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Apologies can Kickstart that Flagging Relationship

10 situations that call for an apology, and how they can put you in the limelight


Sacred Love - Building a Relationship on Truth and Trust, Beyond Emotion and Blame

Emotion is the language of the ego. Emotion is the most wonderful honesty about how you feel, think and see life. But if you think your emotions are anything but a witnessing of your own “unconsciousness”, you may have a big problem in life. Emotions block love. No relationship, sacred or otherwise, can thrive when a couple considers their emotions a foundation. Those emotions are so changeable.


Seduction Technique 101: The Do's and Boo-Boos in Seduction

Seduction, contrary to popular opinion, is not an inborn gift or a talent that some guys are naturally born with. Seduction still comes with practice even for those blessed with great looks and loads of money.


About Men: Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me

Ah Men! We love their strength, their build, their way of Being. We love their touch, their voice, the way they check us out. But aren’t there things about them that you wish someone had told you? I have a few.


Don't Wait To Tell People How Much They Mean To You

Un-communicated feelings mean squat! People don't know how you feel until you tell them how you feel. Over twenty years ago my best friend died of cancer. Randy was 41. He was successful, competent, always positive and loved and lived life to the fullest then he was gone.


What a Woman Really Means When She Starts Trying To Change You

When it comes to attraction with woman it is or it isn't, once the attraction is gone the relationship between you and her is over. Many times a woman who is no longer attracted to a man will attempt to change him into what she thinks she would find attractive in a man. Some men thinking that there is still something left in the relationship make whatever changes the woman asks in the hope of keeping the relationship alive not realizing that it might already be dead.


Cougar Women? Older Women Should Ignore The Age Gap And Have Fun

I have recently encountered the words 'Cougar Women' - a term dreamt up by some male or possibly jealous young female to describe an older woman engaged in a relationship with a younger man. The description 'Cougar Woman' infers a predatory mature woman (35-50+) who hunts, stalks, lusts after and imposes her attentions upon some innocent, inexperienced young male. The traditional description for the older male who does likewise is, 'Sugar Daddy' -- Would it not be appropriate, in light of today's touted 'equality of the sexes' to apply the description of Panther Daddy? Or, where the male is a cheating spouse, then perhaps 'Cheetah Daddy' may fit the bill?


Affection in Relationships

Lonely. That's what Janette felt when her husband didn't kiss her goodbye before leaving for work. Sometimes his forgetfulness in this area brought her to tears.


Women Issues - Domestic Violence Against Women

In a newspaper last November 25, there was article about observing an International day for elimination of violence against women. It is heart-warming that finally the international world is starting to recognize that violence against women is a growing issue and they need to find a solution to it but after pondering this issue for quite some time I came to the following conclusions:


Love's Labour Lost!

Rejection in love can sometimes even ruin future relationships. Here are some tips on how to overcome the 'jilted' phase...


Setting Boundaries in Relationships

Setting personal boundaries are like identifying the gates in our invisible fence lines which protects the precious heart and soul inside our bodies. Many people look at boundaries as walls, but rather when we establish healthy boundaries it provides a way to distinguish what we choose to let in and let out. They form flexible gates, not stationary walls It is important to learn about setting healthy boundaries so we can make decisions about what is and what isn’t permissible in all relationships.


Relationship Quiz: Do You Know About Your Partner's Mind?

I was watching her. Sometimes, she was giving a faint smile. Then she started looking at the ceiling and then started changing her feet position while sitting. After that she was sitting still for some more time. Then she got up and left the room.


Relationship - Are You Sacrificing More?

No relationship is equal give and take. In every relationship, both the partners make adjustments to make the relationship a success. Both give up many choices in life and try to contribute for the continuation of the relationship.


Relationship Renewal - Secrets of the Pros

Relationship Renewal is too often seen as being about how we can get others to change the attitudes and behavior of loved ones towards us. The Secrets of the Pros center on one truth that can quickly change a relationship breakdown into a Relationship Renewal.


Are You Being Lied To? How to Tell

Sometimes we suspect that someone is lying to us about a very important matter. It could be a matter of where they spent a couple of hours, or they might be trying to cover up who they were with. How can we tell when someone is lying or bluffing?


A Little Patience Goes a Long Way

The lack of patienceis the cause of so much unhappiness and grief in this world, when all it requires is a little time on our part.


Build Confidence with Strategies that Really Work

Here are 4 simple strategies that will help you build confidence.


What Happened to Politeness?

Am I completely alone in my view of society or are people actually becoming more rude with each passing day? Read this article and send me your views.


Ending a Relationship

A look at some strategies to help you leave a bad relationship, including tips on communication, affirmations, decision-making and finding a support group.


Why Are Relationships Such Hard Work?

A great way to keep a relationship fresh is for one party to stay in New York while the other lives in California. Emails are cheap, an occasional flight is quite inexpensive and you never have to worry about whether the toilet seat is up or down. For those preferring the more traditional style of co-habitation, this article may be of some help.


Who Are Men-scams?

We often talk a lot about women-scams. These ladies meet men in the Internet and start telling they are absolutely empty and need so much!… Mother is gonna have an operation, father needs a new wheelchair, sister cannot continue her education and brother is desperate to start his own busyness (of course in a year it is going to grow up and you are certain to have your interests, trust her!), and she… she is modest and needs nothing, perhaps, except... payment for using Internet, translator service, visa, plain ticket...


Super Relationship Tips: Create A Memorable Non-Occasion

The admen and the marketing mavens have created a cultural expectation around special occasions and calendar events. We are inundated with sales pitches for Christmas, birthdays, weddings, anniversaries, New Year, Halloween, Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Father's Day, and any other day they can find that will make us feel that we absolutely have to buy a gift to express our sentiments. Dates on the calendar are merely days like any other days. Our relationships are 365 days a year and something this good deserves a celebration at any time and at any place.


Relationship Advice: 7 Ways to Make Good Relationships Even Better

Do you have a good relationship? Would you like to make it even better? Here are 7 ways to make a good thing better.



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