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Stop Dragging Your Past into Present Relationships - Part One of Two

Expressed as a two-way bridge between childhood and adulthood, magical thinking is a developmental stage during childhood that serves a very important function in the process of creativity and imagination. Like so many of our developmental constructs, when magical thinking is held onto and not revised in the light of reality it becomes maladaptive.


Tips For Starting Conversation With A Stranger

Starting conversation with someone you have just met is sometimes difficult for the majority of us just because we are not sure of what to say. But to be confident to make the first move in starting conversation with a stranger often boosts our spirits and helps us to become more diligent and contented with ourselves.


Sacred Love - Building a Relationship on Truth and Trust, Beyond Emotion and Blame

Emotion is the language of the ego. Emotion is the most wonderful honesty about how you feel, think and see life. But if you think your emotions are anything but a witnessing of your own “unconsciousness”, you may have a big problem in life. Emotions block love. No relationship, sacred or otherwise, can thrive when a couple considers their emotions a foundation. Those emotions are so changeable.


The Most Frequent Relationship Mistakes People Make

No relationship is without stress, disappointment, problems or frustration. Regardless of whether you have been married for 50 years, dating for 6 months or living together for anything inbetween I will guarantee that sooner or later you will make or have made one of the following relationship mistakes.


What's Fear Have to Do with It?

What would you do if you knew you could not fail? In fact what would you do differently today? Does your fear keep you from what you most want? Do you find yourself making excuses instead of going after what you really want in life? Imagine like Indiana Jones who had a fear of snakes, you were tossed in a pit of writhing slithering snakes or do you have a fear of high places or even speaking in front of a large crowd.


Couples Relationship Assessment Quiz - Part 3: Conscious Listening

Can you say what you mean and have your partner hear what you mean? Conscious Listening is critical to the success of Co-Creating a Conscious Relationship. Both partners must take a role in speaking and listening. You will always have issues, thoughts, feelings, and problems, on your Journey from I-TO-WE, but you will not be able to resolve them without effective communication skills and techniques. This assessment helps you recognize the elements of communication in which you shine, and the elements that need attention.


Sexual Relationships and the Stages They All Go Through

You're probably unaware that most sexual relationships go through the same stages. If you want to discover how to go from meeting a woman, to sharing her bed, then read on.


Step 5 To An Ideal Relationship: Being Personally Honest

Here's what it means to be personally honest in a relationship.


How To Look For Your Perfect Companion In The Right Places

Are you looking for Love by Design? Well you certainly have found the right place. A lot of people go through life completely unconscious and not knowing exactly what they want to have in a relationship until they get into a relationship and find that they don't have what they want.


Relationship Renewal; Part-1 Amazing Training

You can have relationship renewal through using Amazing Training to make sure you're always seen as the ideal partner. Begin now by making one decision.


The D Word - Dating

This installment covers the phone/email stalker. You can find this article series as part of Game Chronicles


Sensory Awareness for Your Relationship — Pay Attention

Having the ability to fully observe your loved one, without making any assumptions or evaluation about them is an important skill to have in building a solid connectedness with them.


Romantic Birthday

You are in love and your beloveds birthday is coming soon. Imagine the explosion of feelings. Already in romance, a person loses all his sanity. Combine that with birthday of the beloved and you will get a perfect madcap.


Relationship Sabatoge

Sometimes, the enemy is us. By repeating the same negative patterns and behaviors, we often sabatoge our relationships. When we choose partners based on surface credentials rather than values and character, we set ourselves up for relationship failure.


Gated Online Communities Phenomenon on the Internet

VIP Social Networking Websites and Gated Online Communities.


The First Step To Getting Over A Breakup

Lately I've had a run of clients having a very hard time getting over the end of a relationship, so let me share some secrets with you about how to heal.


Relationship Advice: K is for Keeps

Are you playing for keeps in your relationship? Here are some strategies for making it over the long haul.


Relationship Advice: J is for Just You and Me

Do you and your partner ever get time for just the two of you? Read on to discover the importance of alone time and some strategies for getting it in a hectic life.



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