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Women's Guide to Splitsville

Welcome to Splitsville! Whether you're on the verge of a life-altering, world-shattering break up or have just been through one with Mr Ex who once used to be your heart and soul, this article is for you. And let me assure you, we have all been there before. It is a hard path we all must take.


Friends are Funny Creatures

Anyone who has crossed over would agree to that. It’s like when we cross over even the most insignificant things start niggling us. A small comment or a lame joke usually end up in the unchartered territory. And we usually don’t want to mention that we were offended by something that didn’t feel right to us. You see all the perceptions about grown-ups ‘discussing’ their problems are a farce. We don’t ‘discuss’ anything heavier than the weather.


The New Marriage - Part Two of Four

When we fail to get the response or connection with our partner that we want, perhaps we should stop and look at our own thoughts and behavior. It may remind us of frightful tigers from our past stalking the room. Sometimes a calm and collected exterior hides demons lingering from childhood. But how do we uncover the real person underneath our sophisticated facade? We climbed that mountain so long ago; the path we took may be lost in the undergrowth.


Sacred Love - Getting Past Our Lies and Stories - Learning to Love Again

All our stories of the past are actually a balance of pleasure and pain. But that is not how we remember them. We want to protect ourselves, because we don’t want to admit how much we loved a person, and still do. We hold onto those stories and try to crease a life around them.


Excerpt from Sacred Love Book - Finding Stillness

The speed of life is complex, exciting and wonderful, but if this is at the cost of love, then the ego has won and love has lost. In our modern world this ego can easily overtake love so we must learn to stop, really stop and be still with our beloved, to turn up. So learning the art of stillness is a major key to sustaining sacred relationships amongst this busy-ness.


Sociological View on Family

Definite and usage of main principles and notions is of the most important requirements set for sociological researches. The categories of family and marriage are the most complicated and hardest to define. First of all, traditions of usual conscience and word usage that are not always correspond to those of scientific and theoretical nature; have impact on their understanding and definition. Secondly, both marriage and family are studied not only by sociology but by a range of other sciences which creates many different approaches to them and accordingly more or less specific and abstract definition of these notions.


Marriage Musts - Owning Your Problems

My husband cheated on me multiple times. It's really easy to get bogged down in thinking that because of his terrible actions that all the problems in the marriage are his fault.


Stop Wasting Your Time With The Wrong Person

Don't lose who you are for the sake of a dysfunctional relationship. Too many people waste way too much time trying to understand a partner who only makes them crazier in the process. Learn the better questions to ask.


Breaking Out of the Circle of Abuse

Has a bad relationship left you feeling drained and powerless? One simple change in your thinking will give you the motivation to move forward and the strength to rebuild your life.


The Arguement Women Can't Win

Have you as a Woman every wondered why a disagreement suddenly seemed to turn into a fight. Here's what happens frequently when men and women disagree.


Your Rusty Relationship: Top Tips For Keeping It Well Oiled

Ah, those were the days... when it was all about stolen kisses and strolls in the moonlight. These days you'd be happy if he just stopped leaving the toilet seat up.


We Are Simply Careless

Treasure your relationship with your loved ones with care because a Good Relationship is priceless! You just can't afford to be simply careless.


How to Say No to a NICE GUY?

He may be as sweet as sugar, but he's not your type. Can you ever let him down gently?


Secrets to a Long Lasting and Fulfilling Relationship

If you are in a state of dilemma, about how to carry forward your relationship. These keys to successful relationship will surely help you out in keeping your love forever.


Understanding Men - Treat Your Man Like A Dog And Get Undying Devotion

Men are like dogs, they need training and guidance. Love them, take care of them but discipline them when necessary and you'll earn their loyalty and devotion.


Beware of Older Men Lying About Their Age

When you start dating online, you might run across many types of people. Some will be open and honest about who they are and their physical appearance and others will not.


Relationship Coaching: How Can it Help You?

Could your relationship benefit from improvement? Could relationship coaching be the help you need to get more from your relationship? Can coaching help solve relationship problems?


Empowering Women to Empower Their Men

Everyone woman has in her the ability to help her man grow from failure to excellence. In other words, she was built with the necessary components to take his small vision and expand it to something grand.


10 Simple Ways To Make Her Happy

Men often misunderstand how women award points to their man in a relationship. They think that to really show how much they care for and love their significant other they need to do something really extravagant but little do they know that women pay just as much importance to the little things you do for them.


Friendship and sharing

Not many of us think about prisons. Why is prison life a punishment? Because you can not move around and meet people. With friendship, we break the barrier that stops us sharing our life with others.


Portrait of an Abuser

To truly understand domestic violence and abuse, we get inside the mind of the victims and let them tell us their stories. Only they know what has led them to this point.


The Bug Funeral Parlor

Remember that the other person you're involved with is not you. So, how do the ways he or she is different from you make your life easier, more fun, better?!


Are Solitude and Loneliness Different?

Being alone involves only physical separation. Being lonely includes spiritual and psychological separation, or isolation.


Analyzing This: Where Do You Think I Went Wrong?

As I promised, today we will analyze the letter from Kevin. He had an unhappy meeting and he wants us to analyze where he made a mistake. Here is his letter:



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