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    How To Create HOT Products Within 24 Hours That Can Make You Rich?
    Are you planning to start your own internet business? If yes, then this might be the most important article you will ever read.In this article I will show you how you can create your own product instantly, sell them for high profits and make instant autopilot income for lifetime.You will do this without putting in a whole lot of time and efforts.What if you discovered a system where you can create or get killer products without having to put in tons of research and efforts to create your own? And what if you can call that product your own, put your name in the product as if you have personally created it?What if you can sell multiple copies of the product and keep hundred percent profits? And what if I showed you how to do all this with just one time small investment?Are you excited and ready to learn how to do it? If yes, here you go...You can do this with the help of PLR products. PLR simply means private label rights. With PLR products you have complete rights to the product. You can call these products your own, you can edit them the way you wish, you can put your name in the product as if you have personally created it, you can repackage the product or even sell resell rights to the product.In short you have complete rights to the product. For example, you want to start a website designing business but you don't have any products to sell. What you can do is search for PLR website design products on the search engines, and grab some quality PLR right products and start selling them for hefty profits.The most important secret is to sell digital products. The benefit of selling digital products is that you grab rights to such products only one time and you can sell unlimited copies of these products for lifetime. You only have to make a one-time investment of grabbing the PLR rights. Once you have grabbed rights to the digital products you can just forward the download link of the product to your customer who purchases your product.Your product manufacturing cost is zero.Another trick that you can use is to grab four to five PLR products and jumble them into one huge package.Doing this will help you to create a high ticket product that you can sell for hefty profits.For example, if you are into website design business you can jumble up a
    in our hearts and make a relationship work. God is love and God is the words in the bible, in the bible it says, “In the beginning was the word and the word was with God and the word was God”, so if God is love in its purest form then that means that the words written in the bible are love in its purest form, because God is the words in the bible and God is love in its purest form.

    People cannot satisfy themselves with fancy cars and big houses alone, and they cannot be satisfied and live a meaningful existence without knowing God and his words of pure love. The words of God in the bible are like the tunes of a song that we dance to. If you picture your walk in life as dancing to music, if you dance to the word of God you will dance with a loving flow of pure bliss and joy, but if you dance to the tune of seeking materialism and power you will find yourself dancing like an erratic robot with no substance or emotion, you will become shallow with no depth or flavor, your dance to life will become dry and without richness and emotion. It is the spirit that quickens and makes things alive; the things of this world and the flesh profit nothing.

    I remember walking through the city of Sydney in Australia one day, and I looked

    How to Get Your Book Reviewed in Magazines
    In one of my past magazine jobs my office was next to that of the book editor. He would get boxes and boxes of books daily. There was a separate room devoted to storing these books, but that still didn't keep them from piling up in his office. Whenever he returned from vacation he practically had to use a bulldozer to get his door open!You see the problem, right? How do you get your book noticed, let alone reviewed, when it is just one among stacks of books in an editor's office? Here are a few tips to help you map out a winning strategy.1. Determine which magazines are the best for reaching your target market.As you plan to market your book, decide first who your ideal reader is. Is it a 35- year-old urban professional man? Is it a stay-at-home mom who lives in the Midwest? Is it female college graduates who also happen to be sports fanatics? Once you decide who you're targeting, ask yourself: What magazines does my ideal reader read? Those will be the magazines you'll focus on. That way, you won't waste time and money pursuing dozens of magazines which, even if they did review your book, wouldn't give you much in terms of gaining readership. With my novel we focused on magazines with large female audiences. Ideally you should be doing this a few months before your book comes out because the goal here is to either write a story for the magazine or get interviewed in the magazine, and have the article appear before or just as your book is published.2. Find out what the editors need.When you have chosen the magazines, buy them and read them. Do they have a certain writing style? What kinds of articles appear in the magazine again and again? If you can, write, email or call the features editor and find out what kinds of stories the magazine is looking for. You'll have more success if you can fill the editorial holes the magazine is already working on.3. Let an editor know what you have to offer.Start sending query letters to get article assignments. If you have a particular expertise, you can let an editor know that you're available for interviews if they ever need an expert on a particular subject. Often an editor will assign a story to a writer and give them a few possible interviewees to help them get started. I contacted editors at Es
    A marriage or any other relationship whether it be a friendship or intimate relationship between two people can only endure if it has love flowing through it. Today’s marriages are failing at record levels in the western world, recent statistics show that in the United States alone that almost half of marriages there end in divorce. Marriages cannot endure without love and it seems that the world is lacking a lot of love today. Jesus Christ predicted that in the last days “the love of many would wax cold” (Matthew 24:12). It certainly seems like the love of many is waxing cold if we look upon today’s world. With all the divorces and broken families in today’s world, it seems as though things are getting worse and worse and that the world is in a famine for love, love is lacking and we are in a drought for it.

