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Celebrating Traditions—or Why Hosting a Quinceanera is a Grand Thing

And I stopped and thought about how these traditions come and stay. About how generations of children have celebrated religious heritages with bar/bat mitzvahs and christenings and baptism parties; about how American girls have Sweet Sixteen’s and how Latin girls have Quince’s. About weddings. And how these events occur just once in a lifetime. Once or twice in a family.


Online Dating Tips - Growing Your Online Relationship With TLC

Tips for online dating success. How to develop your relationship online as well as offline by practicing patience, caring, understanding and TLC.


Sacred Love - Healing a Broken Heart; Part 3

But if you want love. Well that’s a different story. Love means naked, raw, honest, exposed, vulnerability. I hear people say, “I need to trust before I become vulnerable” and that is a horrible lie. The only person you need to trust in being vulnerable is you. Shame makes us worry about trust. Why would we be holding back anything if it weren’t for shame. Shame means we are not worthy of love, therefore, we can’t trust ourselves being open and natural and vulnerable. So we seek out people with the same ego issues and open up to them, only because they agree that we are victims.


Marriage Advice - You're With Your Perfect Teacher

It’s a constant and ongoing battle in your marriage. You like to have things laid out and to be prepared for what’s coming. He doesn’t plan at all. You know you’d relax if only he’d be a little more focused, and then you could stop having these arguments. How can you get him to work with you on this? Is it even possible?


People Want Your Presence Not Your Presents

Presents will never make up for the lack of presence.


People Who Pester You

Do you have people in your life who truly bother you in big ways? I call them our soul attachments. Some people come into our lives for many reasons and a few are certainly intended to make us pay some debts to our karma bank or to our thought patterns. They feel and look like those bugs that you want to get rid of but never succeed.


Yours, Mine, and Our Emotional Needs - The Marriage Makers and Breakers

A common theme in my articles, on my website, and in my coaching practice is on needs. For our purposes we define a need as a condition requiring relief. There are quite obviously many needs that you meet on a daily basis. Hunger may be one of the first things to come to mind when we think of needs, however, this is more of a physical need and we want to focus on our emotional needs!


Fireworks All Year Long!

Watch out for the 2 biggest things that will destroy the passion in your relationship... simple but powerful methods to keep your relationship full of passion and romance.


Introduction - From the Chat-Room to the Church

Introduction Do you think it's possible to find a long-term lover - even a life-partner - in the digital world? I sure didn't. I figured it was a great place to meet people for sex, for playing out romantic fantasies in a safe and non-committal environment. Quite frankly, I considered surfing on the Internet for love would be a big waste of time compared to trying to meet someone in relatively safe venues.


Is Your Present Lifestyle Clouding Over Your Social Life?

Organising your time effectively is crucial for maintaining relationships and remaining mentally and physically fit. Here is what we find out


Made In Heaven, Finished In Hell - Part 2

Curiosity doesn't always kill the cat. As Isaac Asimov wrote in his New Guide to Science, 'almost in the beginning was curiosity'. Now, relationships are as far removed from science as a Van der Graaf generator is from a blender, but the same rule applies.


Relationship Strained? Try Creating the Right Environment

Your relationship problems may not be either of your faults. Learn Georgette's secrets to creating an environment that fosters a great relationship.


Ban Your Boredom With A Romantic Getaway!

Is life getting in the way of your love and marriage? Make the time for a romantic getaway and fan your love flames.


Come Together

We all belong to a community of one sort or another. Nursing home - Assisted living site - village or Town. How do you connect to those in your community?


Getting over the Green Devil through Hypnotherapy for Jealousy

Jealousy is one of the most human of all emotions, and each one of us has experienced it at one time or the other. Jealousy towards your spouse/partner, jealousy towards a sibling, jealousy towards a co-worker, these are but a few examples of this human emotion.


Affection in Relationships

Lonely. That's what Janette felt when her husband didn't kiss her goodbye before leaving for work. Sometimes his forgetfulness in this area brought her to tears.


Kick-Start Your Love Life!

It's time to kick-start your love life! Put your relationship first and date your mate. You and your partner deserve it!


Relationship - Test If You Are Feeling Crushed?

Is your relationship becoming uncomfortable? Are you no longer enjoying the relationship? Do you not understand what might be going wrong, but you can sense it? You are not happy, but cannot pin point the cause of unhappiness.


Wait! Is He the Right Choice For a Lover

Learn in just 5 minutes how to know if you're making the right choice...


The Feared and Dreaded 'Relationship Report Card'

Everyone dreaded report card day in school and if you are dreading making your own relationship report card, then you need to buckle down and study! When you rank all of the aspects of your relationship with your spouse, you want (and need!) to score in the high nineties for an A+.


Friendship and sharing

Not many of us think about prisons. Why is prison life a punishment? Because you can not move around and meet people. With friendship, we break the barrier that stops us sharing our life with others.


How To Deal When You've Been Dumped

Everyone seems to have been through a broken heart or two. With all the practice, you'd think breakups would become easier to deal with. Alas, being dumped is one of the crummiest situations we mere mortals have to surmount.


Relationship Advice: How to Be Together

Do you know how to design your relationship? Here are some tips and tools for how to be together.


How to Solve Relationship Problems

Relationship problems either with your spouse, family, business partners, or other people affect your personal growth, success, and well being.



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