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Stop Dragging Your Past into Present Relationships - Part Two of Two

The rapture phase of love gives each partner a feeling that is buoyant, lively, and fulfilling. You project onto your partner images of beauty, goodness, and love as if your partner were a canvas waiting to be painted on. The energy of this consciousness shines a bright light across the world, obliterating all the differences in your characters, lifting you and your partner to a higher state of being. You are atop the summit, and you sparkle to one another like diamonds with many facets of light.


Infidelity Recovery: What is It with Men?

Men, or more precisely polarized couples, find difficulty in fully committing to recovery from infidelity or an extramarital affair.


Know Your Man: Grooming

Sometimes men find it terrific to stay all weekend at home in his PJs, without shaving, brushing teeth, combing hair, or showering. They will do this to de-stress and not to embarrass us. It is the time when they let go of his ordinary activities and roles and almost literally enter their caves.


Marriage Takes a Giving and Forgiving Attitude

Why do you say, “I have a bad marriage?” Maybe what you should be saying is, “I am a bad marriage partner?” The reality is folks, marriage takes a giving and forgiving attitude, and without that, what is left? You tell me what happens when you don’t forgive your spouse?


No Excuses for Men

Men have spent the last 2,000 years placing an erection on a pedestal and trying to teach women how important and valuable it is. We have placed orgasms and climax at the peak of romantic relations, and in many, many cases inflicted that narrow perspective through our unconscious behavior toward women. We owe an apology for the mass of history, and the blindness of this little perspective.


Meeting Russian Women In Person

You are going to have to get on that big bird and head to Russia. You cannot bring a woman to the U.S. under a fianc? visa without meeting her first, and providing substantial proof of that meeting.


Telephoning Russian Women

My recommendation is to first establish a relationship with a woman before calling her. The cost of calling Russia and other CIS countries has dropped dramatically over the past few years.


Looking for Simple Answers to Relationship Problems?

A look at how relationships grow complex and why simple answers do not always work. Learn the basic requirements for successful relationships.


Tips for Men: The Need to Talk

Gentlemen, I'm going to let you in on a little secret about the women in your lives! Women not only love to talk but they actually NEED to talk. For many women this need is just as great as your own need for sex.


A Complete Departure

A parent should never outlive their child. It should somehow be made into a law.


Why Men Don't Ask For Directions

Almost every woman has a story about a man who drove around for hours looking for some place and refused her entreaties to stop and ask someone for directions. To women, this seems like the ultimate display of male arrogance and stubbornness. But what if it isn't?


Life is too Short, Don't Have Regrets, Save your Marriage Today

Realising how little time we have, puts a whole new perspective on life and makes you realise how precious life is. Now if you consider your relationship, do you really want to waste the best years of your life on failed relationships, one parent lifestyles and lonely nights? Save your marriage before it's too late!


Fair Fighting In Relationships? Why Even Fight At All?

It's not whether or not we fight in our relationships that matters. It's how fighting is done. If done right, fights can strengthen our personal connections.


Everyday Gift Ideas That Will Make SPARKS Fly!

Guys serenade her by getting up in the middle of a fully crowded restaurant (not a cheap “all you can eat” type) and declaring your undying love for her in front of a bunch of “I don’t need a man to make me happy” man-hating women. Blaring “our song” outside her window in the middle of the night after you’ve had a nasty fight will get you back in the house quicker than you can say “Halle Berry”.


How To Start A Conversation With A Woman

Finally, remember it’s a conversation; both have to share the mantle. Be prepared to guide the conversation to a mutually convenient topic. This implies that you have to start with the initial question and look beyond. Start with the aim to keep the conversation going; that will ensure that you progress in the relationship and maybe start the journey granny told you about – the one which lead to the gates of heaven.


A Few Simple Things You Can Do To Rekindle A Relationship

One easy way to bring the excitement back into your relationship is to set up a date night. While you may see each other daily and even go out to dinner every Friday night, setting up a date night outside of your usual schedule will enhance your relationship and give you something to look forward to.


Tips for Reviving Passion in a Relationship

Many couples feel that their relationship starts to lose its passion after sometime. This is mostly because of the fact that they don’t try anything new and feel that they have become bored of everything. What they need to know is that variety is very important for a healthy and passionate relationship. This article will help you discover some of the ways to re-ignite passion in your relationship and re-discover the excitement of being committed.


Hey, Watchya Doin?

What friendship can be when one or the other perseveres, and the other is humbled.


How to Say No to a NICE GUY?

He may be as sweet as sugar, but he's not your type. Can you ever let him down gently?


How to Be Romantic

Being romantic is something anyone can be. Some of us just need a little help and guidance to get started. Read on for practical tips you can use to romance your loved one today!


Make Time For the Relationships In Your Life

Modern communication technology is supposed to make us more connected at a time when we're all so busy. But if we're not careful, it can actually interfere with our ability to be close and present with our friends and loved ones.


How To Create Your Own Relationship Reality

One skill which I have been emphasizing in all my practice and in all my works is, you have to make whatever knowledge you have gained your OWN! Other people can share with you or teach you their secret “formulas”, their magical strategies and their powerful tips, but nothing will happen for YOU if you do not have the intention to put these teachings and strategies into practice, customize them, and make them work for you!


What If Your Relationship Could Be

What if? A very powerful question. If you let it, it will not only open areas of your relationship that need exploration, it can carry into new dimension of what you have together.


The Revealing Touch

Intimacy has a difficult time with absolute certainty. There’s no room to breathe, and no room to receive reality. And reality is where real love lives. No other place.



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