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    When your values are not in alignment you can never really do the right thing. That’s because values that are not in harmony will cause a clash somewhere in your life: Like my friend Dolly:

    Dolly loved her parents, and her parents loved her. Dolly respected her parents but it seems her parents didn’t really think Dolly was very smart, pretty, or capable. So they tried to prepare her by letting her know that she would never be able to do things on her own. And that her chances of landing a man to do all the providing were non-existent. Dolly’s parents dedicated themselves to providing everything that Dolly needed while belittling any independent thoughts she had.

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    not in alignment you can never really do the right thing. That’s because values that are not in harmony will cause a clash somewhere in your life: Like my friend Dolly:

    Dolly loved her parents, and her parents loved her. Dolly respected her parents but it seems her parents didn’t really think Dolly was very smart, pretty, or capable. So they tried to prepare her by letting her know that she would never be able to do things on her own. And that her chances of landing a man to do all the providing were non-existent. Dolly’s parents dedicated themselves to providing everything that Dolly needed while belittling any independent thoughts she had.

    Now when Dolly got a little experience in the “real-world” she found out that she really was lots more capable than she ever dreamed. She had a great sense of fashion and design and was able to make wonderful clothing. Her business seemed to be t

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    Dolly respected her parents but it seems her parents didn’t really think Dolly was very smart, pretty, or capable. So they tried to prepare her by letting her know that she would never be able to do things on her own. And that her chances of landing a man to do all the providing were non-existent. Dolly’s parents dedicated themselves to providing everything that Dolly needed while belittling any independent thoughts she had.

    Now when Dolly got a little experience in the “real-world” she found out that she really was lots more capable than she ever dreamed. She had a great sense of fashion and design and was able to make wonderful clothing. Her business seemed to be t

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    her chances of landing a man to do all the providing were non-existent. Dolly’s parents dedicated themselves to providing everything that Dolly needed while belittling any independent thoughts she had.

    Now when Dolly got a little experience in the “real-world” she found out that she really was lots more capable than she ever dreamed. She had a great sense of fashion and design and was able to make wonderful clothing. Her business seemed to be t

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    a little experience in the “real-world” she found out that she really was lots more capable than she ever dreamed. She had a great sense of fashion and design and was able to make wonderful clothing. Her business seemed to be taking off.

    But right at the point that she was almost independent financially, she seemed to take misstep after misstep. She would enter into off-track alliances that would suck away at her time and resources. This didn't happen once, but it was a repeated pattern that caused three of her ventures to fail.

    Now I’ll make a long story short and let you in on her little values conflict. Deep down, she “knew” her parents were right about her incompetence. But, she also “knew” she was smart and capable as a fashion designer. So she had an internal dilemma: How could she have her own successful business if she was to love and honor her parents values? This was an awful problem for Dolly. She found a way out: by making things so complicated, she was able to fail no matter how good she was! That way she could be really smart and fail at the same time! She could honor her parents by failing

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