Having a birthday is actually a wonderful thing. Why do so many people freak out? I am happier now than I was 20 years ago.

The key to a happy relationship is being together with each other. If you have of children then try to divide responsibilities among yourself in the best suitable way so that you get time for yourself.

All our stories of the past are actually a balance of pleasure and pain. But that is not how we remember them. We want to protect ourselves, because we don’t want to admit how much we loved a person, and still do. We hold onto those stories and try to crease a life around them.

Anyone who knows the military would advise, if you fear and resist change - don't become a military spouse. Tell that to my daughter.

It takes an incredible amount of courage to be the newcomer and to strive to become one of the herd.

Need to get beyond relationships that just don't work?

A wilderness of shattered relationships exists because men and women are doing things incorrectly. Read how history has shaped the way you think and why this thinking is detrimental to your relationships.

How many break-ups also result in feelings of guilt amongst partners? Please take care of guilt before you break-up. Guilt can be a very damaging feeling and can make any life hell. Those who are full of guilt undergo lot of pain asking for forgiveness everywhere, but fail to forgive themselves.

As a woman, you have likes, dislikes, passions, and desires. Why should you surrender those things completely to another? There will be times that you will have to be flexible and creative in order to support your man’s dreams and to keep yours going. That is okay. Supporting your man’s dreams is encouraged. Being flexible about how you both can achieve your dreams is encouraged. However, surrendering or deferring your dreams indefinitely is strongly discouraged.