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Actual for You - What Lives Between Right and Wrong? Learning the Way of Compassion
Having spent a number of years in the internet design and marketing industry I have seen how important the balance of web design / optimization is to the success of any e-marketing venture.In the past I have had clients who were frustrated by the fact that competitor web sites ranking high in the search engines were of poor quality compared to their own.When I looked into this it was obvious what was happening. The so called poor quality sites were composed of simple navigation and then lots of pages with text and an odd image here and there. The clients web site in comparrison was an all singing / dancing mix of flash and bright gra
That way of thinking is to imply that the world is a place of HAVE or HAVE NOT and that competition is the best, or even the only, solution. Think about it... how does the either/or paradigm influence foreign policy? How does it affect your personal policy? You see, my friend, there is a third way. It's the path of compassion. Compassion exist
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If you're waiting for the pressing realities of life to evaporate, then I invite you to simply accept that they won't. If you're straining to cross everything off your list, then just know that lists never end. This means that happiness is INSIDE of you, free from the uncontrollable life OUTSIDE of you. In other words, being happy with your life right now is about being at choice in life instead of having command over it.
As you consider those questions, I want to highlight an underlying paradigm that likely affects your thinking without you even being aware of it. By that I mean that we live in an "Either/Or" consciousness. And the more aware of either/or thinking you become, the more you'll notice how that pattern shows up again and again. It's right or wrong, good or bad, rich or poor, ally or enemy. The pervasiveness of that pattern didn't happen in a vacuum. It's everywhere you look and with very good reason.
The purpose of that paradigm in our society is plain; its effect is to polarize individuals, communities, and even countries. But either/or thinking isn't necessarily the result of harmful intent. It continues on in each of us that have fallen under the spell of scarcity. Either/or thinking is the spawn of scarcity consciousness because it maintains the myth that resources are finite and that your very survival depends on getting your piece of the pie.
That way of thinking is to imply that the world is a place of HAVE or HAVE NOT and that competition is the best, or even the only, solution. Think about it... how does the either/or paradigm influence foreign policy? How does it affect your personal policy? You see, my friend, there is a third way. It's the path of compassion. Compassion exists
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If you're waiting for the pressing realities of life to evaporate, then I invite you to simply accept that they won't. If you're straining to cross everything off your list, then just know that lists never end. This means that happiness is INSIDE of you, free from the uncontrollable life OUTSIDE of you. In other words, being happy with your life right now is about being at choice in life instead of having command over it.
As you consider those questions, I want to highlight an underlying paradigm that likely affects your thinking without you even being aware of it. By that I mean that we live in an "Either/Or" consciousness. And the more aware of either/or thinking you become, the more you'll notice how that pattern shows up again and again. It's right or wrong, good or bad, rich or poor, ally or enemy. The pervasiveness of that pattern didn't happen in a vacuum. It's everywhere you look and with very good reason.
The purpose of that paradigm in our society is plain; its effect is to polarize individuals, communities, and even countries. But either/or thinking isn't necessarily the result of harmful intent. It continues on in each of us that have fallen under the spell of scarcity. Either/or thinking is the spawn of scarcity consciousness because it maintains the myth that resources are finite and that your very survival depends on getting your piece of the pie.
That way of thinking is to imply that the world is a place of HAVE or HAVE NOT and that competition is the best, or even the only, solution. Think about it... how does the either/or paradigm influence foreign policy? How does it affect your personal policy? You see, my friend, there is a third way. It's the path of compassion. Compassion exist
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As you consider those questions, I want to highlight an underlying paradigm that likely affects your thinking without you even being aware of it. By that I mean that we live in an "Either/Or" consciousness. And the more aware of either/or thinking you become, the more you'll notice how that pattern shows up again and again. It's right or wrong, good or bad, rich or poor, ally or enemy. The pervasiveness of that pattern didn't happen in a vacuum. It's everywhere you look and with very good reason.
The purpose of that paradigm in our society is plain; its effect is to polarize individuals, communities, and even countries. But either/or thinking isn't necessarily the result of harmful intent. It continues on in each of us that have fallen under the spell of scarcity. Either/or thinking is the spawn of scarcity consciousness because it maintains the myth that resources are finite and that your very survival depends on getting your piece of the pie.
That way of thinking is to imply that the world is a place of HAVE or HAVE NOT and that competition is the best, or even the only, solution. Think about it... how does the either/or paradigm influence foreign policy? How does it affect your personal policy? You see, my friend, there is a third way. It's the path of compassion. Compassion exist
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The purpose of that paradigm in our society is plain; its effect is to polarize individuals, communities, and even countries. But either/or thinking isn't necessarily the result of harmful intent. It continues on in each of us that have fallen under the spell of scarcity. Either/or thinking is the spawn of scarcity consciousness because it maintains the myth that resources are finite and that your very survival depends on getting your piece of the pie.
That way of thinking is to imply that the world is a place of HAVE or HAVE NOT and that competition is the best, or even the only, solution. Think about it... how does the either/or paradigm influence foreign policy? How does it affect your personal policy? You see, my friend, there is a third way. It's the path of compassion. Compassion exist
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That way of thinking is to imply that the world is a place of HAVE or HAVE NOT and that competition is the best, or even the only, solution. Think about it... how does the either/or paradigm influence foreign policy? How does it affect your personal policy? You see, my friend, there is a third way. It's the path of compassion. Compassion exists beyond competition for it’s rooted in your heart.
Choosing from and acting upon compassion means to engage the most evolved part of your mind. That part of your brain is called the neocortex which is most highly developed in humankind. It's beyond the limbic or primitive part of your brain which is concerned with life and death. Life and death is the quintessential indicator that someone is operating from scarcity and from either/or consciousness.
And here's the really beautiful part: because you’re capable of conscious thought, you ultimately decide which part of your brain you'd like to live from. YOU get to choose the road you take in life. At each new intersection there are three possibilities. To the left of you is prejudice and judgment. To the right of you is tolerance and forgiveness. And then there’s a third way of compassion, community and communication.
I recently had a chance to take the middle road what I realized that I'd produced the first 12 episodes of my podcast with the wrong phone number! The gentleman who'd been kind enough to do my commercial voiceover had recorded my toll-free number with not one, but two, wrong numbers. And I‘d missed it every single time for a dozen episodes that I'd listened to again and again before their release.
When I first discovered it, my initial reaction was "Oh ****, how did that happen?" Then I launched into shoulding all over myself. I should have caught that mistake. I should have bit more careful. But then I stopped. I realized that there was no way to un-ring that bell so I called my producer who’d done the initial recording and had a good, long laugh. I laughed with compassion for myself because I saw how free I finally was for the symptoms of perfectionism. I shared and connected with him. I thanked him for helping me at all and simply made my request for a new recording.
It was a lovely experience for me
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