self detached form the person. Do not ‘fear’ rejection but keep yourself detachedly ready for it. Do not be a part of the crowd. That you are different should be so apparent from the way you dress, talk and carry yourself as to make it virtually impossible for men to keep their eyes off you. Here, one thing must always be kept in mind -- that being ‘difDating is not a matching game. You are not out there to find a suitable match for yourself. Are you? You are there to find someone you could spend quality time with and also have a few nice moments. Whether or not this encounter concretes into anything lasting is best left to the future. So, the first and the foremost, do not start with mindset of getting Mr. Right for yourself because in that case you are most likely to get nervous at the very sight of someone who even remotely looks like something of the proverbial ‘knight in the shining armor’. And if you got nervous, you would look like a babe in the woods rather than a woman of substance. Believe me, there is nothing quite as unexciting for men as a woman who falls so readily. Forget not, men are chasers and how much value they place upon the ‘catch’ depends upon how long they had to struggle to get it. So, relax, hold your head up, and walk on like you don’t care if the world was to end in a few moments.

Second thing, don’t ever think that a man -- any man -- is too good for you. Never be overawed by men, no matter what they look like, behave like or feel like. Stay in control because someone has to control things around and if it is not your, it will be him.

Thirdly, mix sincerity with detachment. Ask the fellow out with confidence and without even a hint of condescension. Treat him with respect but do not look swooning over him. Keep yourself detached form the person. Do not ‘fear’ rejection but keep yourself detachedly ready for it. Do not be a part of the crowd. That you are different should be so apparent from the way you dress, talk and carry yourself as to make it virtually impossible for men to keep their eyes off you. Here, one thing must always be kept in mind -- that being ‘diff

Mr. Right for yourself because in that case you are most likely to get nervous at the very sight of someone who even remotely looks like something of the proverbial ‘knight in the shining armor’. And if you got nervous, you would look like a babe in the woods rather than a woman of substance. Believe me, there is nothing quite as unexciting for men as a woman who falls so readily. Forget not, men are chasers and how much value they place upon the ‘catch’ depends upon how long they had to struggle to get it. So, relax, hold your head up, and walk on like you don’t care if the world was to end in a few moments.

Second thing, don’t ever think that a man -- any man -- is too good for you. Never be overawed by men, no matter what they look like, behave like or feel like. Stay in control because someone has to control things around and if it is not your, it will be him.

Thirdly, mix sincerity with detachment. Ask the fellow out with confidence and without even a hint of condescension. Treat him with respect but do not look swooning over him. Keep yourself detached form the person. Do not ‘fear’ rejection but keep yourself detachedly ready for it. Do not be a part of the crowd. That you are different should be so apparent from the way you dress, talk and carry yourself as to make it virtually impossible for men to keep their eyes off you. Here, one thing must always be kept in mind -- that being ‘dif

oman who falls so readily. Forget not, men are chasers and how much value they place upon the ‘catch’ depends upon how long they had to struggle to get it. So, relax, hold your head up, and walk on like you don’t care if the world was to end in a few moments.

Second thing, don’t ever think that a man -- any man -- is too good for you. Never be overawed by men, no matter what they look like, behave like or feel like. Stay in control because someone has to control things around and if it is not your, it will be him.

Thirdly, mix sincerity with detachment. Ask the fellow out with confidence and without even a hint of condescension. Treat him with respect but do not look swooning over him. Keep yourself detached form the person. Do not ‘fear’ rejection but keep yourself detachedly ready for it. Do not be a part of the crowd. That you are different should be so apparent from the way you dress, talk and carry yourself as to make it virtually impossible for men to keep their eyes off you. Here, one thing must always be kept in mind -- that being ‘dif

ed by men, no matter what they look like, behave like or feel like. Stay in control because someone has to control things around and if it is not your, it will be him.

Thirdly, mix sincerity with detachment. Ask the fellow out with confidence and without even a hint of condescension. Treat him with respect but do not look swooning over him. Keep yourself detached form the person. Do not ‘fear’ rejection but keep yourself detachedly ready for it. Do not be a part of the crowd. That you are different should be so apparent from the way you dress, talk and carry yourself as to make it virtually impossible for men to keep their eyes off you. Here, one thing must always be kept in mind -- that being ‘dif

self detached form the person. Do not ‘fear’ rejection but keep yourself detachedly ready for it. Do not be a part of the crowd. That you are different should be so apparent from the way you dress, talk and carry yourself as to make it virtually impossible for men to keep their eyes off you. Here, one thing must always be kept in mind -- that being ‘different’ is different from being a ‘show off’. Your desire to attract should be well concealed under impregnable layers of elegance, or else you’ll be considered a ‘cheap show’ instead of a ‘classy damsel’.

During a conversation with your ‘desired one’, keep your smile on and keep nodding as though you were hearing everything and were interested in every bit of what he says even if what he is talking is insufferable. The first date is no time to tell the fellow as to how little you like his constant jabbering about baseball or volleyball or basket ball or whichever ‘ballgame’ he is into. When on date, decide where you want to draw the line and stick to it. Keep things firmly under your control, and never give it over to the man. If it is your first date, it is advisable that you keep some distance because getting too close at such an early stage may give him wrong impressions about you.

Men take dating as fun, you, too, should. Do not take it too seriously, for that may leave you heartbroken at the end of the day. You are the woman and you are in-charge. Never forget that.