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    Cry out loud
    Yes I know that Melissa (Manchester) said ‘Don’t Cry Out loud,’ but she got a million bucks to sing that song. What do you have other than a broken heart? See what I mean? So go ahead and let it all out, have a good cry. Not all tears are tears of pain. Sometimes spending the day just crying and lamenting over everything that you've lost in the relationship is a good thing. Or maybe you’re crying tears of joy over the fact that you're happy that you’ve been freed from a relationship you didn’t want to be in anymore anyway. Whew! One caveat, it’s probably not a good idea to take the crying thing past the day. If possible, try to limit it to a good hour or two. Crying for days or weeks on end can and may lead to depression, or worse, you may already be in a depressed state. Remember this word: Moderation.

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    You got a phone call, or maybe even a dear John/Jane letter, or maybe someone let you down easily and told you, you were no longer the tickle in their eye. Whatever method was used, it sure doesn’t make you fell any better. Getting dumped is all part of the dating process. If you’re dating, this day will inevitably come. However, you don’t have to be in the dumps, just because you got dumped! Pick yourself up, dust yourself, and do any or all of these things to help you get over the relationship.

    Hide all sharp objects and padlock the medicine cabinet
    You just got dumped, that sucks. Now you have a bunch of free time on your hands, that’s good! Well…it should be. Being dumped also means you will have plenty of time around the house, and because of that, it might be a good ideal to temporarily put away those sharp puncture causing objects and invest in a master lock for your medicine cabinet in your possibly fragile mental state. That’s not to say that you would do anything…well dangerous or stupid. It just means that removing the temptation to impale yourself with a sharp object or popping yourself to sleep, sounds less appealing if you have to do it somewhere other than your home.

    Reconnect with family and friends

    Oh the joys of turning to family and friends in times like these can be truly comforting. It’s always good to have a shoulder to cry on, and an ear that will listen to you lamenting the loss of the relationship. Afterall, that’s what family and friends are for. Now's a great time to reconnect with all those people who you blew off while you were in you're relationship. Hopefully like you, they'll be alone, and they'll be able to spend time with you and you can be best buds again. However, if your friends are currently in a relationship, don’t be surprised if they blow you off, just like you blew them off. Karma…sorry.

    Take up reading

    Nothing could get over the loneliness of being dumped better than by reading a good book. I recommend a nice comedy or drama or even a history book. One caveat, if I were you I would stay away from the romance novels. Just a suggestion.

    Reconnect with your higher power

    Remember all those nights your partner made you shout to the high heavens in joy? Well, that doesn’t (technically) count as talking with God. During relationships, it’s very common to forget about the higher power we turn to when things go bad. You just got dumped. Things are looking pretty grim now. Turn to God and tell him all those things you’ve wanted to say, but somehow managed to forget. Now that you've been dumped, you can have an opportunity to reconnect and have a personal time with God or the God of your choosing.

    Throw yourself into work
    Hmmm…maybe that wasn’t the best choice of words. Don’t take the throw part literally. Now might be a good opportunity to immerse yourself in all those work related things that you neglected during your bliss state. Think about all the office gossip you missed, the back stabbing (remember you put away the sharp objects), and the cut (sorry) throat competition that goes with the corporate world. Just look back at your time during your relationship as a hiatus. In your current state, you’ll be able to jump (sorry…again) right back in and go toe to toe with the best of them in no time flat. You might even be able to get a promotion. It can happen!

    Write a book
    The joys of literature. Now that you're experiencing an unusually amount of time on your hands, writing can be an excellent outlet. Start by writing about how you feel about the fact that you just got dumped. That’s a subject matter that you're intimately familiar with. All good writers are able to draw on their experiences. Just think of the possibilities! Shakespeare you may not be, but don’t let that stop you from writing about your own tragedy.

    Take up cooking
    Throughout your relationship, you may or may not have been the cook your partner wanted you to be. If that was the case, you can take this opportunity to brush up on all those cooking skills, or lack thereof. Just think of how easy it is cooking for one. After all, pushing a button on a microwave shouldn't be too difficult. Even better, you can write a book about cooking for one. That’s being constructive and synergetic!

    Volunteer work
    Nothing will help you forget life's lost love faster than by volunteering to help those that are less fortunate than you. Certainly, in your depressed state, you may not be the best volunteer, but ‘A’ volunteer is better than no volunteer at all. Perhaps the 24-hour chat line for people who’ve been dumped might be a good place to start. You can share your experiences.

    Cry out loud
    Yes I know that Melissa (Manchester) said ‘Don’t Cry Out loud,’ but she got a million bucks to sing that song. What do you have other than a broken heart? See what I mean? So go ahead and let it all out, have a good cry. Not all tears are tears of pain. Sometimes spending the day just crying and lamenting over everything that you've lost in the relationship is a good thing. Or maybe you’re crying tears of joy over the fact that you're happy that you’ve been freed from a relationship you didn’t want to be in anymore anyway. Whew! One caveat, it’s probably not a good idea to take the crying thing past the day. If possible, try to limit it to a good hour or two. Crying for days or weeks on end can and may lead to depression, or worse, you may already be in a depressed state. Remember this word: Moderation.