    Many women often get their hearts broken when their marriages fail and their husband leaves them for another woman, and leaves her with children to raise and a mortgage to pay off. If love was the ingredient continually being poured into the relationship and family, these husbands would never leave their family behind because love would bind the family together forever, because love never fails. Husbands and wives seeking posh careers and materialism to satisfy and keep their family happy are heading for disaster; the lust of the eyes never satisfies and always fails to create happiness. Materialism, coveting and bigger houses don’t have the ingredients to keep a family bonded together, only pure love can create the spiritual ribbon that keeps a family tied together for eternity.

    On Television through TV commercials they show families purchasing a new car fresh from the car dealer, and it shows the family smiling and getting into the car and paints a picture that the new four wheel drive will make your family happy, and be good for the overall future of the family. Television is full of the concept that materialism will save your family and satisfy them. Materialism and its plastic false happiness are paraded all over the media, and it’s always promoted as the key to being successful in life.

    What is success?

    Does success mean having a big house and driving the latest four wheel drive, and having a husband who is never home because he is always working late hours to pay off all the flashy possessions?

    Does success mean having a husband who stays up late to have sex with his secretary, while his wife lies in her bed wishing her husband would show her love like he did in the beginning of their marriage?

    Does success mean that a husband and wife work seven days a week to pay off credit card debts, while the children get fobbed off at a childcare center’s and are raised by strangers who raise them in a scientific and technical way, so that the kids turn out like robots and never develop a real intimate relationship with their parents?

    I met an African man recently who migrated to Australia where I live, and he told me something that echoed in my mind for a longtime. I was at a local bar in the city having a couple of drinks and we started talking, and I asked him why he migrated to Australia, and he told me that he came to Australia to have a better life, and to seek happiness and security through the economic and employment benefits Australia had to offer. I asked him if he was happy about making his decision to come to Australia, and he told me that when he was living in Africa in poverty that he was more happy there than he was in Australia. He told me that he was working so hard and was chasing money and materialism that he didn’t have time for the important things in life. He said that his poverty stricken family who were living in Africa was happier than he was. His family in Africa was living in poverty, but they loved each other with a deep and pure love that kept them bound together and bubbling with joy. Flash cars and big houses don’t keep you bubbling with joy, they might tickle your eyes for a bit of time but the novelty wears off, and you start to realize that the big houses and flash cars cannot fill the empty space in your heart that you long to fill.

    People try and fill the emptiness in their lives with possessions; they think if they can have a better car than their neighbor’s that will make them and their family happier, they measure success on how much financial gain and possessions they can acquire. People are trying to fill the emptiness of their hearts with the things of this world, Jesus said, “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.” (Matt 4:4). Bread is what we eat and bread can also symbolize the physical things we try to fill ourselves up with such as; the fancy cars and fancy fashionable clothes we buy to fill the emptiness in our lives, but these things never fill us up they only tickle our eyes and senses for a little bit. Only true eternal love from God can fill the emptiness in our hearts and make a relationship work. God is love and God is the words in the bible, in the bible it says, “In the beginning was the word and the word was with God and the word was God”, so if God is love in its purest form then that means that the words written in the bible are love in its purest form, because God is the words in the bible and God is love in its purest form.

