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You Can Go Home Again

Going home is a wonderful gift. I got to see a good friend after 26 years and we hadn't changed a bit


Online Resources for Coping With the Discovery of Infidelity

When infidelity is discovered, it can be difficult to know where to turn for help. With this in mind, I've tried to identify some online resources designed to help people cope with the discovery of infidelity.


Relationship: Follow Tradition

Following traditions in some way bring excitement in you life. There is always something you are expecting. Make it a tradition to celebrate your anniversary at some particular place you both love to go, it could be a restaurant which has its own specialty, a solitary place where you feel close to the nature and close to each other. Follow traditions to keep your married life full of excitement and fun.


Feelings and Risk

Are you willing to risk a greater degree of pain and disappointment for a higher level of joy, satisfaction, and emotional fulfillment? Every choice in life has tradeoffs. We carefully weigh the possible outcomes, assess our willingness and tolerance for risk, and then make a choice based on our perceptions of the outcomes.


How to Say You're Sorry

Some of the happiest people I've ever met in my life are those that spend more time thinking about others than they do themselves. Living a life where you do not have to constantly apologise for your misbehaviour can only be fruitful in the long term, both for you and those around you.


Is Learning How To Get Your Ex Back Right For You?

Do you really want to learn how to get your ex back? Before you try here's some important things you need to think carefully about.


To Hug, Touch and Caress

It is not our indifference that keeps us warm at night. It is our willing and inspiring tenderness that makes others want to be near us. To want to keep us warm. The simple hug, touch, and caress are more than an awesome experience. They have the potential to change your whole life.


How To Be Open To Receive

Most marriages that are troubled have these giver and receiver roles firmly fixed. In marriages that are happy, these roles will fluctuate between the partners regularly, depending on where the need is greatest. Where does most of your energy go during a normal day?


Getting The Most From A Romantic Relationship

Use these basic strategies to make your relationship more enjoyable and more rewarding for both of you.


Take a Mini Vacation

Many couples long to get away, but many factors interfere with taking a vacation. Children, cost, and work are only a few of the major issues couples face when planning vacations. Yet time away can be a wonderful way to rejuvenate mind, spirit, and romance.


Romantic Gifts

All couples desire a happy and fulfilled marriage. The way a person interacts with their partner is important to achieve this harmony. Demonstrating feelings and expressing emotions helps partners establish a strong foundation for their relationship. Gestures such as giving gifts play an important role in this context. Romantic gifts are never the same for everyone. It is important for each individual to discover the best gifts at each stage of a relationship and learn how to select unforgettable gifts. A romantic gift should essentially communicate inner feelings and make the partner’s heart melt. When it comes to giving a romantic gift to someone, it’s not just about what the item is, but how it is given and how relevant the gift is to the personality of the recipient.


Break Ups - A Way to Cope

To anyone that’s been through one (and that’s probably most), a break up in a relationship and be catastrophic. Some sufferers even feel that it is the ‘End of the World’. If you haven’t ever had a bad relationship break up like this then you could probably sympathise with someone that has.


Are You Tired Of Nagging?

Most women don't want to nag the man in their life - they just want to get through to him.


On Finding Mr. Right

You think you know exactly what you want in a man, right? You can probably even list the attributes, qualities and qualifications that your future husband needs in order to apply for the job of your mate. I had a three-tiered system myself.


Relationship Deal-breakers

In the 37 years that I have been counseling couples, I have discovered that there are only a few issues that are true relationship deal-breakers. Many of the issues that tear relationships apart are ...


The History of Graduation Day, The Cap and The Gown Worn

The graduation ceremony is a cultural tradition that is considered a rite of passage. The ceremony marks a transition from one stage in a student’s life to another.


Step Four To An Ideal Relationship: Assessing The Maturity Of Others

Tbe best way to assess the maturity of others is to know your own. Here's how.


Relationship - Are You Sacrificing More?

No relationship is equal give and take. In every relationship, both the partners make adjustments to make the relationship a success. Both give up many choices in life and try to contribute for the continuation of the relationship.


Holiday Gift Ideas

As the seasons blow their breezes, the cycle of life is marked by rhythms that break the monotony and tedium of daily routines. Holidays are those clarion call moments that force one to take a deep breath and review life. Shake off the weariness and refresh body and soul.


Are You the Father? Paternity Test When You Suspect Infidelity

Get familiar with the different paternity tests available and how to use them.


Good Marriage Killers: 10 Tips for Damaging Fine Relationships

For readers who have no need for a little humor, please don’t bother to read this. Wait for next week when I’ll publish a dry, more academic article.


Keeping Your Own Identity and Your Relationship Alive

Being in a marriage or relationship and retaining your individuality isn't always easy. We all have roles in relationships, but what happens when your role becomes your life?


What is a Karmic Soul Mate?

One of the most interesting, yet baffling, thing about life is that out of all the people in the world, a few fortunate ones will touch our lives in a special way and leave lasting impressions. One such person is your karmic soul mate.


So Am I: Projecting Our Qualities

How is that that I have great and not so great relationships with different people? What is there that makes me like and be liked as well as hated (or disliked) and hateful (or despising)? Why do I recognize negative qualities in some people and positive qualities in other people?



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