    Laugh
    Ok, now that you’ve had your cry, have a good laugh at the fact you were crying over something that’s no longer important to you. Laughter is the worlds greatest elixir to life’s big

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    Reconnect with family and friends

    Oh the joys of turning to family and friends in times like these can be truly comforting. It’s always good to have a shoulder to cry on, and an ear that will listen to you lamenting the loss of the relationship. Afterall, that’s what family and friends are for. Now's a great time to reconnect with all those people who you blew off while you were in you're relationship. Hopefully like you, they'll be alone, and they'll be able to spend time with you and you can be best buds again. However, if your friends are currently in a relationship, don’t be surprised if they blow you off, just like you blew them off. Karma…sorry.

    Take up reading

    Nothing could get over the loneliness of being dumped better than by reading a good book. I recommend a nice comedy or drama or even a history book. One caveat, if I were you I would stay away from the romance novels. Just a suggestion.

    Reconnect with your higher power

    Remember all those nights your partner made you shout to the high heavens in joy? Well, that doesn’t (technically) count as talking with God. During relationships, it’s very common to forget about the higher power we turn to when things go bad. You just got dumped. Things are looking pretty grim now. Turn to God and tell him all those things you’ve wanted to say, but somehow managed to forget. Now that you've been dumped, you can have an opportunity to reconnect and have a personal time with God or the God of your choosing.

    Throw yourself into work
    Hmmm…maybe that wasn’t the best choice of words. Don’t take the throw part literally. Now might be a good opportunity to immerse yourself in all those work related things that you neglected during your bliss state. Think about all the office gossip you missed, the back stabbing (remember you put away the sharp objects), and the cut (sorry) throat competition that goes with the corporate world. Just look back at your time during your relationship as a hiatus. In your current state, you’ll be able to jump (sorry…again) right back in and go toe to toe with the best of them in no time flat. You might even be able to get a promotion. It can happen!

    Write a book
    The joys of literature. Now that you're experiencing an unusually amount of time on your hands, writing can be an excellent outlet. Start by writing about how you feel about the fact that you just got dumped. That’s a subject matter that you're intimately familiar with. All good writers are able to draw on their experiences. Just think of the possibilities! Shakespeare you may not be, but don’t let that stop you from writing about your own tragedy.

    Take up cooking
    Throughout your relationship, you may or may not have been the cook your partner wanted you to be. If that was the case, you can take this opportunity to brush up on all those cooking skills, or lack thereof. Just think of how easy it is cooking for one. After all, pushing a button on a microwave shouldn't be too difficult. Even better, you can write a book about cooking for one. That’s being constructive and synergetic!

    Volunteer work
    Nothing will help you forget life's lost love faster than by volunteering to help those that are less fortunate than you. Certainly, in your depressed state, you may not be the best volunteer, but ‘A’ volunteer is better than no volunteer at all. Perhaps the 24-hour chat line for people who’ve been dumped might be a good place to start. You can share your experiences.

    Cry out loud
    Yes I know that Melissa (Manchester) said ‘Don’t Cry Out loud,’ but she got a million bucks to sing that song. What do you have other than a broken heart? See what I mean? So go ahead and let it all out, have a good cry. Not all tears are tears of pain. Sometimes spending the day just crying and lamenting over everything that you've lost in the relationship is a good thing. Or maybe you’re crying tears of joy over the fact that you're happy that you’ve been freed from a relationship you didn’t want to be in anymore anyway. Whew! One caveat, it’s probably not a good idea to take the crying thing past the day. If possible, try to limit it to a good hour or two. Crying for days or weeks on end can and may lead to depression, or worse, you may already be in a depressed state. Remember this word: Moderation.

    Laugh
    Ok, now that you’ve had your cry, have a good laugh at the fact you were crying over something that’s no longer important to you. Laughter is the worlds greatest elixir to life’s big

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    ically) count as talking with God. During relationships, it’s very common to forget about the higher power we turn to when things go bad. You just got dumped. Things are looking pretty grim now. Turn to God and tell him all those things you’ve wanted to say, but somehow managed to forget. Now that you've been dumped, you can have an opportunity to reconnect and have a personal time with God or the God of your choosing.

    Throw yourself into work
    Hmmm…maybe that wasn’t the best choice of words. Don’t take the throw part literally. Now might be a good opportunity to immerse yourself in all those work related things that you neglected during your bliss state. Think about all the office gossip you missed, the back stabbing (remember you put away the sharp objects), and the cut (sorry) throat competition that goes with the corporate world. Just look back at your time during your relationship as a hiatus. In your current state, you’ll be able to jump (sorry…again) right back in and go toe to toe with the best of them in no time flat. You might even be able to get a promotion. It can happen!