    People cannot satisfy themselves with fancy cars and big houses alone, and they cannot be satisfied and live a meaningful existence without knowing God and his words of pure love. The words of God in the bible are like the tunes of a song that we dance to. If you picture your walk in life as dancing to music, if you dance to the word of God you will dance with a loving flow of pure bliss and joy, but if you dance to the tune of seeking materialism and power you will find yourself dancing like an erratic robot with no substance or emotion, you will become shallow with no depth or flavor, your dance to life will become dry and without richness and emotion. It is the spirit that quickens and makes things alive; the things of this world and the flesh profit nothing.

    I remember walking through the city of Sydney in Australia one day, and I looked

    7 Ways to Use Website Audio in Your Marketing Arsenal
    Most visitors to your website are using computers with audio capabilities. Recently introduced techniques make it easy to take advantage of this capability.In the past, web audio was primarily decorative, consisting of musical fanfares or other clich?d sound effects. Now, you can use audio to multiply the impact of your message and create stronger bonds with your visitors.Audio’s power comes from its ability to engage more of your visitor’s senses. The more senses you engage, the easier it will be to effectively communicate. Instead of just reading your words and looking at your picture, you can communicate with your voice – and the voices of your clients.The power of audio can be appreciated by comparing the newspaper column version of Tom and Ray Magliozzi’s Car Talk with the program aired each week on National Public Radio. Although the newspaper column and radio program address the same topics, it’s far more fun to listen to Car Talk – where you can experience Tom and Ray’s intonations and phrasing – than to read the same words.Here are some of the ways you can employ audio on your website:- Welcoming messages. You can create closer emotional bonds with website visitors by personally welcoming them to your site and introducing some of the features they should explore.- Testimonials. Audio testimonials are far more powerful that written testimonials, especially if you include a photograph of the individual speaking the testimonial. The next best thing to a face-to-face referral is a recording of a client explaining their satisfaction with your product in their own words.- Guarantees. Your satisfaction guarantees gain impact when you deliver them in your own voice. Place them on your order form, at the point of sale. People are inherently cautious about ordering products and services from the Internet. Reassure them that their credit card and personal information are safe with you.- Seminars and teleconferences. Short excerpts about upcoming events can make your event even more appealing. Snippets from past seminars can whet visitors’ appetites for more.- Tips. Add interest to your site by describing an audio ‘tip of the day’ or ‘tip of the week’ in your own words. Be sure to offer access to previous tips, too.- Audio postcards. You can include audio i
    ng posh careers and materialism to satisfy and keep their family happy are heading for disaster; the lust of the eyes never satisfies and always fails to create happiness. Materialism, coveting and bigger houses don’t have the ingredients to keep a family bonded together, only pure love can create the spiritual ribbon that keeps a family tied together for eternity.

    On Television through TV commercials they show families purchasing a new car fresh from the car dealer, and it shows the family smiling and getting into the car and paints a picture that the new four wheel drive will make your family happy, and be good for the overall future of the family. Television is full of the concept that materialism will save your family and satisfy them. Materialism and its plastic false happiness are paraded all over the media, and it’s always promoted as the key to being successful in life.

    What is success?

    Does success mean having a big house and driving the latest four wheel drive, and having a husband who is never home because he is always working late hours to pay off all the flashy possessions?

    Does success mean having a husband who stays up late to have sex with his secretary, while his wife lies in her bed wishing her husband would show her love like he did in the beginning of their marriage?

    Does success mean that a husband and wife work seven days a week to pay off credit card debts, while the children get fobbed off at a childcare center’s and are raised by strangers who raise them in a scientific and technical way, so that the kids turn out like robots and never develop a real intimate relationship with their parents?

    I met an African man recently who migrated to Australia where I live, and he told me something that echoed in my mind for a longtime. I was at a local bar in the city having a couple of drinks and we started talking, and I asked him why he migrated to Australia, and he told me that he came to Australia to have a better life, and to seek happiness and security through the economic and employment benefits Australia had to offer. I asked him if he was happy about making his decision to come to Australia, and he told me that when he was living in Africa in poverty that he was more happy there than he was in Australia. He told me that he was working so hard and was chasing money and materialism that he didn’t have time for the important things in life. He said that his poverty stricken family who were living in Africa was happier than he was. His family in Africa was living in poverty, but they loved each other with a deep and pure love that kept them bound together and bubbling with joy. Flash cars and big houses don’t keep you bubbling with joy, they might tickle your eyes for a bit of time but the novelty wears off, and you start to realize that the big houses and flash cars cannot fill the empty space in your heart that you long to fill.

