. Granted, we may not like every thing about ourselves, but we can still love the person that lives in that body. Change is a living word that if embraced can empower lives! It is the act of accepting ourselves and working with what we have – make adjustments, changes, and apply the balm of acceptance, embrace and love. How could we expect to be loved aIt’s all about loving The Internet is bombarded with tips on how to lose weight and find true love. So what is the definition of love anyway? Can I be overweight and in love, happy, fulfilled, content and blessed? Or, is this only reserved for those who can strut their stuff in a one, two, or no piece bathing suit? Based on what’s floating around in cyber world, and even in our everyday lives, the message is “all the good feelings and experiences are reserved for those who aren’t fat”. Get lean and get a man – hey, that’s a great title to what could be a best seller! Why do people buy into things like that? I think we do because we’re not accepting of who we are as individuals; we think that if we lose a few pounds of fat, then our sex life will rise to the top, and we’ll be swept off our feet by a love that cannot be denied. Really? Really it is true – there is always someone who is willing to believe just about anything for a quick fix. I once watched an interview with a guy, who had lost about 60 lbs of fat, and at the end of his interview he said, “6 months ago I was fat and happy, today I’m healthier, leaner and still happy”. I’m not advocating, encouraging or promoting obesity, but simply stating that your life isn’t going to get all better by just losing fat, and dropping a number of dress or pants sizes. It is about loving you right now, and accepting you in the present state that you’re in. Granted, we may not like every thing about ourselves, but we can still love the person that lives in that body. Change is a living word that if embraced can empower lives! It is the act of accepting ourselves and working with what we have – make adjustments, changes, and apply the balm of acceptance, embrace and love. How could we expect to be loved aner world, and even in our everyday lives, the message is “all the good feelings and experiences are reserved for those who aren’t fat”. Get lean and get a man – hey, that’s a great title to what could be a best seller! Why do people buy into things like that? I think we do because we’re not accepting of who we are as individuals; we think that if we lose a few pounds of fat, then our sex life will rise to the top, and we’ll be swept off our feet by a love that cannot be denied. Really? Really it is true – there is always someone who is willing to believe just about anything for a quick fix. I once watched an interview with a guy, who had lost about 60 lbs of fat, and at the end of his interview he said, “6 months ago I was fat and happy, today I’m healthier, leaner and still happy”. I’m not advocating, encouraging or promoting obesity, but simply stating that your life isn’t going to get all better by just losing fat, and dropping a number of dress or pants sizes. It is about loving you right now, and accepting you in the present state that you’re in. Granted, we may not like every thing about ourselves, but we can still love the person that lives in that body. Change is a living word that if embraced can empower lives! It is the act of accepting ourselves and working with what we have – make adjustments, changes, and apply the balm of acceptance, embrace and love. How could we expect to be loved ae a few pounds of fat, then our sex life will rise to the top, and we’ll be swept off our feet by a love that cannot be denied. Really? Really it is true – there is always someone who is willing to believe just about anything for a quick fix. I once watched an interview with a guy, who had lost about 60 lbs of fat, and at the end of his interview he said, “6 months ago I was fat and happy, today I’m healthier, leaner and still happy”. I’m not advocating, encouraging or promoting obesity, but simply stating that your life isn’t going to get all better by just losing fat, and dropping a number of dress or pants sizes. It is about loving you right now, and accepting you in the present state that you’re in. Granted, we may not like every thing about ourselves, but we can still love the person that lives in that body. Change is a living word that if embraced can empower lives! It is the act of accepting ourselves and working with what we have – make adjustments, changes, and apply the balm of acceptance, embrace and love. How could we expect to be loved a, “6 months ago I was fat and happy, today I’m healthier, leaner and still happy”. I’m not advocating, encouraging or promoting obesity, but simply stating that your life isn’t going to get all better by just losing fat, and dropping a number of dress or pants sizes. It is about loving you right now, and accepting you in the present state that you’re in. Granted, we may not like every thing about ourselves, but we can still love the person that lives in that body. Change is a living word that if embraced can empower lives! It is the act of accepting ourselves and working with what we have – make adjustments, changes, and apply the balm of acceptance, embrace and love. How could we expect to be loved a. Granted, we may not like every thing about ourselves, but we can still love the person that lives in that body. Change is a living word that if embraced can empower lives! It is the act of accepting ourselves and working with what we have – make adjustments, changes, and apply the balm of acceptance, embrace and love. How could we expect to be loved and accepted when we shun or despise our own selves? It may surprise us to find that taking someone at face value, and judging that they’ve got it all together just because of how they look is a farce. The grass may appear greener, fresher on the other side, but you may not know what’s under the surface of that lawn. Don’t buy another book or buy into another fad that you can improve your sex life, or find true lasting love if you had a body like a model or body builder. The changes on the outside will evolve when the changes within begin, and that journey starts with loving you.