each other works. Notice that I said “works”. There isn’t a good style or bad style, but just whether communication strengthens the relationship.

• Discussing the values you both have is crucial to marital success. This means looking at what is important,

You’re in love. Now you’ve decided to take it to the next level and get married. At that point it is easy to get caught up with the planning for the big day. However, somewhere in the back of your mind are some troubling statistics.

Ninety percent of Americans marry, but fifty percent of those marriages end in divorce. In fact, the average marriage in California lasts just seven years. Seventy-five percent of those who divorce, remarry, but sixty-five percent of those marriages also end in divorce.

It is easy to say that you won’t ever divorce, but as Dirty Harry said, “do you feel lucky?” In contrast to the hours and hours of work that a wedding takes to make it successful, taking 4-6 hours to look at your relationship and improve it’s odds of succeeding, is time well spent.

Here are a few things to expect when you go into pre-marital counseling:

• The counselor will not pass judgment on your relationship. It is the conclusions that the couple comes to that are important.

• We will look at how well your communication with each other works. Notice that I said “works”. There isn’t a good style or bad style, but just whether communication strengthens the relationship.

• Discussing the values you both have is crucial to marital success. This means looking at what is important,

marry, but fifty percent of those marriages end in divorce. In fact, the average marriage in California lasts just seven years. Seventy-five percent of those who divorce, remarry, but sixty-five percent of those marriages also end in divorce.

It is easy to say that you won’t ever divorce, but as Dirty Harry said, “do you feel lucky?” In contrast to the hours and hours of work that a wedding takes to make it successful, taking 4-6 hours to look at your relationship and improve it’s odds of succeeding, is time well spent.

Here are a few things to expect when you go into pre-marital counseling:

• The counselor will not pass judgment on your relationship. It is the conclusions that the couple comes to that are important.

• We will look at how well your communication with each other works. Notice that I said “works”. There isn’t a good style or bad style, but just whether communication strengthens the relationship.

• Discussing the values you both have is crucial to marital success. This means looking at what is important,

t you won’t ever divorce, but as Dirty Harry said, “do you feel lucky?” In contrast to the hours and hours of work that a wedding takes to make it successful, taking 4-6 hours to look at your relationship and improve it’s odds of succeeding, is time well spent.

Here are a few things to expect when you go into pre-marital counseling:

• The counselor will not pass judgment on your relationship. It is the conclusions that the couple comes to that are important.

• We will look at how well your communication with each other works. Notice that I said “works”. There isn’t a good style or bad style, but just whether communication strengthens the relationship.

• Discussing the values you both have is crucial to marital success. This means looking at what is important,

re are a few things to expect when you go into pre-marital counseling:

• The counselor will not pass judgment on your relationship. It is the conclusions that the couple comes to that are important.

• We will look at how well your communication with each other works. Notice that I said “works”. There isn’t a good style or bad style, but just whether communication strengthens the relationship.

• Discussing the values you both have is crucial to marital success. This means looking at what is important,

each other works. Notice that I said “works”. There isn’t a good style or bad style, but just whether communication strengthens the relationship.

• Discussing the values you both have is crucial to marital success. This means looking at what is important, and often comes down to what each person sees as right or wrong. An awareness of any differences can lead to greater acceptance of each other.

• If you aren’t yet married, but already disagree or haven’t talked about, issues related to money, children, religion, work, sex or a host of other things, now is the time to learn how to address differences. Compromise will be the most important strategy in working through these issues as the relationship continues forward.