    People try and fill the emptiness in their lives with possessions; they think if they can have a better car than their neighbor’s that will make them and their family happier, they measure success on how much financial gain and possessions they can acquire. People are trying to fill the emptiness of their hearts with the things of this world, Jesus said, “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.” (Matt 4:4). Bread is what we eat and bread can also symbolize the physical things we try to fill ourselves up with such as; the fancy cars and fancy fashionable clothes we buy to fill the emptiness in our lives, but these things never fill us up they only tickle our eyes and senses for a little bit. Only true eternal love from God can fill the emptiness in our hearts and make a relationship work. God is love and God is the words in the bible, in the bible it says, “In the beginning was the word and the word was with God and the word was God”, so if God is love in its purest form then that means that the words written in the bible are love in its purest form, because God is the words in the bible and God is love in its purest form.

    People cannot satisfy themselves with fancy cars and big houses alone, and they cannot be satisfied and live a meaningful existence without knowing God and his words of pure love. The words of God in the bible are like the tunes of a song that we dance to. If you picture your walk in life as dancing to music, if you dance to the word of God you will dance with a loving flow of pure bliss and joy, but if you dance to the tune of seeking materialism and power you will find yourself dancing like an erratic robot with no substance or emotion, you will become shallow with no depth or flavor, your dance to life will become dry and without richness and emotion. It is the spirit that quickens and makes things alive; the things of this world and the flesh profit nothing.

    I remember walking through the city of Sydney in Australia one day, and I looked

    How You Can Get The Best Life Insurance Rate in a Few Short Minutes
    When looking to invest in whole life insurance for your family's future, you should be sure to spend some time checking out a universal for the best life insurance rate or two, as universal insurance can offer you some of the most comprehensive and customizable packages in the insurance industry, as well as some great benefits over traditional whole insurance. A universal policy is far superior in comparison to a traditional policy because it gives you the flexibility to change around various terms such as payout amount and how much you pay in premiums.Finding that perfect universal policy is extremely important if you have even one single loved one in your life you care about even if they are no longer living at home. Enrolling in a policy will protect those in your family who depend on your financial support, people who you likely care a great deal for, people such as your spouse and your children. In researching for a low cost rate, be sure to think of those who will receive the benefits and not simply how much you will spend in monthly premiums. Remember that the policy is for your family and not for yourself, so try to be as selfless as you can.The moment you log online and receive your first rate quote in your email, you will find that you are well on your way to becoming a part of a plan that is vastly superior to a traditional whole life policy. Although both universal and traditional policies are technically classified as whole life insurance, they really are two different entities.Sure, you can enroll in either policy at any time of your life no matter how old or how young you are and the rate for both types are generally higher when you are younger, and they really only increase slightly the older you get, but you can do so much more with a universal policy than a traditional policy.A universal plan means that you want a newfound versatility from your life insurance policy that most others could only dream of. With a policy of this type, you have been given the unique option to change your payout as many times as you like higher or lower, it makes no difference. All you have to do to qualify for payout changes is to undergo a health examination.As long as your body is still going strong, the insurance company cannot deny an increase in the payout. Even better, if you have done
    g her husband would show her love like he did in the beginning of their marriage?

    Does success mean that a husband and wife work seven days a week to pay off credit card debts, while the children get fobbed off at a childcare center’s and are raised by strangers who raise them in a scientific and technical way, so that the kids turn out like robots and never develop a real intimate relationship with their parents?

