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Are You Drawn To Toxic Relationships?

As every hopeless romantic would declare, love is bliss. And if you were to believe that every love story ends in “happily ever after”, the world would have been a happy place to live in.


Sex In Relationships: Is It Worth The Wait

There will come a point that serious relationships will be put towards the test, sometimes becoming so intimate that couples will soon want to take it to another level. While sex is not usually the immediate reason why people get into relationships, a lot have lead towards making sex a common happening for people who want to try out something more adventurous.


Apologies can Kickstart that Flagging Relationship

10 situations that call for an apology, and how they can put you in the limelight


Sacred Love - How to Heal the Past - a Process to Love

Pain can only exist in a closed heart. Future relationships suffer from past unhealed wounds. If you can't let go, you'll spoil the next or attract a fool. healing the past is a duty, an obligation to yourself and those who depend on you. Here's how.


Marriage Takes a Giving and Forgiving Attitude

Why do you say, “I have a bad marriage?” Maybe what you should be saying is, “I am a bad marriage partner?” The reality is folks, marriage takes a giving and forgiving attitude, and without that, what is left? You tell me what happens when you don’t forgive your spouse?


My First Exposure to Russian Women

I got an email from out of the blue from ICQ, which asked if I wanted to post my picture and bio on their website.I sent the info to them on a lark. Shorty, I received an email from a Ukrainian woman.


Men: Winning The Woman Of Your Dreams

What makes for a happy relationship? What makes one couple have a successful relationship while another couple flounders? Is it just luck? Why do some men get the Woman Of Their Dreams while others get stuck with controlling women? Or, frigid women? Or, manipulative women?


Stop Wasting Your Time With The Wrong Person

Don't lose who you are for the sake of a dysfunctional relationship. Too many people waste way too much time trying to understand a partner who only makes them crazier in the process. Learn the better questions to ask.


Relationship Strained? Try Creating the Right Environment

Your relationship problems may not be either of your faults. Learn Georgette's secrets to creating an environment that fosters a great relationship.


Couples Relationship Assessment Quiz - Part 9: Conscious Vision

Do you know where you want to go? Can you and your partner clearly see your future together? A vision is imagery of your hopes, dreams, and expectations. In order to Co-Create a Conscious Relationship you must define your vision. Your vision is a source of your personal power that motivates and inspires, both yourself and your partner. This assessment looks at how clearly you see - or don't see.


Stereotypes

The stereotypes associated with the wonderful Jewish nation are usually as follows: Jew is a person who practices Judaism, all Israelis are Jewish, Jews have huge noses (because air is free), an unusually large forehead, a Jew owns the most part of the world mass media, likes to kill Palestinian children, and whose only goal in life is to make as much money as possible and then take this money to the grave with him because it is too insatiable to pass on their wealth to their children.


You're not Alone, Marital Problems Affect Most of Us at Some Point in our Lives

Relationships are never perfect and some appear less perfect than others but just because you don't always see eye to eye and just because you have let the relationship slide it doesn't mean to say that you weren't meant to be together.


Drugs - Coping Not Doping: Hitched, Hiccups and Help for the Relationship

Drugs' ability to ease marital arguments. What ways can we relieve relational tension and solve problems? How important is communication, commitment and covenant in relationships today?


The Fourth Down - The Perfect Earth-Shattering Kiss

The perfect kiss will help lock you in with the man or woman of your dreams and will put you down in his / her memory banks forever! But, how do you achieve the perfect kiss? Each person has different feelings about the way they like to be kissed. A general rule for the first kiss is to be soft and brush his / her lips gently, without thrusting your tongue into your partner's mouth as if you were playing tonsil hockey.


How to Say No to a NICE GUY?

He may be as sweet as sugar, but he's not your type. Can you ever let him down gently?


When Boyfriends Ask To Borrow From Their Girlfriends

Now this is a tough one and practically depends on what situation you are in. There can be three scenarios one is when the guy is genuinely in need of some money and you are the only one who can lend it to him at this point in time...


The Two Most Powerful Words to Use in Overcoming Relationship Challenges

When it comes to romantic relationships, it is common for arguments and disagreements to arise. These challenges come up as a way to help us move forward. But what we often do is throw out a relationship, instead choosing to create a new one with the hopes that the new one will be different (generally the new one mirrors the previous). The key question is what if you treated your relationship with your partner the same way you treat your relationship with yourself?...


The Pigeon Dance

Instant Karma is delicious served with bird poop and a dirty tissue. How my Internet relationship led to sweet revenge!


What to Do When It Seems That People Don't Like You

Soemtimes it seems that other people don't really like us, no matter how hard we try to make friends. Learn what you can do if it seems as if other people don't like you.


Will You Survive a Relationship Breakdown?

Most of us can bear break down in most of the above relationships except those of love. Why? Who will survive a breakdown in romantic relationship and who will get shattered? Let us discuss.


Silence—The Ultimate Control and Power Over Another

There are fifteen categories of verbal abuse. Verbal abuse is a violation, not a conflict. In describing verbal abuse it is a boundary violation, it is an intrusion upon another, or disregard of another in a relentless pursuit of Power Over, superiority and dominance by covert or overt means.


I Ain't Eating No Chitlins

Yes, we Black men and women have some collective concerns, a certain amount of shared pathos , arising from our shared painful past which we are daily changing to a triumphant future - but we are each something more fundamental than a cog in a Great Black Cause. I am, like you - just me.


The Feared and Dreaded 'Relationship Report Card'

Everyone dreaded report card day in school and if you are dreading making your own relationship report card, then you need to buckle down and study! When you rank all of the aspects of your relationship with your spouse, you want (and need!) to score in the high nineties for an A+.


Add Smile Power to Your Life to Empower Your Relationships

People with a great smile radiate a warmth that draws others to them instantly.



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