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Actual for You - When You Are Stuck Not Knowing What To Say
The price at the gas pump is certainly on everyone’s mind. We read about Airliner Bankruptcies too and their fuel costs. Truckers are complaining and the average American is modifying their
Many, many times when I have been stuck with what to say, I've simply gotten quiet inside and learned to observe the other person, get curious, and ask a question based on what I am curious about: is it that you are x or is it that
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One key I want to give you: if you are ever stuck with what to say, you can always get curious about the other person. Notice what you notice about them and then bring it up in conversation!
In the case of the waitress you could have said, "Wow, you are unusually friendly. I really thought it was against the rules for a food serve to sit at the table with the customers. So is it that you like to bend the rules or just that you find some people worth bending the rules for?"
Do you see how this kind of question will do a couple of things:
1. If she's just a tease, you have, in effect, called her on it and she will stop wasting your time.
2. You've shown some good insight into her behavior. Because either she's doing this because she just likes bending the rules (in which case you could inquire more into where ELSE in her life she likes bending rules) or she's doing it because she DOES see something interesting in you.
Many, many times when I have been stuck with what to say, I've simply gotten quiet inside and learned to observe the other person, get curious, and ask a question based on what I am curious about: is it that you are x or is it that
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In the case of the waitress you could have said, "Wow, you are unusually friendly. I really thought it was against the rules for a food serve to sit at the table with the customers. So is it that you like to bend the rules or just that you find some people worth bending the rules for?"
Do you see how this kind of question will do a couple of things:
1. If she's just a tease, you have, in effect, called her on it and she will stop wasting your time.
2. You've shown some good insight into her behavior. Because either she's doing this because she just likes bending the rules (in which case you could inquire more into where ELSE in her life she likes bending rules) or she's doing it because she DOES see something interesting in you.
Many, many times when I have been stuck with what to say, I've simply gotten quiet inside and learned to observe the other person, get curious, and ask a question based on what I am curious about: is it that you are x or is it that
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Do you see how this kind of question will do a couple of things:
1. If she's just a tease, you have, in effect, called her on it and she will stop wasting your time.
2. You've shown some good insight into her behavior. Because either she's doing this because she just likes bending the rules (in which case you could inquire more into where ELSE in her life she likes bending rules) or she's doing it because she DOES see something interesting in you.
Many, many times when I have been stuck with what to say, I've simply gotten quiet inside and learned to observe the other person, get curious, and ask a question based on what I am curious about: is it that you are x or is it that
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2. You've shown some good insight into her behavior. Because either she's doing this because she just likes bending the rules (in which case you could inquire more into where ELSE in her life she likes bending rules) or she's doing it because she DOES see something interesting in you.
Many, many times when I have been stuck with what to say, I've simply gotten quiet inside and learned to observe the other person, get curious, and ask a question based on what I am curious about: is it that you are x or is it that
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Many, many times when I have been stuck with what to say, I've simply gotten quiet inside and learned to observe the other person, get curious, and ask a question based on what I am curious about: is it that you are x or is it that you are y? (where x and y represent two possible explanations, either one of which points her mind and thinking in a seduction direction).
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