positive routines. Many of these contribute to the nurturing of the relationship while others can undermine its success. One of the things I have discovered over the years is that developing some rituals can ensure that the relationship stays on a positive track. Although no relationship is perfect (or ever will be) and experiences ups and downs these rituals can help keep the relationship focused on those attitudes, behaviors and feelings that you want to see continue.


Hard Work Is Bad Management - Especially in Love

What you appreciate grows. Good management is to appreciate things. Make them bigger. You make people bigger by appreciating them. You make businesses bigger by appreciating its assets. You make relationships bigger by appreciating how much you can do together as a couple (rather than as two individuals) and you make yourself bigger by appreciating life, and the gifts you have.


Moments of Perfection

What brings you home each and every day? Is it something more than the bricks and mortar that hold the walls together and the roof over your head? Do the walls of your home resonate with the sounds of joy and life, even when you are there alone? Home is where you share time and heart with those you love. Peace is what you find when you discover this truth. “Home” is the packaging material that preserves and protects the people and the memories that are found inside.


The Thrill is Gone - What’s Your Relationship Missing?

Are you just ‘going through the motions’ in your relationship? Do the words ‘I love you, but I’m not IN LOVE with you’ describe what you’re feeling? Find out what’s missing and how you can put the spark back into your relationship.


Relationship Advice: Are Co-Workers Dangerous to Your Relationship?

Do you know how to protect your relationship at work? Read on for some tips and tools about how to protect your relationship from you work world.


Your Real Odds of Getting Struck By Lightning

When I was a younger man one of my girlfriends had told me I hope you get struck by lightning. I thought to myself the chances of me being struck by lightning or about a million to one. However they are not quite that high and in fact I used to like to go jogging in the rain because I was a very good runner in high school and college.


Are You Being Kind to One Another?

Most often in a relationship, we take each other for granted. We become self-centered and sensitive. We easily get irritated and say hurting words to our partner that destroys a relationship. Instead, be kind to one another and keep that relationship strong and healthy.


Know What A Man Really Wants From A Woman - Key To A Man's Heart

Have you ever wondered what exactly every man wants from a woman? If not, then refer some of these little things that paved an easy way to a man's heart


Relationship Out of Focus Leads to Fallout

When couples focus on the small details in a marriage, the relationship seems to start going awry. Many urgent but not important activities set in and distract them. Focus on what’s important, focus on the positive aspects of your relationship, edify each other, and build each other up. Work on that relationship; work on what’s important… your love for each other.


Age Old Wedding Traditions

Most everyone is familiar with the saying, “Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.” It’s like a mantra that bride’s say as they check off the list.


Mum Beds Son's Mate?

While I don't want to be seen as condoning the above actions, let's face it, such relationships have occurred for years and in this day and age the very idea and inspirations for such actions are highlighted through films and television programs.


The History of Graduation Day, The Cap and The Gown Worn

The graduation ceremony is a cultural tradition that is considered a rite of passage. The ceremony marks a transition from one stage in a student’s life to another.


The Fourth Down - The Perfect Earth-Shattering Kiss

The perfect kiss will help lock you in with the man or woman of your dreams and will put you down in his / her memory banks forever! But, how do you achieve the perfect kiss? Each person has different feelings about the way they like to be kissed. A general rule for the first kiss is to be soft and brush his / her lips gently, without thrusting your tongue into your partner's mouth as if you were playing tonsil hockey.


When You're Looking For A Way Out

If you're looking for a way out of a bad relationship but feel unequal to the challenge, maybe you need to 'chunk down'. It only takes strategic, small changes to rebuild your confidence and sense of self. Then you can identify your best way out and pursue it, free from fear and hesitation.


Take Her to the Best Spring Party of the Season

Spring is definitely in the air, and the sap of all red-blooded males just starts to fizz around this time of year. As the birds start cheeping and the buds start flowering, a guy’s thoughts turn to flirting and fun. No doubt your woman is feeling some of the same frisky thoughts – what better time to whisk her away on a special break just for the two of you?


Gender Incompatibility (Humor)

What makes two people incompatible? How do you recognize the elements of incompatibility?


Rebuilding Trust

Trust is hard to gain, but easy to lose. What steps can you take to get trust back with some you love?



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