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Actual for You - The Value of Good Communications
The update of the Google index is often referred to as the Google dance. For several days when Google is updating their index to include new pages and update their algorithms, search results almost seem to take on a life of their own. High positioned sites have been known to drop into near obscurity while the lesser-judged sites suddenly find themselves careering towards dizzy heights in the
If you’re shopping around for a low interest credit card, chances are good that you already have good credit or you’re looking to transfer high balances. In any case, you need to know a few things before you sign up.1. Shop aroundIf you’re looking for a low interest credit card, you need to make sure that you’re investigating all of the possibilities. One of the easiest resou
There are not many things that are quite as painful as being shut out, of not being heard, of not being understood -- whether this action is done on purpose or through neglect or oversight. It is painfully true that people want more than anything else to be heard and to be understood.
In his book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey tells us that most of us are preoccupied with being "understood" rather than seeking to "understand". I believe that if we could change this one aspect of our behavior, we would see vast improvements in our world and in our relationships.
Communication after all is not about how well we articulate our thoughts, but it is about how well we listen. Contrary to popular belief it is not the speaker who controls the communication, it is the listener. Without a listener there is no communication! How well we listen is a reflection of the level of our communication skills.
Listening involves patience, openness and a desire to understand. It is about asking the question, behind the question. It is about trying to see the situation from the other's perspective. It is not about problem solving or advice giving. It is not about reinterpreting the story to a time when you had a similar experience, nor is it about just being present. Although these are all appropriate a
The bigger the company gets, the more likely its chief executive officer has lost touch with his (or her) own troops on the front line. But to think strategically you have to be intimate with the front line to know exactly what your customers are thinking and how your competitive fight for market share is taking shape.You have to talk with people you trust to tell you the truth. Warts
There are not many things that are quite as painful as being shut out, of not being heard, of not being understood -- whether this action is done on purpose or through neglect or oversight. It is painfully true that people want more than anything else to be heard and to be understood.
In his book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey tells us that most of us are preoccupied with being "understood" rather than seeking to "understand". I believe that if we could change this one aspect of our behavior, we would see vast improvements in our world and in our relationships.
Communication after all is not about how well we articulate our thoughts, but it is about how well we listen. Contrary to popular belief it is not the speaker who controls the communication, it is the listener. Without a listener there is no communication! How well we listen is a reflection of the level of our communication skills.
Listening involves patience, openness and a desire to understand. It is about asking the question, behind the question. It is about trying to see the situation from the other's perspective. It is not about problem solving or advice giving. It is not about reinterpreting the story to a time when you had a similar experience, nor is it about just being present. Although these are all appropriate a
Authors of a new study published in the January 17 issue of the Journal of the American Medical Association show that results can differ enormously depending on the type of statistical analysis each study uses.According to HealthDay News, “Randomized, controlled studies are considered the gold standard of medical science. In such trials, patients are randomly assigned to receive eithe
Communication after all is not about how well we articulate our thoughts, but it is about how well we listen. Contrary to popular belief it is not the speaker who controls the communication, it is the listener. Without a listener there is no communication! How well we listen is a reflection of the level of our communication skills.
Listening involves patience, openness and a desire to understand. It is about asking the question, behind the question. It is about trying to see the situation from the other's perspective. It is not about problem solving or advice giving. It is not about reinterpreting the story to a time when you had a similar experience, nor is it about just being present. Although these are all appropriate a
Personal debt is becoming an increasing problem in this country. More and more families are finding themselves falling deeper and deeper into debt. This vicious cycle will continue unless you take purposeful action to control and reduce your debt.The first step (and most important) is to acknowledge that you do have debt issues. This may sound obvi
Listening involves patience, openness and a desire to understand. It is about asking the question, behind the question. It is about trying to see the situation from the other's perspective. It is not about problem solving or advice giving. It is not about reinterpreting the story to a time when you had a similar experience, nor is it about just being present. Although these are all appropriate a
Demons and Devils are evil spirits that are unseen by the natural eye, but their effect on mankind has been from the beginning of mans knowledge of his surroundings. Weather you believe or not doesn't matter to them, for if you believe Gods Word, you must also believe in the existence of them. These Demon seeds have manifested themselves from the beginning of Satan and starting with Eve in t
To relate effectively with a partner, children, friends or work associates, we must learn to listen. This not only requires emotional strength, it also involves you choosing to become a more effective listener.
When we see relationships breakdown, in a marriage for example, we see partners who are unwilling to really hear, to acknowledge what is true for the other, to put themselves in the other's shoes! The longer this goes on the more damage that occurs. Successful marriages like successful leaders or successful managers have one thing in common - they are in relationships where others feel heard, where others feel that their needs are taken into consideration.
The true art of communication is allowing the other's truth to exist, without trying to change it. Everyone comes to their own truth through their life experiences and everyone feels justified in feeling as they do. No one ever changes another's opinion through debate. Opinions are modified when there is a willingness to hear the truth of another. Understanding this truth creates respect. Positive dialogue is only created when we have respect for each other.
A coach can help you develop your competence in communication, listening skills, presenting your ideas,
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