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Actual for You - Relationship Advice: Closeness and Connection
Last article we looked at estate commissions and the role they play in the buying process. This article we look at what an agent does for both buyer and seller in greater detail. This will lead nicely onto the next issue where we look at how you can do the job yourself.Do I need to use an agent?Or would it be better to do the job myself. Well let’s look at the two aspects – buying
How couples can get close again
1) Have a conversation about how you first met and what first attracted you to each other.
2) Talk about the times you have felt the most connected. Then list the things you did that helped create that closeness. Then do those things again.
3) Mention something your partner did that you enjoyed. For example, "I loved it today when you gave me a break from the kids/ held my hand/
If you are thinking about investing money, you are already taking the correct first step by asking how to invest money. Here are some thoughts on the subject.The term investing can have many meanings. If you put your money in a savings account at your local bank, that is investing it, and it certainly is a simple way. If you are interested in investing in the large and complex Foreign Cur
How couples drift apart
1) Life got in the way. Somehow, in the midst of the hustle and bustle of everyday life, couples seem to forget about each other. The initial closeness they once felt has been damaged by focus on work, the bills, the kids, you name it.
2) Each takes the other for granted. This can slowly eat away at any connection a couple might feel. What makes it worse is that it is so very easy to do. Keeping priorities straight in our stressful lives can be very difficult. We get so caught up in simply living that we forget about making a life with our partner.
3) Each stops treating the other well. Somehow we succumb to the notion that all the things we used to do that brought us together are no longer necessary. It's like the old joke about the couple that had been married for several years and one day the wife said to the husband, ``You never say you love me anymore!'' The husband responds with, ``Well, dear, I told you I loved you on our wedding day. If anything changes, I'll let you know.''
4) Resentments are held. Old grudges, hurts and resentments are a cancer that can eat away at the closeness of a couple.
5) Communication stops. This is the most frequent reason given by couples as a factor in their drifting apart. Once a couple stops communicating, it's just a matter of time before the roommate syndrome sets in.
If you recognize your relationship in the above examples, hang in there; you are not alone and there is a way out. Couples don't plan on growing apart, they simply drift apart over time. Just the opposite is true about growing closer again. You don't just drift into it, you intentionally take action designed to grow closer together. Here are some tips from the couples I've worked with that have helped them grow closer again.
How couples can get close again
1) Have a conversation about how you first met and what first attracted you to each other.
2) Talk about the times you have felt the most connected. Then list the things you did that helped create that closeness. Then do those things again.
3) Mention something your partner did that you enjoyed. For example, "I loved it today when you gave me a break from the kids/ held my hand/ h
Homeowners sometimes fall into hard times for a number of reasons. During these financial hardships, they can actually consider applying for bad credit second mortgages. The process of getting such mortgages may be difficult but the benefits may be very well worth the effort.A general requirement to qualify for bad credit second mortgages is that the owner should have home equity. These c
3) Each stops treating the other well. Somehow we succumb to the notion that all the things we used to do that brought us together are no longer necessary. It's like the old joke about the couple that had been married for several years and one day the wife said to the husband, ``You never say you love me anymore!'' The husband responds with, ``Well, dear, I told you I loved you on our wedding day. If anything changes, I'll let you know.''
4) Resentments are held. Old grudges, hurts and resentments are a cancer that can eat away at the closeness of a couple.
5) Communication stops. This is the most frequent reason given by couples as a factor in their drifting apart. Once a couple stops communicating, it's just a matter of time before the roommate syndrome sets in.
If you recognize your relationship in the above examples, hang in there; you are not alone and there is a way out. Couples don't plan on growing apart, they simply drift apart over time. Just the opposite is true about growing closer again. You don't just drift into it, you intentionally take action designed to grow closer together. Here are some tips from the couples I've worked with that have helped them grow closer again.
How couples can get close again
1) Have a conversation about how you first met and what first attracted you to each other.
2) Talk about the times you have felt the most connected. Then list the things you did that helped create that closeness. Then do those things again.
3) Mention something your partner did that you enjoyed. For example, "I loved it today when you gave me a break from the kids/ held my hand/
Relationships with good friends are always wonderful. Is that true? Have you ever had the experience with someone you dearly like as a friend that it just feels exhausting to be with them sometimes? One reason might be the ‘cardboard image’ effect.When you first meet another person you create a file in your head with the information you gather. Every time you meet, new information is add
4) Resentments are held. Old grudges, hurts and resentments are a cancer that can eat away at the closeness of a couple.
5) Communication stops. This is the most frequent reason given by couples as a factor in their drifting apart. Once a couple stops communicating, it's just a matter of time before the roommate syndrome sets in.
If you recognize your relationship in the above examples, hang in there; you are not alone and there is a way out. Couples don't plan on growing apart, they simply drift apart over time. Just the opposite is true about growing closer again. You don't just drift into it, you intentionally take action designed to grow closer together. Here are some tips from the couples I've worked with that have helped them grow closer again.
How couples can get close again
1) Have a conversation about how you first met and what first attracted you to each other.
2) Talk about the times you have felt the most connected. Then list the things you did that helped create that closeness. Then do those things again.
3) Mention something your partner did that you enjoyed. For example, "I loved it today when you gave me a break from the kids/ held my hand/
Did you know that somewhere around 50% of all websites have one or more of the following problems?* typing errors* spelling mistakes* grammatical problems* punctuation problems.Wow! A whopping 50%!Hard to believe??No, I don't think it is.In my daily business life I briefly skim or read anywhere up to hundreds of web pages, brochures, flyer
If you recognize your relationship in the above examples, hang in there; you are not alone and there is a way out. Couples don't plan on growing apart, they simply drift apart over time. Just the opposite is true about growing closer again. You don't just drift into it, you intentionally take action designed to grow closer together. Here are some tips from the couples I've worked with that have helped them grow closer again.
How couples can get close again
1) Have a conversation about how you first met and what first attracted you to each other.
2) Talk about the times you have felt the most connected. Then list the things you did that helped create that closeness. Then do those things again.
3) Mention something your partner did that you enjoyed. For example, "I loved it today when you gave me a break from the kids/ held my hand/
There are hundreds of thousands of websites on the Internet that are missing out on big money. With the emergence of the new Chitika eMiniMalls advertising company, these websites could be bringing in hundreds of dollars a day, and they don't even know it.For years people have built websites around their passions, whether is was Mustang Cobras or food processors. These websites existed
How couples can get close again
1) Have a conversation about how you first met and what first attracted you to each other.
2) Talk about the times you have felt the most connected. Then list the things you did that helped create that closeness. Then do those things again.
3) Mention something your partner did that you enjoyed. For example, "I loved it today when you gave me a break from the kids/ held my hand/ hugged me/helped me at the office, etc."
4) Discover what your partner's "love language" is. Do they most need to see it, hear it, or feel it in order to feel most loved?
If you don't know, ask.
5) Ask your partner what their "perfect day'' would be like and then create as much of it as you can.
6) Renew and/or rewrite your vows. Who says we can say these important words only once? Renewing vows, commitments and words of love can rapidly and powerfully bring a couple closer together.
These are just a few suggestions for the road back to closeness and connection. I would love to hear from couples about how they have made the journey back to closeness after drifting apart.
If you would like to share your secrets, just drop me a line.
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