    I met an African man recently who migrated to Australia where I live, and he told me something that echoed in my mind for a longtime. I was at a local bar in the city having a couple of drinks and we started talking, and I asked him why he migrated to Australia, and he told me that he came to Australia to have a better life, and to seek happiness and security through the economic and employment benefits Australia had to offer. I asked him if he was happy about making his decision to come to Australia, and he told me that when he was living in Africa in poverty that he was more happy there than he was in Australia. He told me that he was working so hard and was chasing money and materialism that he didn’t have time for the important things in life. He said that his poverty stricken family who were living in Africa was happier than he was. His family in Africa was living in poverty, but they loved each other with a deep and pure love that kept them bound together and bubbling with joy. Flash cars and big houses don’t keep you bubbling with joy, they might tickle your eyes for a bit of time but the novelty wears off, and you start to realize that the big houses and flash cars cannot fill the empty space in your heart that you long to fill.

    People try and fill the emptiness in their lives with possessions; they think if they can have a better car than their neighbor’s that will make them and their family happier, they measure success on how much financial gain and possessions they can acquire. People are trying to fill the emptiness of their hearts with the things of this world, Jesus said, “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.” (Matt 4:4). Bread is what we eat and bread can also symbolize the physical things we try to fill ourselves up with such as; the fancy cars and fancy fashionable clothes we buy to fill the emptiness in our lives, but these things never fill us up they only tickle our eyes and senses for a little bit. Only true eternal love from God can fill the emptiness in our hearts and make a relationship work. God is love and God is the words in the bible, in the bible it says, “In the beginning was the word and the word was with God and the word was God”, so if God is love in its purest form then that means that the words written in the bible are love in its purest form, because God is the words in the bible and God is love in its purest form.

    People cannot satisfy themselves with fancy cars and big houses alone, and they cannot be satisfied and live a meaningful existence without knowing God and his words of pure love. The words of God in the bible are like the tunes of a song that we dance to. If you picture your walk in life as dancing to music, if you dance to the word of God you will dance with a loving flow of pure bliss and joy, but if you dance to the tune of seeking materialism and power you will find yourself dancing like an erratic robot with no substance or emotion, you will become shallow with no depth or flavor, your dance to life will become dry and without richness and emotion. It is the spirit that quickens and makes things alive; the things of this world and the flesh profit nothing.

    I remember walking through the city of Sydney in Australia one day, and I looked

    Mint Money in Your Business through Print Media! Business Strategy for Success
    Gold Up! Money Down! Minting gold coins is a slow process; need to be attended very carefully for its quality and quantity standards. Today’s 10 grams of gold coin is worth more in money value tomorrow. It goes up and up daily. But, the value of currency declines when compared with Gold any day after today. Price of silver, copper, steel, metals and other commodities also go up steadily.Faster Business Growth! But, printing currencies is easier than making any metal coins. Please don’t mistake me. I am not going to guide you either to mint gold coin or print currencies illegally. Now, I am going to tell the ways of making money fast through genuine business. It is all about making a faster growth in business through some special techniques. I am telling about bringing multiple fold growth in business through the print media.Print Gold Coins! It is like making gold coins in a printing press. More in value, quick in process! Now you can mint gold with the speed of a modern printing press! In other words, you will earn a big money faster than usual speed. This is by application of sales promotion and marketing techniques with the help of print media.Small and Effective! Let me tell you about the smallest printed materials that enhance the product appeal and bring assured business. You might have seen very small and simple stickers that give ‘value addition’ to the products. A small and round sticker just with two letters (O.K.) brings great confidence in the minds of the buyers.Total Quality control: These give a good assurance about the total quality control being adopted in the production process. They guarantee about the utility value of the product on hand. If you are sure that your final product is of expected quality and endurance, then a small OK sticker will also be okay to produce great sales promotion!Small stickers bring big impact: Some small linear rectangular shaped stickers with small words like, TESTED OK, CHECKED OK, VERIFIED, QUALITY TESTED, 20%Free, 30%EXTRA, QUALITY GUARANTEED, ISI STANDARD, ISO NO: 9003, Agmark, Hallmark, BIS mark, Gold Coin Inside, Silver Coin Inside, Free Recipe Inside, Lucky Draw Coupon Inside, Washington apple, Australian Apple, Grown in Organic Farm, Grown in Nature will brin
    rica was happier than he was. His family in Africa was living in poverty, but they loved each other with a deep and pure love that kept them bound together and bubbling with joy. Flash cars and big houses don’t keep you bubbling with joy, they might tickle your eyes for a bit of time but the novelty wears off, and you start to realize that the big houses and flash cars cannot fill the empty space in your heart that you long to fill.

