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Surviving a Break-Up - Why Non Contact is So Important

Find out why you should not contact your ex after a break up and ways to help you conquer the urge to do so.


The New Marriage - Part Four of Four

When we are children we do not yet have an identity. We learn about who we are through the mirroring that we get from our parents. It is called mirroring to describe the ability of good parents to gently hold up an imaginary mirror in front of the child until they learn to see themselves clearly without harsh judgments. If we do not get enough realistic mirroring during the years we live with them, we remain pretty clueless about who we really are.


The New Marriage - Part Two of Four

When we fail to get the response or connection with our partner that we want, perhaps we should stop and look at our own thoughts and behavior. It may remind us of frightful tigers from our past stalking the room. Sometimes a calm and collected exterior hides demons lingering from childhood. But how do we uncover the real person underneath our sophisticated facade? We climbed that mountain so long ago; the path we took may be lost in the undergrowth.


Should Men be Afraid of Women?

A brief look at the hidden yet true relationship between men and women in modern society. How to deal with being intimidated by women? Find out more here.


How Can I Get It Right in a Relationship with Someone Else and Myself?

Here are key questions and answers that anyone can apply to get it right in a relationship with someone else as well as yourself.


Sacred Love - Some Advice to Those Seeking a New Relationship

Here are 11 warnings. They are not meant to encourage judgment, moreover, they are meant to help you to respect where people are at. The last person to know where they are at is the person them self, because their lust, emotion, and need to be rescued from their hell will make you the idol they will worship. They will be so attached, yet, complain and struggle, often blaming you for all their problems, when really it was their reality before you met.


Dear God, How Do I Get Over a Former Lover I Still Love? Exclusive Excerpt

Many people have deeply loved someone long after that person was not in their lives anymore. I have been through this, and I know how difficult it can be.


How To Be Open To Receive

Most marriages that are troubled have these giver and receiver roles firmly fixed. In marriages that are happy, these roles will fluctuate between the partners regularly, depending on where the need is greatest. Where does most of your energy go during a normal day?


Take a Mini Vacation

Many couples long to get away, but many factors interfere with taking a vacation. Children, cost, and work are only a few of the major issues couples face when planning vacations. Yet time away can be a wonderful way to rejuvenate mind, spirit, and romance.


Couples Relationship Assessment Quiz - Part 9: Conscious Vision

Do you know where you want to go? Can you and your partner clearly see your future together? A vision is imagery of your hopes, dreams, and expectations. In order to Co-Create a Conscious Relationship you must define your vision. Your vision is a source of your personal power that motivates and inspires, both yourself and your partner. This assessment looks at how clearly you see - or don't see.


Doubts, Worries, and Fears Shake Relationships

Doubts, worries and fears can truly shake a relationship. They may not disappear overnight but what is important is to make that decision to overcome inconvenienced being marriage troubles that can damage your relationship because definitely you would want to have a happy and peaceful marriage.


Some Helpful Hints For a More Exciting Relationship

I think we can all agree that most relationships are very exciting in the beginning but if you have been in your current relationship for awhile you may have already noticed that the initial excitement you had is starting to subside and you and your partner may be settling into a dull routine.


Seven B's of Healthy Relationships

There are certain principles that apply to all types of relationships, whether they are friendships, romances, business associations or family interactions. We all lose focus from time to time and can benefit from being reminded of the core tenets of relationship success. Being attuned to the Seven B’s, can help you make all of your relationships healthier, happier and more productive, revealing a never-ending loop of continous improvement.


Step 10 To An Ideal Relationship: Continue Your Personal Growth

Personal growth is an essential component to an ideal relationship. Here's how to achieve it.


Five Reasons to Come First to the Future Bride's Homeland Instead of Inviting Her

Dating with a Ukrainian or Russian girl usually begins with cautious correspondence which lasts for a few months and is followed by a man's visit to Ukraine or Russia. Some men make haste and would prefer to invite the Ukrainian woman to their country at once so that she could see the place where she is supposed to live after the marriage. But the usual practical recommendation for a foreign man is to display curiosity and visit the possible future bride's country first. Why so? There are several reasons for doing that.


Relationship - Will You Grow Together Till Old Age?

In today's age for a couple to think of growing together till old age looks difficult. The rate at which divorces are taking place and couples separate, it is a difficult task. This was not so, only two three decades ago.


Men- Do You Attract Women?

For many men, attracting women looks very difficult. For few men, it is very simple. The women get attracted to them automatically. There is some magnetism in them or so it seems. It is their personality, their confidence and their talking style that attracts women of a certain type to such men.


I Love You And I Need Space

Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed and want to hide from your loved ones? Are you finding yourself even starting arguments, having an accident, or becoming ill so that you can have some time alone? Wouldn't it be wonderful to have a constructive way to have that need met?


How Can You Mend a Broken Heart?

Having a broken heart is nothing to laugh about. If your heart has been broken in the past (whose heart hasn't, really?) or is broken now, you know exactly what I mean. Besides the depression, all sorts of negative feelings pile up on an already stressed body and not only feel like dying but you might also develop a serious illness that may indeed kill you.


Relationship Advice: 5 Gifts of More Lasting Value for Couples

Don't know what to get your spouse or partner for Christmas? Here are five suggestions for gifts of more lasting value.



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