    Write a book
    The joys of literature. Now that you're experiencing an unusually amount of time on your hands, writing can be an excellent outlet. Start by writing about how you feel about the fact that you just got dumped. That’s a subject matter that you're intimately familiar with. All good writers are able to draw on their experiences. Just think of the possibilities! Shakespeare you may not be, but don’t let that stop you from writing about your own tragedy.

    Take up cooking
    Throughout your relationship, you may or may not have been the cook your partner wanted you to be. If that was the case, you can take this opportunity to brush up on all those cooking skills, or lack thereof. Just think of how easy it is cooking for one. After all, pushing a button on a microwave shouldn't be too difficult. Even better, you can write a book about cooking for one. That’s being constructive and synergetic!

    Volunteer work
    Nothing will help you forget life's lost love faster than by volunteering to help those that are less fortunate than you. Certainly, in your depressed state, you may not be the best volunteer, but ‘A’ volunteer is better than no volunteer at all. Perhaps the 24-hour chat line for people who’ve been dumped might be a good place to start. You can share your experiences.

    Cry out loud
    Yes I know that Melissa (Manchester) said ‘Don’t Cry Out loud,’ but she got a million bucks to sing that song. What do you have other than a broken heart? See what I mean? So go ahead and let it all out, have a good cry. Not all tears are tears of pain. Sometimes spending the day just crying and lamenting over everything that you've lost in the relationship is a good thing. Or maybe you’re crying tears of joy over the fact that you're happy that you’ve been freed from a relationship you didn’t want to be in anymore anyway. Whew! One caveat, it’s probably not a good idea to take the crying thing past the day. If possible, try to limit it to a good hour or two. Crying for days or weeks on end can and may lead to depression, or worse, you may already be in a depressed state. Remember this word: Moderation.

    Laugh
    Ok, now that you’ve had your cry, have a good laugh at the fact you were crying over something that’s no longer important to you. Laughter is the worlds greatest elixir to life’s big

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    ow that you're experiencing an unusually amount of time on your hands, writing can be an excellent outlet. Start by writing about how you feel about the fact that you just got dumped. That’s a subject matter that you're intimately familiar with. All good writers are able to draw on their experiences. Just think of the possibilities! Shakespeare you may not be, but don’t let that stop you from writing about your own tragedy.

    Take up cooking
    Throughout your relationship, you may or may not have been the cook your partner wanted you to be. If that was the case, you can take this opportunity to brush up on all those cooking skills, or lack thereof. Just think of how easy it is cooking for one. After all, pushing a button on a microwave shouldn't be too difficult. Even better, you can write a book about cooking for one. That’s being constructive and synergetic!

    Volunteer work
    Nothing will help you forget life's lost love faster than by volunteering to help those that are less fortunate than you. Certainly, in your depressed state, you may not be the best volunteer, but ‘A’ volunteer is better than no volunteer at all. Perhaps the 24-hour chat line for people who’ve been dumped might be a good place to start. You can share your experiences.

    Cry out loud
    Yes I know that Melissa (Manchester) said ‘Don’t Cry Out loud,’ but she got a million bucks to sing that song. What do you have other than a broken heart? See what I mean? So go ahead and let it all out, have a good cry. Not all tears are tears of pain. Sometimes spending the day just crying and lamenting over everything that you've lost in the relationship is a good thing. Or maybe you’re crying tears of joy over the fact that you're happy that you’ve been freed from a relationship you didn’t want to be in anymore anyway. Whew! One caveat, it’s probably not a good idea to take the crying thing past the day. If possible, try to limit it to a good hour or two. Crying for days or weeks on end can and may lead to depression, or worse, you may already be in a depressed state. Remember this word: Moderation.

    Laugh
    Ok, now that you’ve had your cry, have a good laugh at the fact you were crying over something that’s no longer important to you. Laughter is the worlds greatest elixir to life’s big

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    haps the 24-hour chat line for people who’ve been dumped might be a good place to start. You can share your experiences.

    Cry out loud
    Yes I know that Melissa (Manchester) said ‘Don’t Cry Out loud,’ but she got a million bucks to sing that song. What do you have other than a broken heart? See what I mean? So go ahead and let it all out, have a good cry. Not all tears are tears of pain. Sometimes spending the day just crying and lamenting over everything that you've lost in the relationship is a good thing. Or maybe you’re crying tears of joy over the fact that you're happy that you’ve been freed from a relationship you didn’t want to be in anymore anyway. Whew! One caveat, it’s probably not a good idea to take the crying thing past the day. If possible, try to limit it to a good hour or two. Crying for days or weeks on end can and may lead to depression, or worse, you may already be in a depressed state. Remember this word: Moderation.

    Laugh
    Ok, now that you’ve had your cry, have a good laugh at the fact you were crying over something that’s no longer important to you. Laughter is the worlds greatest elixir to life’s biggest problems. Laughter is the medicine of life that heals all wounds in time.

    Your relationship just ended, it doesn’t mean your life has to also. Smile.

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