    People try and fill the emptiness in their lives with possessions; they think if they can have a better car than their neighbor’s that will make them and their family happier, they measure success on how much financial gain and possessions they can acquire. People are trying to fill the emptiness of their hearts with the things of this world, Jesus said, “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.” (Matt 4:4). Bread is what we eat and bread can also symbolize the physical things we try to fill ourselves up with such as; the fancy cars and fancy fashionable clothes we buy to fill the emptiness in our lives, but these things never fill us up they only tickle our eyes and senses for a little bit. Only true eternal love from God can fill the emptiness in our hearts and make a relationship work. God is love and God is the words in the bible, in the bible it says, “In the beginning was the word and the word was with God and the word was God”, so if God is love in its purest form then that means that the words written in the bible are love in its purest form, because God is the words in the bible and God is love in its purest form.

    People cannot satisfy themselves with fancy cars and big houses alone, and they cannot be satisfied and live a meaningful existence without knowing God and his words of pure love. The words of God in the bible are like the tunes of a song that we dance to. If you picture your walk in life as dancing to music, if you dance to the word of God you will dance with a loving flow of pure bliss and joy, but if you dance to the tune of seeking materialism and power you will find yourself dancing like an erratic robot with no substance or emotion, you will become shallow with no depth or flavor, your dance to life will become dry and without richness and emotion. It is the spirit that quickens and makes things alive; the things of this world and the flesh profit nothing.

    I remember walking through the city of Sydney in Australia one day, and I looked

    Pocket PC Flexibility In A Small Box
    The Pocket PC has become a very popular platform for mobile devices that supports a wide range of multimedia features. It is not only for work, but it can also be used for entertainment. For example, the multimedia capacity on the Pocket PC is so much better and the games developed have tended to be far richer then those on the Palm Pilot version. One of the more attractive reason people purchase a Pocket PC is how portable and small it is to fit in your pocket with a vast amount of features that you will not find on your everyday Palm Pilot. One of the best features of the Pocket PC is its ability to browse the Web.Many new applications are being created to enhance your total experience as a Pocket PC user. Some of the high tech applications being created for your portable device cover many areas such as: the Microsoft High Encryption Pack for encrypting your data; Mobile Surveillance Applications; voice recognition software that will make your Pocket PC speak English or other languages. Some other applications cover: PocketTV, searching for Fight Schedules, Remote Display Control that installs on both your Pocket PC and your regular PC and a PocketBible - the ultimate bible application for your Pocket PC.You will find all the software you need for your Pocket PC available through the net and in many cases a free version, or at your local entertainment store. For example, if you are a healthcare professional, there are many software tools available - from medical encyclopedias, time management, to information on pharmaceutical drugs all at your fingertips.A software package such as PocketKeys, is a multilingual software keyboard for Windows CE, Pocket PC, Windows Mobile 2003 and Windows Mobile 5. Another package called GoodLink,is tightly integrated with the phone functionality of a Pocket PC for simple and convenient calling; and then there is a package called Contact Management to help the end user with quicker access to your database. As the technology changes you will have more and more free demo versions to try out for your handheld devices such as: mobile phones, iPods, PSPs, Pocket PCs, Palm or even digital cameras.Overall the Pocket PC is a highly mobile unit due to it's portable size, it is very powerful and does not depend on another PC to operate. The Pocket PC makes remote computing
    in our hearts and make a relationship work. God is love and God is the words in the bible, in the bible it says, “In the beginning was the word and the word was with God and the word was God”, so if God is love in its purest form then that means that the words written in the bible are love in its purest form, because God is the words in the bible and God is love in its purest form.

