robably it is a belated reaction to something that happened to you way before, in your past: perhaps there was some violence in your childhood, some abuse. You have learned early on to shut up "Lose your fear of personal conflict and learn how to confront in a positive way"

Do your female friends perceive you as difficult to talk to, because you are silent and reserved? Even worst, do they perceive you as a bore, even being a secure, responsible and honest person? What is wrong in this picture?

Well, as you probably know already, a lot of image is perception…..what she perceives from you is shaped by how do you do things to her. Are you the sullen, silent type of guy? Are your feelings stashed so deep inside you that are never shared? Her perception will lead her to believe that you are non-interesting and too closed in to bother.

Is there a way out?

You need to understand first, where from this behavior of yours is coming. Probably it is a belated reaction to something that happened to you way before, in your past: perhaps there was some violence in your childhood, some abuse. You have learned early on to shut up t

rst, do they perceive you as a bore, even being a secure, responsible and honest person? What is wrong in this picture?

Well, as you probably know already, a lot of image is perception…..what she perceives from you is shaped by how do you do things to her. Are you the sullen, silent type of guy? Are your feelings stashed so deep inside you that are never shared? Her perception will lead her to believe that you are non-interesting and too closed in to bother.

Is there a way out?

You need to understand first, where from this behavior of yours is coming. Probably it is a belated reaction to something that happened to you way before, in your past: perhaps there was some violence in your childhood, some abuse. You have learned early on to shut up

..what she perceives from you is shaped by how do you do things to her. Are you the sullen, silent type of guy? Are your feelings stashed so deep inside you that are never shared? Her perception will lead her to believe that you are non-interesting and too closed in to bother.

Is there a way out?

You need to understand first, where from this behavior of yours is coming. Probably it is a belated reaction to something that happened to you way before, in your past: perhaps there was some violence in your childhood, some abuse. You have learned early on to shut up

n will lead her to believe that you are non-interesting and too closed in to bother.

Is there a way out?

You need to understand first, where from this behavior of yours is coming. Probably it is a belated reaction to something that happened to you way before, in your past: perhaps there was some violence in your childhood, some abuse. You have learned early on to shut up

robably it is a belated reaction to something that happened to you way before, in your past: perhaps there was some violence in your childhood, some abuse. You have learned early on to shut up to preserve yourself from the consequences of confrontation, now any confrontation.

Years and years of that strategy have left you with an inability to express yourself and to say what you want from a relationship….Your best response is to clam up, and say nothing.

In the present, as much as your partner asks you, it is more obvious that, as you keep silent, it looks like as you don’t have the words. Or worst, you don’t care enough to answer…. The longer you are silent, the more she feels rejected and isolated, and keeps pressing for answers. This vicious circle is endless, and you can end up deserving the “passive aggressive” title with full honors…

Nobody knows that inside you are a person willing and needing to open up! They blame you for be