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Stop Dragging Your Past into Present Relationships - Part One of Two

Expressed as a two-way bridge between childhood and adulthood, magical thinking is a developmental stage during childhood that serves a very important function in the process of creativity and imagination. Like so many of our developmental constructs, when magical thinking is held onto and not revised in the light of reality it becomes maladaptive.


Relationship: Special Greetings

Everyone wants fun and excitement in a relationship. Greet our partner in such a way that is exciting. Get your lover addicted to you with your different way of greeting him. Your partner should always feel a wave of excitement on meeting you while returning from work or any place, after a long break or a short break whatever the gap the meeting should be exciting.


A Part of Speech or Speech Apart

Adjectives are a part of speech and a speech apart. What we say has everything to do with who we are, how we act, and how we are perceived.


Is Your Relationship Out Of Control?

There are numerous challenges, circumstances, people and issues that can have both a positive and negative impact on the quality of a relationship. Here are some of the common ones that can place external demands on a relationship thereby causing it to lose some of its intimacy, integrity, passion and even interest.


Yours, Mine, and Our Emotional Needs - The Marriage Makers and Breakers

A common theme in my articles, on my website, and in my coaching practice is on needs. For our purposes we define a need as a condition requiring relief. There are quite obviously many needs that you meet on a daily basis. Hunger may be one of the first things to come to mind when we think of needs, however, this is more of a physical need and we want to focus on our emotional needs!


How To Buy The Right Gifts For Your Girl To Keep You Out Of The Doghouse

Are you the type of guy that is clueless when it comes to buying a gift for your girl? If so, you aren't alone, there are many men who get cold sweats just thinking of trying to find the right gift.


Relationship In Trouble - Stop Calling!

If you are in a relationship and things have seem to taken a turn for the worse, you may feel confused, frustrated and betrayed. If the other person in the relationship has not quite broken up with you, but has taken the relationship down a few notches, you may be tempted to do quite a few things in an attempt to improve the situation. It is important to understand why you feel this way, learn the correct method of dealing with the turn of events and discover how you can cope with the feelings you are having.


What To Get Your Father on His Special Day

It's Father’s Day soon, and you're not sure what to get?


Memory Foam Mattress Saves Relationship

A memory foam mattress can improve your love life. Find out how changing your tired old mattress for a hi-tech replacement can give your love life a boost and improve your relationship with your sleeping partner.


Tips to a Great Marriage – Their Needs

The number one thing you can do to have a great marriage is such a simple concept but it’s really something that is hard for most people to implement. You spend the majority of your time focusing on what you need and want. I want my husband to do this but he doesn’t, I need for her to show me more affection. The list is endless!


Looking For Someone? Simple How-To Guide To Locating Them Now

Are you looking for a long lost friend or even a relative that you've fallen out of touch with? If so, online People Finders are one way to help you get started with your search. But with so many online services out there, it can get a little overwhelming. And you don't want to get ripped-off either if you decide to go with a pay service.


How Things Work VS. How Things Look

Do husbands and wives approach things from different perspectives? I believe they do. This article explores one way that I think this happens, and how we can adapt.


Got Jealousy?

Presents a unique understanding of jealousy. They offer an easy, four step method to communicate through the jealousy in order to strengthen a relationship.


How to be Involved With a Narcissist

I get asked this alot. How to you be in a relationship with a narcissist at best is difficult. My honestly advice, is to stop. End that relationship, end it as soon as possible. I can't emphasize that no one needs to be in a relationship with a narcissist.


Relationships: Love Vs. Infatuation

The heart has been discredited for too long for what it does not generate; feelings of infatuation.


Why Lovers Hurt Their Beloved Most?

A lover, who claims to love, can never hurt his/her beloved. Love demands that you care utmost for your beloved. You are concerned about their feelings. You make them as comfortable as possible.


Are You Satisfied With Your Mate

One of the partner is a genius and the other could barely pass through the exams. How do such relationships develop and how do they survive? Such relationships developed because both loved each other because of the differences.


Ten Steps to Understanding and Using RR's (Relationship Reflections)

Understanding and using the messages your relationships provide can lead you to inner strength and improved self esteem. The following article contains ten simple steps to learning how to use RR's for self improvement.


How to Charm and Beguile to Become Irresistible

You can learn to cast a spell over anyone. The secrets are within your reach. All you need to do is to learn where to focus your energy and attention.


How to Send Money to Russia

If you plan a mutual travel or just want to send money to your fiancee, you face the problem: how to do it in the best way? There are 4 ways and it depends on the sum, purpose and regularity which way is the best. That’s the topic we are going to discuss today.


Super Relationship Tips: Create A Memorable Non-Occasion

The admen and the marketing mavens have created a cultural expectation around special occasions and calendar events. We are inundated with sales pitches for Christmas, birthdays, weddings, anniversaries, New Year, Halloween, Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Father's Day, and any other day they can find that will make us feel that we absolutely have to buy a gift to express our sentiments. Dates on the calendar are merely days like any other days. Our relationships are 365 days a year and something this good deserves a celebration at any time and at any place.



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