    People cannot satisfy themselves with fancy cars and big houses alone, and they cannot be satisfied and live a meaningful existence without knowing God and his words of pure love. The words of God in the bible are like the tunes of a song that we dance to. If you picture your walk in life as dancing to music, if you dance to the word of God you will dance with a loving flow of pure bliss and joy, but if you dance to the tune of seeking materialism and power you will find yourself dancing like an erratic robot with no substance or emotion, you will become shallow with no depth or flavor, your dance to life will become dry and without richness and emotion. It is the spirit that quickens and makes things alive; the things of this world and the flesh profit nothing.

    I remember walking through the city of Sydney in Australia one day, and I looked at peoples eyes; these people were on their way to work, and as they marched to work in the morning they looked like robots, they looked like they were hypnotized and unaware of what was happening around them. The whole system has regulated people and the people aren’t aware that most of the time they are in a zombie like state, they are on auto-pilot and barely have enough time to look at a beautiful rose in a garden and appreciate Gods handiwork, they don’t even have time to look at the beautiful endless blue sky and just lose their thoughts in it. As society invents new devices and gadgets that speed life up more and more, and society make’s the claims that these devices make us happier, we seem to be just getting more and more miserable instead of happier. Fast cars, fast computers and fancier gadgets seem to be making life more miserable rather than more enlightening. Kids don’t need new computer games to replace time that could be spent hugging their mothers and bonding with their fathers. Kids need loving and enlightening bonding between both parents, buying a child the latest play station video game is like buying a barrier that keeps you separated from your child.

    Parents who work two jobs because they say they want the best for their kids usually fob their kids off at a daycare centre, and the kids get raised by strangers and most of the time the kids are watching television and they become brainwashed conditioned children, who look to the TV for guidance instead of seeking their parents for guidance. The parents say they are looking out for their families’ best interest, when they both take up busy full time jobs to save up finances to buy fancy things and send their kids to a private school, but statistics show that many marriages where the wife and husband are working fulltime have their marriages fail. The marriage fails and the husband and wife suffer, and then the children suffer. The children become involved in an emotional tug of war between the father and mother and this psychologically damages children for life.

    When I was a young child my parents divorced and had an emotional tug of war over me, and it really damaged me psychologically, I started taking illegal drugs to numb the pain and confusion that my parents divorce had on me. We were a reasonably wealthy family, we lived in a beautiful big house and had fancy expensive cars, but the relationships in the family were failing, my parents marriage was failing and me and my brothers relationship with my parents was also failing. The money we had and the beautiful house and other things we had did not save my parents marriage. Bank accounts lose value, cars rust, houses corrode, and shares shrink, bonds fade away, but only love endures. Our family lacked love because we didn’t know God. God is love and if you want love in your family and relationship you need to know God. With God it’s almost impossible for a relationship to fail, because with God nothing is impossible as it says in the bible.

    Better cars, bigger houses and fancier modern technology only give us a plastic and counterfeit peace of mind, they only satisfy for a few moments. These things can never make us happy and bring security to a marriage and family. A husband needs to have an eternal perspective towards his family, that which is seen is temporal but that which is unseen is eternal. Love is unseen but it’s a powerful force and a potent ingredient in keeping a family and marriage together.

    God is love in its purest form, and love is what keeps a relationship and family bound together for eternity. There’s a famine for love that seems to be killing this generation, because people have forgotten and don’t understand what true love really is. A relationship without God cannot exist in love; because God is love. “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.”(1 John 4:7-8). Since God is love, the best way to find out what love in its purest form is; is to develop a personal and spiritual relationship with God and ask him to fill you with his abundant spiritual pure love without measure. When God begins filling you with his love you can then begin to pour it out onto your spouse, children and other people you care about. Many marriages fail because one of the parties says they don’t love the other one anymore, because the marriage has become dry and there’s a draught for love in the relationship. When there’s a draught for water the first thing you do is go to a plentiful river with a bucket to collect more water, well if your marriage is suffering from a draught for love the best thing to do is go to God, because God is the biggest river of love you could possibly find. God will not turn you away, if you ask sincerely for more love in your relationship God will give you a reason to love your spouse, and God will even make the good

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