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Sacred Love Growing through Challenges; Part 1

All emotion is only half the truth, an illusion; a complete lie. Life is balanced, we distort it by projecting out opinion onto it. We interpret it with our ego and spin it left or right and therefore emotionalise it. By emotionalising things, we can make it safe. And from a love aspect, then we see where we are – out of integrity – and could bring our ego back to balance, if we chose to.


Sacred Love - Building a Relationship on Truth and Trust, Beyond Emotion and Blame

Emotion is the language of the ego. Emotion is the most wonderful honesty about how you feel, think and see life. But if you think your emotions are anything but a witnessing of your own “unconsciousness”, you may have a big problem in life. Emotions block love. No relationship, sacred or otherwise, can thrive when a couple considers their emotions a foundation. Those emotions are so changeable.


Sacred Love - Never Go Back

A sacred relationship takes two. Sometimes one or both people, are just not ready. To move into a sacred relationship, the individual you choose must be ready. If they are desperate, they say, “Got to this” and “Got to that”, and they are not ready. If they are always saying, “You should be like this”, or “You should be like that” then they are not ready.


Being Normal - Learning the Art of Happiness

Here are a few laws, a few simple laws. If you apply these laws, you might change the cause of your own, and others unhappiness. I hope they are of interest to you. Then, instead of trying to fix and make yourself better (which you can’t) you might start to smile and celebrate the beauty of life, by trekking up to the summit of a hill in Nepal, or kiss a baby instead of trying to fix what isn’t broken.


Is It Time For A Relationship CHECK-UP?

Most couples just go from one day to the next and one year to the next without ever discovering the true meaning of what positive and nurturing relationships are really all about.


The Thrill is Gone - What’s Your Relationship Missing?

Are you just ‘going through the motions’ in your relationship? Do the words ‘I love you, but I’m not IN LOVE with you’ describe what you’re feeling? Find out what’s missing and how you can put the spark back into your relationship.


Introduction - From the Chat-Room to the Church

Introduction Do you think it's possible to find a long-term lover - even a life-partner - in the digital world? I sure didn't. I figured it was a great place to meet people for sex, for playing out romantic fantasies in a safe and non-committal environment. Quite frankly, I considered surfing on the Internet for love would be a big waste of time compared to trying to meet someone in relatively safe venues.


Can Or Should Your Marriage Be Saved?

There are often bumps in the road to marital bliss, even in the best relationships. Should you stay or should you go?


How Much Baggage Should You Check-In?

How much do you need to reveal when you are meeting someone new?


A Lost Relationship - Learning How to Walk Away

There you were, deeply involved in a relationship. It may have been stormy or you may have thought everything was running smoothly. Then it happened: Your significant other no longer wanted to be your significant other...


That Extra Mile

Friendship is life's sweetest gift


Appreciate The Differences For A Great Relationship

The key to a growing and vibrant relationship is acceptance of the differences between one another. In fact, the other person's differences may be just what you need to grow stronger.


Tips to a Great Marriage - Expectations, The Relationship Killer

Expectations are relationship killers. I bet you’re thinking that I must be batty, you have to have expectations of your spouse otherwise they won’t do the things that you want them to do or they might turn into somebody that you hate.


Hey, Watchya Doin?

What friendship can be when one or the other perseveres, and the other is humbled.


How To Deal With Partner Obsessions and Save Your Relationship

There will always be people that drift from one addiction to another. Needless to say, these are not the best candidates for long-term relationships or commitments. However, if you are struggling with a partner who has a simple short-term obsession, you can bring them back into the fold with common sense, passion and support.


Sorry Ecards - How Many Did You Send Last Month?

We are all human. And we all make mistakes. But not all of us apologize. Let us look into this. All right, do you remember how many ecards expressing Sorry were sent by you during last month? How many times did you say sorry to somebody?


Satisfaction In Marriage

There are very few marriages, where both the partners are satisfied fully. Go around and make a small survey. The results may look shocking but they are true. Everyone has one or the other complain about the married life.


Relationships: How To Overcome Your Shyness Quickly And Painlessly

If you suffer from shyness or social anxiety and would like your life back then you may wish to read this article. It provides an answer that will set you free once and for all.


Birthday Gift Ideas

Birthdays mark ceremonial passages of time and are observed around the world in innumerable ways. Celebrating that exclusive day in someone's life, birthdays help break humdrum routines and invigorate relationships like nothing else can. It all revolves around your culture, religious beliefs, prevailing social customs and circumstance.


How Do I Say Goodbye to Someone I Love

How can I say goodbye when I don’t want to? Can you please explain why some people keep returning to each other after repeated break-ups? How do I stop thinking about the past and hoping for the future? What do I do with all of the love I still feel for that person?


Love is Not Enough

Do you feel disappointed and like a failure because you love your partner but you still have many painful conflicts? Find out what it takes to have the healthy, fulfilling relationship you desire and deserve...


The Miraculous Mystery of Winter

Winter is subtle. Wrapped in the season are revelations and mysteries that can transport you into dimensions you hadn’t even imagined. That’s a lot like the one you love, isn’t it?


A Typical Russian Lady Willing to Marry a Foreign Man: Her Portrait

Each of us has some typical images in mind: an ideal man, an ideal mother, miss Perfection and so on. It doesn’t mean we try to make our fellow mates fit all these criteria. But cliches can help us understand what we want.


The Role of Vision in Relationships

Unspoken expectations. These are the silent killers that tear down communication, destroy intimacy and leave our love lives unfulfilling. We all expect our partners to be psychic and know exactly what we want. Stop and think how silly this is.



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